Children themselves playing for a while

Independent play can cultivate their independence, confidence, creativity and language skills. This is also the wish of the majority of parents, but the child of a practical to play more on their own for a while is a hard thing, don\'t worry, we have a way.

Baby 1 and a half, and recently have a passion for kitchen toys, often to the slice in the kitchen, and to play mother accompany, I see this in the information age children should develop his own play, good for him. But my kids they at best could play 10 minutes looking for mother, what should I do?

In fact, most parents want their child can be independent of the toddler play. In fact playing alone is good for kids, United States of pediatric experts believe that most of the one year old baby can hold their own toys, can read your own comic book, to catch up with the ball around. They realized that he can do something independently, but also often adhere to do so. Independent play can cultivate their independence, confidence, creativity and language, and so on. MOM and Dad can often be found playing 15-month-old children in their own time is always talking to himself, a typical phenomenon is the basis of his language skills development.

But at the same time, a child of and rarely play alone for a long time. Under normal circumstances, 15 minutes is the most we can expect a long time. So in addition to the children the opportunity to play independent of parents, should also pay attention to cultivate their ability to play alone.

Want to extend the 1-year-old independent ability to play, it is necessary to remember the four keywords: mood, interests, habits and guide.

Mood. Experts remind us that children play independently depending on his mood. If he is hungry, tired or ill it is hard to stick to her own play. Parents do not think that age slightly bigger children should be able to adhere to the time longer than smaller, such as a child of around 22 months, while his perceived ability and language ability are stronger, and desire for independence and more strongly, but he wanted mum and dad more closely related to the care and attention.

This time, MOM and dad cannot be forced to let child play, or forcibly increase children of their playing time, but should patiently sat down to accompany him, ask him what you want. If he is hungry, will dine with him, keep him happy, then slowly guiding his own play.

Interest. First, the game must be the child\'s interest. Whatever is a stack of glass or a drawer wardrobe of clothes upside down (so long as you can put up with this mess scenes was good), as long as he likes to play, you will put effort into a. One of my friends are purposely left out in the kitchen of her home in two bottom drawer stored boxes, plastic measuring cup and spoon, which is very interested in her 15-month-old son Jordan, when her son playing with the spoon and the box at a time, MOM will have sufficient time to do a dinner.

When a child after a full immersion in the game, you can take away or to sit and watch magazines and so on, if he threw the toy to you, you can smile and returning his toy, and then continue with your reading. After a few days or weeks, you can get farther, but remember to never let the children out of your sight, at the same time to ensure that the environment in which children must be safe, after all, is only 1 year old child does not have any safety awareness.

To boot. Just a brain child all toys are to show it to him, will only make him confused, on the contrary, you can certainly gives him a toy at a time in order to attract his attention. This method on my daughter Yao Yao works very well, I, picture books, and other small animals her toys are placed in a bedroom cupboard, every time when I have work to do, is in her room, when I first gave her a Ted the bear, then a plastic hammer, then after a few books, and so on. Every time she will be happy to play on for a long time.

1 child will need your guidance, so when the children began to lose interest in toy when you can with a simple problem to arouse his enthusiasm. If he is playing with building blocks, you can do their thing edges speak to him, but not directly involved in the game, for example, you can say \"Wow! You have the three building blocks, can you please add a? ”

Habit. Also in daily life of the law to attempt to develop a child play alone. United States Washington, a study of child development expert Claire said: \"the key to step by step, for each renewal, a little time, children will slowly habit. \"Beginning may not have children will seek your participation in a few minutes, then do not immediately respond to him, gave him his opportunity to solve the problem.

Expert Tip us, General children just finished washing bath or just to eat lunch in a happier mood is to develop good chance of playing rules alone. At the same time avoid select when you are tired or annoyed, because the parents feel may affect children\'s behavior.

Remember this process does not necessarily will smooth, may today children own also playing of is good, to has second days he on firmly refused then repeat yesterday of game, at this time need parents adhere to provides different of opportunities let children own play, may in children full immersion in own of game in the Shi, you has in inadvertently in the enjoy has a full of 15 minutes, no children of screaming, even no small hand to involved you of attention.

For one year old baby his game:

Baby alone in the course of the game, his sight and hearing have achieved rapid development. \"Feel the game\" should be the baby\'s main forms of the game, the following are some of the games, can be selected according to baby\'s interest for him:

Rattle: heard rattle children will feel happy, and so on. This type of game to develop baby\'s attention so that baby can actively adapt to outside life.

Stacked wood: baby

4 building blocks stacked into a wooden tower, then knocked down. Building blocks can let children understand the concept of big and small, shape, but also to stimulate children\'s creativity. Continuous circulation can also exercise the baby\'s patience.

Switch box: open and close boxes or other containers, fine for exercise child finger actions to stimulate brain development. You can put some small toys in the box, and then lured him to open, when he opened the box at a time when you see a different toy, would like such a mystery, willing to play for a while.

Throws, catch up with the ball: let children themselves threw the ball out, then come back, children can exercise the body muscles, and body coordination ability.

Dance: prepare for some nice children\'s music, like a small child dancing, especially when hearing music. Music can stimulate your child\'s hearing, when he was learning to listen dance music, and showed that he had coordinated their individual sensory organs.

Graffiti: several colored pencils or crayons, a blank sheet, will let the baby be one\'s own \"art masterpiece\" attract, but also let him know color, stimulate visual development.

Puzzle: buy a puzzle for kids, or tear into several unused pictures, put the child back to spell out. Children of logical ability, if he needs your help, to let his own work, can also offload support at the appropriate time.

Pinch mud: plasticine to create space for children of different colors, or you can prepare some mold, such as small fish, flowers, and the different shape of the geometry type, both to let the child know things and to play his creativity.

In the baby stages of the game alone, you should try to give their children choose color is bright or toy with sound, and often replaced the baby toys, game-changing place, so that baby fully enjoy the fun of the game alone. The other hand, to do a good security measure, even let child play, next to the parents in the child \'s, don\'t let the child go you to scope. But be careful that dangerous goods were the baby as a toy to play, such as pharmaceuticals, cosmetics, cigarettes, nails, pins and equipped with a cup of boiling water, and so on.