Don\'t give children set up too high expectations

Jessica 10, is the only child. His parents as he set up a very high standard, hope he is very good, excellent in every way. In addition to the normal learning in school and activities, he has established many extracurricular activities for parents: violin, practicing gymnastics, as well as other children in activities. Parents asked in all his activities have become the top figure. Whether in school, or in the activities in the region, is considered rare and outstanding children Jessica, but in his life, but some parents have no alternative but habit. For example: he is very sensitive to others \' evaluation, slight murmurs, depressed, and behavior, often neurotic manifestation. He is not as fun as the other different age children laughing and playing, it seems so suppressed.

In this case, parents can say that Jessica is very cruel, because they set up too high expectations on him, that expectation actually undermine his normal development. Jessica has been cultivating a strong desire to own the best action to make parents happy. In his understanding, only he meet the requirement of the parent, have a status in the eyes of his parents, become important. He dare not openly to parents protest, but he often have nightmares, but showed his rebellion, his reluctance to do all these contradictions. Under the demands of parents, he lost a child should enjoy a naive and carefree life, and parents to a large extent, use him as a tool to realize their dreams. Jessica did not obtain one from the parents deserve dignity, if such a policy of high voltage thus continues, will bring the inevitable disaster to Jessica\'s life. Parents of our children must know we do not have the power to do any required in order to achieve our ambition.

To remember, dang we in children who placed is high of expectations, while constantly to to they pointed out that insufficient of Department Shi, we actually in makes they lost courage, reduce they of self-confidence standard, and in future of education in the, is to constantly to tried to improve they of self-confidence; instead, if we moments note to they each little of progress, and timely pointed out that, be encourages, we will makes they full has vitality, and produced to more do is of desire.