\"Stupid\" comes from instinct

When almost all mum about their baby, saying how clever, how beautiful, how cute, speech revealed between joy and pride. Yes, the days of a baby in the family is happy, is full of hope.

But for some time, many parents also said they had a problem, they are eager to behavior problems to babies mutual consultation, and wanted to find a reasonable answer. Those mother headaches can even be said to be creepy things, if listed, supermarket cash registers and can at least play a long list comparable to list of. These small defects in the children more or less, often adults unprepared: little devil dug nostril never bored, often in front of the guests enjoyed playing with his chicken chicken; finished concrete to potty-side to the mother, has been been potty he stir with chopsticks disgusting, he was like Act subserviently to shout: \"MOM, I didn\'t find the bugs, I do not pull the bugs! \"He felt very happy, only to find his mother has been ill look! Can you hit? Or do sit?

Faced with these, how do you deal with it?

Baby indecent little tricks

When you see you were 3 years old children dig nose with your fingers, then grandly rub rub your finger on the clothes, can\'t help but say: \"how dirty it! Pay no attention to hygiene! \"For that was hidden in his bedroom exudes odor but it was as a baby potty, you may think that\" really dirty, like a pig. \"But don\'t you remember when you were small done so?

Adjust your mind:

Did you ever noticed that some adults never picked his teeth with a toothpick? Everyone is not perfect, so we hope you were perfect in children, let him be your dream warriors was totally forgotten children these moves, for our animal instincts, and everyone has their own special habit. Growth takes time for everyone! We remove the tail of the evolution not 10,000 years, some people do not eat meat is to eat vegetables, some people sleep at night or molar. Do you want to say it should be criticism? So, the critical child care are adults in an abnormal state of mind.

You should do:

Remind the children at home when guests don\'t do this because uncivil. Over time, look a distraction.

Parents of \"free\" the children saw

Of children is the world of childlike innocence and worry-free, but their ignorance and curiosity are creating trouble for adults not less. For example sometimes adults think that the baby was asleep, some \"free\". The romance quickly drain when suddenly hearing the sofa came the voice of baby\'s curiosity: \"Dad, you are learning uncle in the television last night? \"When he slipped in? He saw yesterday? Kindergarten teachers will not be nonsense tomorrow, right? People really do not know how to explain that little devil forgot everything today.

Privately, MOM and dad have a headache, but when the family guests, baby also put my foot or doing \"stupid\" about sth My God, it\'s unthinkable! Parents tend to hate not digging three feet, hiding themselves: \"the child, what words were said, doing everything, I really don\'t know how. ”

Adjust your mind:

Behavior by adults why not gather together some caution at all? You can\'t put the mother-daughter bonding time husband and wife in late at night in the bedroom? Before you complain about children\'s eccentric is this seriously on this issue? Did go to the library or bookstore to read books such as about children growing up? Tell you something, in the eyes of children than adults in the eyes of the world of rich and colorful, so they should stress more strongly. They were not worried about being punished or be mocked, their emotional expression method, game represents the original and true motives, close to the natural angle. Not because you don\'t like to easily stop or change, it means that a massacre and perish out.

You should do:

Ignore what makes you feel embarrassed for the kids, children will feel bored and gradually forgotten. If you say: \"not allowed to say. \"Impress children often embarrass you in front of.

Children like to play with your body

Some children like to touch their bodies, ears, eyes, mouth, navel or chicken chicken, was his play with the object. If touch mouth, ears or understandable, that touch his chicken chicken eighties \', really will give you was crazy. In fact, for those who like to handle the body of a child you don\'t have to worry about.

Adjust your mind:

This is a normal desire to understand the aspirations of the human body itself, life is amazing, he\'s trying to figure out how he is alive? Why does he have a sense of pain? Why do people have these organs? …… Child\'s taste is special, but it is also understandable. Curiosity and exploration to compel them to have such exceptional interest within a period of time, once the understanding will be transferred to the other direction, for instance, he will begin to pay attention to different cars or trucks, began to watch cartoons or listening to music. Don\'t you worry about his sexual orientation? Or psychological disorder? It should at least wait until after the age of 12.

You should do:

Let the children go! But reminded him not to do so in public.

He, like graffiti art-breaking things

Children are natural predators, white walls, as long as you an instant, he drew a monster holding a brush in the above. Little alarm clock in the House, he fell not to open to see what was going on.

Adjust your mind:

If you just want your children well behaved like a doll,

Never trouble, never out, then you\'ll have to worry about his IQ or EQ! He was out of the matrix, it is no longer belongs to you! Child\'s space there are no taboos or restrictions at all, there\'s nothing wrong with the concept of everything to his own experiences and attempts to, no substitute for adults!

From human behavior often results in their hobbies, most of this hobby is training the day after tomorrow. That is on the adults in the child\'s mental and physical development have a critical guiding and nurturing role. If you want to let the child be a painter in the future, when he painted on the white walls don\'t feel bad when I smudge, should send him to the course or exhibition. If he is fascinated by electrical, although not see whether there is a possibility of becoming a scientist in the future, that is to put your alarm clock, computer or the recorder contribution out to let him \"study\". If you see him like the piano or violin, only contacts can play Mozart for 3 months, then congratulations, this is what we reach talent, you have to make!

You should do:

Quite simply, in front of the child\'s interest to open a door instead of a wall plug.

Believe that memory is also a fortune. When the children grow up, you will be very proud and he recalled that he had done with some of the fun of \"stupid\" things, so how he knows that he has a rich and free childhood space! Let him know he is one with an individual person, but at the same time also beat the society. So, these little memories of growing up will let him grateful for you! But also will make you successful parenting experience once again play a role in his life experiences!