Children of their own gender identity, usually through ignorance, curious, shy, different stages. As parents, maybe your stereotypes on gender roles should be removed, giving children a broad space for themselves.
One day, father with 玲玲 to department stores. Father Lingling says, because the father is a male so I can\'t take Lingling to female toilets. Lingling each time you go to the toilet, has to ask: \"what am I? \"\" You are girls Ah! \"People just tell her so. For themselves the \"new identity\", Lingling found very interesting, she began to care for other members of the House of sex, often have to ask everyone again, she will be satisfied.
Boys? Girl?
Children of different ages, gender identity for yourself is a boy or a girl is a development process.
During the two and a half to three years old, children \"who I am\" began to have a preliminary concept, they will use \"I\" or \"my\" to represent themselves or their own, and their own gender identity, is a child\'s self-concept very important link.
This phase of the children, from kindergarten to go to the men and women must be separated, and when the boys can\'t wear skirts, began to realize that boys. Children will be curious to know what is a boy or a girl, and mother on Earth, is also the same as father. However, when they also is unlikely to be able to really understand the different men and women.
Of the four-year-old \"gender\" began to enrich many. Their gender differences are more curious than at the age of three. When they found the toilet for men and women differently, often curiously asked, \"why do guys have to pee standing, sitting and girls want to pee? ”
Similarly, their own genitals or have had a curious, to see their own and others do not. In some cases, hear someone bring \"navel\" or \"pee\", \"chicken chicken\" term would find mysterious and all chortled with laughing.
Even some children because it is too curious, games such as play off his trousers. Recommended that parents as the most natural approach, also the opportunity to teach children how to protect your privacy. If you find that children like to play such games, it may be on the child\'s attention to other things, or avoid playing this game together children together.
The age of five, the children\'s interest in sex is no longer as strong as at the age of four, their understanding of gender differences, in addition to the appearance of different things, also includes a different genital. If you ask them, what boys and girls are different, most commonly heard answer is probably: \"boys are not allowed to wear skirts\" \"girls with long hair\". If you ask him, he may be a bit embarrassed to tell you: \"the boy has chicken chicken, women did not. ”
Similarly, when adults talk about sex-related things, five aged children will have been embarrassed, on his body are starting to become hard, children of this age may be required when changing clothes or go to the toilet door. However, most of the time, boys and girls can still play together happily get along, don\'t care about gender differences.
Equality of sex role identity
Gender differences in addition to the physical differences between men and women, strong social pressure from the infants are born constantly affect them, asking them to play in line with socio-cultural identity of gender roles. Early childhood, most deeply under the influence of parents and family, as children grow older, students, teachers, schools and the community, are slowly to make children play for him (or her) sex patterns of behavior.
As parents, we should pay attention to their possible impact of the awareness of gender roles. We should believe that equality of gender roles, conducive to child development is more self-realization of wide space. That is, irrespective of the child\'s sex, each child can play to their potentials, to display their talent. In this society, successful or not and there is no direct relationship between the same sex.
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