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Children are free to express their feelings

Feelings are caused by people from outside stimulation of psychological activity. It is accompanied by awareness of things and feel the emergence, development and change. Children with the development of physical and mental abilities, emotions will be more and more rich, ways of expression will become more and more diverse. As an adult, should let the children express their feelings freely as possible, to promote children\'s physical and mental development.


How to let the children express their feelings freely?


1, adults must first accept the child\'s feelings. Children express their feelings are varied, sometimes said to himself, smiling alone; sometimes beating the thing pleased, indicated by a dance of ecstasy, sometimes throw things expressed displeasure, indicated by a crying grievance. Children no matter what form of expression of feelings, is the father and mother, who hope to be able to accept. If not accepted, mandatory methods for anti-suppressed, children\'s physical and mental health could be damaged. Therefore, parents must first accept the child\'s feelings. Cry for children to express their feelings, the results accepted by the adult, children will feel relieved if were arbitrarily denied, children are suffering. Therefore, experienced parents when children cry, no matter how he cried no, was not to criticize or suppression, must wait until after the child\'s emotional pacifying further education.


2, free to express their feelings for children and the creation of conditions. Child has feelings to express, adults should be free to express their feelings for children and the creation of conditions. About two years old child, language expression ability gradually enhanced, you can teach children to sing children\'s songs, said chant poetry, fairy tales, children learn to \"sing\", \"chant\", \"say\" way to express their feelings. After the age of 3 children feeling richer, more diverse expression, they like painting, dancing, singing, reading, storytelling, adult conditions in those areas should be provided for them, such as paper, pens, paint pigments; song tape for dancing, singing, dance shoes, dance skirt; recitation, story books, and so on. Children have access to these things, will jump with joy, their feelings will further free expression.


3, support activities for children to freely express their feelings. Between the children shared the same language and feelings, they often groups together to sing, dance, talk and laugh, games. This is the child\'s own real world, their carefree, free, each thoroughly to express their feelings. For this activity, should not interfere in adults, should be supported and encouraged. Even if what happened to children in the activities in this contradiction, what problems occur, adults do not have to make a fuss, should enthusiastically give guidance to help resolve.

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