Although Helen was 11 years old, but it is a summer camp counsellor Assistant. Due to her fair, passionate, thoughtful to people, this is the third time was hired to do summer camp Assistant, take care of the younger members of the camp. Mother always believe Helen self-care ability and excellent social skills. Her entire summer camp life was assured. The day mother suddenly received a call from Helen, mother was happy to ask her how, Helen some bad mood.
\"Honey, what\'s wrong with that? ”
\"MOM, our original instructors go, Miss new coach Lisa was rude, for those of us staff very ill. ”
\"Then she how much to you then? ”
\"I don\'t this morning will my team to bring together within a prescribed time at breakfast, she was in front of people, the whole team, to scold me, let me not lift his head in front of players. ”
Helen\'s voice has some Husky, mother is very sad for her daughter, \"you are the obligation to help them, she has no reason to treat you like that, I\'ll call your battalion commander, told her to go with your counselor to talk about, shall we? If not, then, might as well quit working home, holidays should rest. ”
Mother daughter was not unjustified, according to the mother\'s knowledge of the daughter, she is very trustworthy Counsellor Assistant, failed to convene on time team, there must be reason in it, coaches without forethought put discipline Helen, her lost prestige in front of your players, really lost to consider. But mother daughter commented before coaches \' behavior would make Helen more considered himself to be aggrieved, and refuse to examine their own has no obligation, instructors in her idea of a further deterioration of the image, thereby contributing to the future working relationship between their disadvantage. Mother is after all only hear daughter\'s words, do not understand the whole process, eager to comment is inappropriate. More error is the mother offered to personally look for summer camp on the charge of the matter, this goes too far. Daughter relationship with their superiors to be handled by the daughter herself, mother should not intervene here, depriving the daughters deal with the problem of rights.
When the daughter to the mother when telling their experiences, MOM cannot of course said no. Daughter felt aggrieved, blue, mother should provide comfort and sympathy, \"honey, I can understand, you must have felt very bad, I hope with my mother to talk about can make you feel better. \"Then down mother can do of is help daughter analysis about entire event of always, let daughter check about own may some responsibility, while also to on situation of may changes for some discussion:\" new instructors may is rude subjective some, does not note treat staff of attitude, but society and variety of people exchanges, and get along, is you participate in this item service of purpose one, if you to came up with approach and Lydia Shakespeare Miss of relationship Department was harmony some, on you future of work will has benefits, also exercise has you and people get along of skills, you think how does? \"This mother to Helen some very practical guidance and help, and avoid standing directly to her position for her problems, the consideration and development of space left to Helen. Because, after all, it is Helen, by Helen themselves.
Conversation with Helen, the mother of another should not be in error, is proposed to Helen can go home to. This encourages Helen fled in face of difficulties, and weaken the Helen sense. Summer camp counselor was hired as Assistant is a glorious, described her daughter\'s work ability, moral was appreciated, and take this duty means that take on a burden of responsibility, to bring their own camp on the team. If only there was a problem because the relationship counselors, give up, go home, reset the honor and responsibility in defiance, courage and perseverance of the child\'s sense of responsibility and face the difficulties come from?
Society is a reality, we should allow our children are exposed to various sides of life and learn how to deal with them, rather than isolate them and the real, we want to manipulate reality. Communicates with the social reality is the most critical aspects of dealing with a variety of personnel, parent child guidance should be no doubt, the ability to help them learn to correctly handle the relationships while taking avoiding bad, but on the specific implementation to avoid arbitrary alone, or as a stand for food at sacrifice blister, depriving the wishes of the child according to their own opportunities to establish interpersonal relationships.
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