Give children a fulcrum

\"Give me a fulcrum, I can move the world. \"This is United Kingdom scientists of Newton in a Word, is also a subject of his struggle for life. Chinese parents are references to this word on education to kids, they longed to find a pivot, so that their children grow. However, many parents do not know what is the fulcrum of parental.??

There is an allegory of the pony across the River: one day, the little horse wanted to Ford the River, facing not to know the whole story of the River, small horse can\'t jump, uncle to the cow by the river for advice. Niu Bobo told him, \"the River is shallow, not however ankle. \"Pony while preparing the River, small squirrels hastily told him:\" river deep enough, I had just been a partner of the River drowning. \"Faced with two different conclusions, Colt out of their wits, rush to ask mother. MOM just said: \"did you try not to know? \"In his mother\'s encouragement, the Colt had to Ford the River. Fables where the most valuable, is horse mother gave the Colt a fulcrum for survival. The uncle is to let the small horse on cattle and small squirrels, make an accurate analysis and in accordance with the understanding of self, do their own thing. That is, give children a road to find his life space.??

To provide children with an understanding of the real-life understanding conditions, creating a problem for children make an analysis of the opportunity, children play a space uses its powers to reform the objective world, this is the fulcrum of educational.??

Read some celebrity son stories, a basic common ground, is brought into full play in the life of children in the creative, raise awareness of the life and transformation capabilities. United States steel Baron Carnegie, on the education of children of the most basic method is the \"adults regardless of the children, do it yourself\". Once, his children encounter a difficult problem to ask him, he is giving children the three principles: first, the teacher is saying what, is to define the second theorem how to speak of on what to do, what three are examples of how operations. Children begin to understand, aharlis Schwab tells kids: tell you the method, is more important than 100 tell you the answer. If I told you the answer, the next time you are not, because you have a dependency. Child to understand his words, to solve the problem soon.??

At present, some of our parents, on children\'s culture, just trying to increase pressure on learning, never having regard to help children build a good talent. In particular against children in all package too much, and for the child, children ask question not in theory to help children, but with the child through the steps to do so, children lost their self awareness and thinking, lost their self understanding and judgment, but he kept parents go, once parents leave overwhelmed. Some of the resident student not beds, not washing table, some of them not even toothpaste, so on and a lot, cause the parents of the package can also speak is doted. Results children anything. Therefore, to finishing well, must learn to give children a fulcrum. The fulcrum, as every parent in the ideas and points of view, on the method of thinking, on the condition of the course on child development.