Young parents because of heavy workload or for other reasons, sometimes choose to put the baby in the field of foster care or Grandma grandmother home House, babies at the age of three, such as kindergarten and then back to the side. However, the important period is the establishment of parent-child relationship three years ago, missed this stage, babies hard to authorized parents. When the parents meet baby come back, parents often feel the baby does not adapt to the new environment often made the following response:
1 and had just returned to their homes, kept crying and does not love to eat, rather than playing. Bent on leaving home. Mouth said: \"go, go sth\".
2, not close to the parents, face indifference, feel fear.
3, is a home that is very strange, dull at home, bewildered.
Because the baby was young, I do not live together with their parents, so lack of parent-child feelings. After the baby home, we should strive to cultivate and baby\'s feelings, available from the following aspects.
1, and the baby close to eliminate the sense of strangeness, and gradually establish emotional.
Parents should actively give baby touch and talk to the baby. Hold the baby, touched his head, face and body, so that baby is comfortable and enjoyable. At the same time there are more and baby talk, affectionately called baby name for he said: \"the baby is two years old this year, MOM and dad want to baby!\" \" Really good baby, MOM and Dad\'s favorite baby! \"\" Baby hungry? MOM to do good to eat! \"
Accompany your baby to play together. Baby love stories, parents can buy both significance and fun, colorful book with him, speak to him. Zoo babies like to play, parents take him to, play, side animal stories. In this way, babies began to feel their parents would like to come in with his parents.
2, to foster people learn more about the baby\'s life habit and with methods, as far as possible remain consistent.
Such as the baby is already used in the stool after breakfast, don\'t hard stool immediately after he got up. Force the baby changing habits, would make him do not adapt, uncomfortable mood more bad. If the baby is found some bad habits, initially do not categorically made it overcome by force, to be familiar with the gradually correcting it later.
3, to give the baby to create a warm, harmonious, loving family environment.
Parents need to mutually respect and love, harmony, and maintain a positive mood, so that baby will also be affected by the infection of parents, happy emotions, stability. In addition, parents also have to pay for baby love, meet your baby\'s needs in a timely manner and encourages each tiny baby\'s progress, make babies feel the warmth of family and parental love. Babies live in a harmonious, loving family environment, will feel very happy, very safe, on the feelings of the parents will also intensify.
Although parents sometimes causes for work, learning, need to baby foster care. However, to healthy growth of the baby, if available, parents parenting your baby in person as much as possible.
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