Different ages, differently
Children under 2
See for how long: less is, of course, the better.
Children of this age need to face communication, and personal exploration of this new world, these requirements cannot be met by television. You can try to make them some TV, but not more than 30 minutes to 1 hour a day. Child expert recommendations according to your desire to form habits of children.
See what content: you can see what TV content is not particularly important, because the children of this age, TV shows are strange and obscure. But it must be attractive, colorful, peaceful, lively, humorous, and so on can, when children are watching often sing jump, mimic the action of inside, or clap hands.
Increase the added value of television: how to increase the value of children watching TV? When children watch TV about staying at their in order to react to the questions raised by the child at any time, if you just need to take a break or folding clothes, simply to sit by your baby.
Boy of 2-4
How long: it is to as little as possible. Because the children of this age, the better the more you want to see.
Look at your children do things in a day, make sure that the proportion of time to watch TV the least. No more than a daoliangxiaoshi (including time playing games on the computer), you can make your suggestions then let the kids choose what or how long, in time to when reminded them following the thing to do.
Some families have developed rules for watching TV, such as before the dinner, which can help parents reduce the desire of the children are requested to watch TV.
See what content: TV content selection of worthy parents note that in this age of the child should have a positive content, there should be no negative significance of content, in particular, cannot appear violent content, even with images of animal personification of television violence cannot occur. Looking for those who are full of goodwill, love, respect others, and what people up and work hard to let the children enjoy, entertaining way. Cannot appear biased content, no bad language, nor contain any content that makes people fear. Try to avoid children commercial content such as advertising, because children do not have sufficient capacity to judge those exaggerated propaganda.
Increased TV of added value: and children were together watch, at least to occasionally and they common appreciation TV, such do both can evaluation about by see of content is suitable, also conducive to seize some on children for education of opportunities, to children were explained about this character why so generous, and kind, is what causes caused has so people of a species feel and so on, once encountered some was does not happy of content can immediately terminated.
Sometimes the TV as \"small nanny\" is no big deal, as long as you care will not have any harmful effects, it can sometimes make you avoid shouted to him, this may be better for the kids.
Boy of 5-8
See for how long: 1-2 hours a day or less.
This age children hope of watching TV and playing computer games, the longer the better, but as parents cannot let them free, efforts should be made to sit in front of them and the front of the computer within the time limit in the 1-2 hours a day. Balancing time for nice TV and playing computer games so that they watch TV much, play computer games time will reduce, and vice versa.
Electronic entertainment should not be the only option of the children pass the time, the appropriate books, art projects, toys, building blocks of various types of splicing are a good choice. A clever mother describes her experience, said that she tried to avoid TV and computers as a means to reward or punishment, which experts say can only be more stressed the importance of TV and computer, would be counterproductive. So she always try to use humor to break his 6 year old son was watching TV, she exaggerated tone son said: \"if my son was watching too much television is about to become a fool! \"Then she will learn to fool\'s way, this effect is often better.
See what content: see the content of the program should avoid violence and commercial ads. Advised to select the good figures, information about the individual, natural and cultural value; educational content and enlightenment on life, such as independence, overcome difficulties, responsibility, and so on.
Increase the added value of TV: If you and the children were watching TV together, let him gain more, even advertising can disseminate knowledge, you can discuss it and children is not a talking doll will certainly as good fun, or whether a snack
Must like said in the television advertising must be so good? You can also explain it to him, advertising is used to make you want to buy all sorts of things.\"For a little child, you can\'t always over what he was watching, so you have to do now is to help him deal with the things he has seen. And the best program for your child and discuss what they see, help them make the right choices, doing so will make you and your child feel more comfortable and natural. \"One United States education experts say. \"If it\'s not violence, if your child wants to see some content you think is not too good, let him good, nothing too big problems. But best seen with him, tell him why you don\'t like the program. ”
If you think the program is too cheap, then close it, and show you a firm attitude. Children sometimes need to say no, rest assured that this arbitrariness is not the same thing.
MOM assured the baby
Happy recommendations
TV is not evil, after all, what the lot of children can be from television, TV is also a window children society, if a total ban on child exposure to television, he might lack of interaction and communication with society. Right thing to do is work out family watching TV rules, such as when you can watch TV, when not watching TV, what you can see, what cannot be seen, and so on, there are rules to reduce the children always requested to watch TV.
* Limit the children watched TV time
* Identify what they see appropriate for their age, and have a positive educational value, such as how to share with you, how to solve the conflict, such as how to appreciate different cultures.
* Watch TV together with the children to increase the value of watching TV, you can discuss with the children, you can link content in television and real life, or even just kids laugh.
Watch TV-sensory needs
Do you admit that sit in soft and comfortable sofa, eating delicious snacks, look like in the TV show, is a leisurely and relaxing moments, is a kind of enjoyment. Why, then, for themselves and their children to watch TV while disturbed? It can meet the needs of all your senses, this is undeniable. Then, and let children enjoy the wonderful TV programs. You have to do, is not rejected television, not completely isolating children and television, but to know how to help children not too into the TV, and do not let them out of curiosity.
From a psychological expert reminder
Teach your baby to identify different TV image
You can while the children were very small, began to teach him to identify different images: News, science fiction, advertising of sth To 3 years of age, children will be able to distinguish between different things. Explained to his TV is \"entrance door\", as in a House. In this House is a different thing, news, cartoons, television, science knowledge sth You can also help children identify advertising, for example, in the TV Studio, next to the moderator on a bottle of orange juice for a brand.
Don\'t let television commercials about children
Because advertising some small stories, happy, funny, and do well, so advertising is always better to please and attract children. Advertising make the children believe-also make adults believe-purchase products that they see will bring them happiness, so sometimes advertisements will also have a confusion, thus giving rise to anxiety. Not because of a promo advertising a brand of orange juice how good, true product is exactly the same. Problem is something the child does not distinguish which is advertising, which is the real thing. This requires explanation and guidance for parents.
Don\'t hold your children watch TV
Important to comfort him, told him to fear (or happy) is normal, and asked him to write down these words: \"this will make you angry? \"When parents watch television at home, do not put the baby in her arms. It is best to put the child in a separate place, let the children\'s eyes can walk between the TV and parents. Picture of a child on violence will protect themselves, leave a little far, out of the room. If is held by parents, or during the meal before sitting at the table, he is unable to do so. If adults and not children were watching TV together, it is best to let the children stay in the place where you can hear him speak, because once he needs, he can say so.
Parent company is important
Time when dialogue between parents and children, whether on an illustrated book, also was a cartoon are shared, it is beneficial to children\'s growth. He unconsciously imitating the adults from inside, feel that the adults in their possession. When he encounters trouble when he disturbed the or watch a TV, even if he is alone, as long as adults will speak to him and comfort him and encourage him, he will feel at ease, even for
Same is true of people. Therefore, occasionally let TV when a caregiver, you can sit back and do something else, but certainly not each time.Keep children away from violence, sexual images of TV pictures
Reasonably speaking, very small children should not be in front of the TV, when sexual scenes of a film or broadcast time. But there are worse than this (such as war, corpses on the road), this image is unsuitable for children. Children can feel lust and passion, full of blood and the body will be frightened and overwhelmed. If he is a man, look at these images, also feeling guilty--for he knows not to let him see the adults. Even for adult ads are also not suitable for children. Otherwise, when his mouth out from time to time one or two sentences: \"XX silk thin sanitary napkin, you dry all day\", you would have been the stare!
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