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Do your children know how to care for others?

Some parents in children in early education to their children loved and, over time, developed a child everything to \"me\" centric habits, but do not know how to care for others. In addition, parents spend less time to encourage children to care about people and things other than itself, although occasionally because they refused to blame children for poured himself a glass of water, such as one or two sentences, but parents often find problems, did not realize that this is a problem, solve the problem is even more impossible.
Experts warn, not caring, personality development and interpersonal relationship in the future to their children will have a negative impact. Therefore, from small children to care about other people is very important.
Psychologists say: can be seen from the three child care availability of caring character. As long as the show one of the areas. In later life on the road, he will be considerate of the child.
1, cooperation: two or more children work together to achieve common goals.
2, sharing: a child with no personal gain attempt to give something to others.
3, empathy: this is an ability to experience the feelings of others. If your child is crying, he therefore sad to see you and hold you tight, this shows that he knows you now feel.
How to let your children learn to care about people:
1, first of all, concern for others to learn how to care for their parents. Usually through stories, such as \"Jung-pear\", to let the child know, respect for elders is a good quality.
People don\'t go around all day child 2, home, things cannot be a child-centred, when children accustomed to \"me\" centric character, so he does not know how to care for others.
3, let the child know when when he thinks of others, you will feel very pleased, and praised him, telling him: \"you have learned to care about people, I am very happy. \"Sometimes also appropriate incentives, over time, the child\'s behavior will be to consolidate and carry forward.
4, if the conditions at home, you can buy a pet for kids, kittens, puppies, small goldfish can all be so when children in caring for the pet to learn the most basic sense. But the limited capacity of the child, some care is not necessarily complete on its own when parents should help him, lead him, but not all do it.
5, to develop child care for other people of good character, sometimes parents clear and specific that they like what he does, more effective than simply preaching.
6, for children to create work opportunities, start to allow him to do some simple things, such as helping to sweep, take things such as bowls, chopsticks, he well be him gave him the satisfaction of success, let the children work to understand, help others very happy.
7, kids imitating force is very strong, and first of all, parents can become a child object of imitation, if the parents their behavior to be selfish, that would be difficult to request children will have good behavior. Therefore, in front of the children, parents should constantly remind yourself, \"I was a child\'s role model\".
Therefore, parents should in daily life, take advantage of all possible opportunities in language education and action on children, so he began to learn to care about people, to help others.

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