Children love to bully people, there are several reasons:
1, spolied Chile, overly doting.
Everything a child-centred on children dull at the request of, the children form a selfish, arrogant, domineering personality since childhood, in intercourse with your partner, forgotten community of the environment, bullying, cannot coordinate peer relationships.
2, children watching a movie where the content is full of violence, cannot distinguish between right and wrong is good or bad, mimics the actions of violence and bullying.
3, some parents in interpersonal skills brusque, persist in being unreasonable.
Some parents pursue \"children not adult\" brusque to kids, especially after the child does something wrong, indiscriminate loudly scolded or beat him. This not only failed to achieve educational purpose, contrary in subtle children become tyrannical, brutal character, when in the treatment of companion, show love to humiliate the wrong doing.
For the above situation, MOM and dad should do the following several points:
1, parents should strengthen culture and education for the children good habits, he is gross, simple attitudes must not, patient reasoning, discriminating ability improve the child\'s right and wrong.
After the child bullying other children for the first time, parents patiently give children reason, behavior and damage analysis of the consequences to them, children to bully smaller partners will lose friends the truth. Also should bring their baby to little friends an apology, let your child know how to interact with partners. In case of child offenders should be appropriately punished, such as their favorite activities or confiscation of favorite toys, be warned, so as to help him to correct the error.
2, set a good example.
Many behaviors of the child was formed under the influence of parents in the family, so parents should guard their words and deeds, help others, examples of children.
3, parents should have a choice to let children watch the film, television, guiding children watch content lively, healthy children program.
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