Germany children are good at doing the housework is famous in Western countries. It is learnt that Germany children even as early as babbling begins at parent guidance school doing some of the most simple of the housework, as in before dinner to help adults placed upright and other tableware, although sometimes is only symbolic, they finished the adults have again and again. But often this past practice down, Germany offers outstanding children\'s ability to naturally.
An important reason for this is worthy of summary: Germany parents generally willing to provide children with all kinds of opportunity to try, because they understand a simple, but overlooked by many attempts to reason – there is not enough, it is impossible to achieve ultimate success.
First, let your children to start as soon as possible \"the first\"
A growth of normal children, the 2 most naturally occur with the zusui out of the mother \"control\" (in the eyes of these children, their mother\'s care always be seen as to myself, \"control\"). They tend to shout: \"Mama, let me wash my face! \"\" MOM, I\'m not feeding you, I will eat! ”
Although the children first learn to wash very likely won\'t wash clean, may even wash edges to get carried away playing with water. Germany faces away from the parents see this and will not be sunk towel, or something else altogether. While most of the mother in the patient of the specific point of, performance of the children praised: \"really great! Our baby will wash up! ”
Children eat yourself perhaps for the first time will get a new dress dirty, or do a full table in disorder, but Germany parents tend to the \"blind\", but full of joy and sincerely praise aloud: \"our babies really smart, to see how well he eat, learn to be more faster! \"3 small ONI learning buckles on his or her clothes for the first time that a row of buttons. Being detained is not wrong, was fumbled and old also can\'t do it. At this point, at the side of the mothers did not show a tiny impatiently, nor the front instead, but patiently waiting. Children finally good finally a buckle, a look at the time, spent a quarter full. But mothers continues to be the time it was worth it, because after all, this is the first time her daughter learn buttons!
Second, it is important to encourage
4 little Boba Fett loved father to buy him a pair of beautiful shoes sport shoes, but he\'s still small, old learn to lace up, there are also several times to understand not open knot. Mother is a bit upset, of propositions to the store for a pair of no lace \"shoes\", but his father disagreed. He encouraged young Boba Fett said, \"lace up no better than eating difficult, as long as the practice a few times, you can learn. \"He also takes care of an old tie fastened on the back so that children can practise knot as more and more convenient. Sure enough, less than 3 days, young Boba Fett is not only learned to hitch, and also learned the methods of several kinds of lace.
5 small Hena is not only clever and diligent. She has learned to put my bed and fold their clothes, can even help MOM wash the dishes. However to adult eyes, small Hena do the housework \"quality\" certainly less than ideal. But neither the father nor the mother, make more attempt to let go of the hands and feet to make her as much as possible. Politely point out that while her inadequate, is more fully on her progress, they also claim not without humor, \"our little Hena grew up in the future must be a specially daughter-in-law! \"Third, expert analysis and recommendations
Germany famous child education expert Michael Schumacher will attempt to opportunities for those who are reluctant to provide young children with parents \' psychological analysis and pointed out: first of all, some parents particularly young mothers, always finds a \"comprehensive\" take care of the child is his \"duty\" of responsibility, thus everything everywhere want to \"give conduct.\" Everyone knows this way instead of deprived children learning opportunities, this way children not only the hands and feet may be awkward, and may also have a strong dependency, the loss of valuable confidence, may also have a negative impact on the future lives. Second, many parents lack the patience for the kids, they are often not realistic to require children \"overnight\", while in children setback occurred when it forced them to give up efforts.
In addition, some parents try various things for the kids of \"standard\" requirement is too high, it is also wise, the wise, and finally leave often simply full of their own, also consider this rather easy, saves time, worry.
Schumacher concludes, ultimately, to provide more children try to opportunities is an integral part of carrying out frustration education. The reason is simple: once the child is deprived of the opportunity to try, also meant being deprived of the opportunity for mistakes and correcting errors, therefore also unlikely success.
Germany another education expert weicige remind parents of the child said to let the children try to be effective, must also pay attention to step by step, children of different ages different features, pay attention to the different personality of each child, and fully understand and respect the interests of their respective preference and psychological needs. He advocated the beginning let children attempt to make some small, so that after the success of the children increased self-confidence. Then gradually increase the difficulty of attempting to, is designed to give children the failures and setbacks in the spirit of culture does not bow to difficulties. He also emphasized that various attempts to children must be voluntary, reluctantly or force will only backfire or effort.
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