Sustained release jealous emotions 5 tips
Jealousy is the baby growing up normal emotional response of an understandable, but if the jealous emotions to long-term development is not curbed, it may become part of baby\'s personality, affect the baby\'s growth and affect his physical and mental health, so that baby will become an unpopular people. Therefore, if the strong feelings of jealousy over baby, Mummy it was necessary to correct the baby boot to help baby to overcome his feelings of envy, or in an appropriate way to vent his feelings of envy--
1. development of intelligent help baby introspection introspective intelligence baby baby, raising the level of self-cognition development is one of the effective ways to overcome jealousy. Once baby is jealous of emotions, do not take baby\'s weaknesses than strengths of others. \"You see, Lucy never bullied little brother. \"\" Jack draw much better than you. \"Comparison of similar feelings of jealousy to ease the baby doesn\'t make any sense, such a comparison may be seriously dampen baby\'s self-esteem, thus further induced baby have a deeper hostility to compare to. If mommy can treat the baby gently, and help the baby recognizes that everyone has strengths, also has shortcomings, then baby can learn to view themselves and others, slowly get out of his inner feelings of envy to others.
2. listen to the baby and understand his feelings when the baby were filled with jealousy towards others, don\'t blame the baby, but full of show tender affection for the baby in her arms, patiently listening to him describe how he feels. For example, baby, probably because of neighbor new little brother bought a cute little toys that are not our own and on the other side is full of hostility, while conscientiously listen to the baby, Mommy, can be said to him: \"Oh, you like that kind of toy, but you didn\'t, so you would be right? \"Whenever such a situation, Mommy if expressed understanding for the baby feels it can, but never baby said,\" you like that kind of toy, that we are going to buy a bar! \"This approach will not help, or even encouraging baby to envy the way to express this feeling, which evoked his greed and where rivalries.
3. reduced makes baby produced jealous of environment stimulation if baby because neighbor little brother has a toys and produced jealous emotional, because baby on toys of value new old no concept, therefore, he does not cares toys itself of high or low, so, mommy can for home of also a baby like of toys to playing some interesting of game, or using that can implementation also function of toys of alternative products to meet baby of demand. If baby for mum generated attention to little brother who is jealous of emotion, mommy can show baby photos of his childhood, told him Mommy loves him, but little brother is too small, just as a child with him requires more care. In order to deepen the feelings and his little brother, Mum may amuse little brother playing with baby, soothe little brother happy, baby in caring for the little brother to experience in the process of doing my brother and sister of joy and pride.
4. play game-game of competition with baby baby can provide more opportunities to experience success and failure, experiencing oneself inferior to others from the psychological conflicts of the kind, exercises of baby mental debugging capabilities. For less than 3 years old baby, you can choose the kind of relatively simple baby can better control the game, let him play with Mommy, and slowly transition to play with other children. In the middle of playing with baby, mommy can often discuss with baby winning relationship, that baby gradually understands that winning or losing is normal, won may lose, and lose might will win logic.
5. baby let jealousy be aggressive power envy has its negative side, also has its positive side. Mum can use baby envy, let the baby out of jealousy, and for the better direction. Such as baby does not draw very well, he might have torn because of envy praised children\'s paintings. At this point, the mommy rage has no use because of the baby of this behavior, rather than from a different perspective to guide the baby. \"Little sister to draw well, but your puzzle is very good at. Painting now you tore the broken little sister, little sister how sad is, well, we help small sister spell painting. \"Through the induction of Mommy, baby play to their strengths, and help small sister spell good tear bad pictures, but also have a better understanding on the puzzle of his own ability. \"The painting to spell well, just with no tearing as well as bad. \"Puzzle nice baby in the puzzle in the process of correcting his mistakes, but also aware of my strengths, he will be more full of confidence in ourselves. Thus, by this form of zigzags, baby finds a positive way of releasing his emotion of jealousy, and therefore become more confident, more tolerant. A tolerant and highly confident baby, of course, there will not be jealous of other children.
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