His play baby

Baby is how do you start?

Your baby can and other baby to play together, there is a gradual process of development –

First step: objects centre stage

Children in this stage was \"pragmatic\", when dealing with other children when he is not on their peer partners interested in, but also his toys or other objects. Ten months before the baby, even together, are viewed as live toys and other objects, methods of communication is the damage dealt by each other, or yiyiyaya to speak.

The second step: simple interaction phases

When the children have been able to respond to peer behavior, but often tried to control the behavior of the other party, or \"mimicry.\" For example, the first baby cried because of accidentally touching their. When the second baby \"with the fateful appearance pity\" \"scene brings back memories\", also followed the cry, the first baby saw the second baby to cry with him, seems quite fun, they cry and an even bigger.

The third step: complementary interaction phases

Babies will be run later, social interaction is most complex, imitation has been widespread, and has a role of complementarity or mutual game, such as an escape, a recovery, a reservoir, a find. When they occur in an active interaction, also entails negative acts, such as fighting, pulling hair, pay attention to faces, and toys.

The three stages of the development of children\'s peer relations tell us much as infant social interaction of form and content of primary, but parents should let the baby through these stages, not artificially bound child development procedures, or whether the child to the elderly, neglected babies and peer exchanges between the partners, which will damage baby\'s social development.

Early parent-child relationship with effects

Love is not love, gregarious not gregarious in fact is the baby can get on with the outside community problems. Infant exploration and understanding of the community first through their caregivers know. If the mother to the baby\'s sensitive, babies often feel he was in response to the call, their fun, games, sleep has in place of the concern and care, he would take it that the world is safe, reliable. Instead, if care who on baby of reaction slow, and cold, he of need often was refused, or care who replaced, today is mother, tomorrow is Grandma, acquired is nanny, baby no stability of, eager for object, with a and a care who of run-in does not smooth, he on will think this world change their minds, unrest, also on can\'t participation people and people Zhijian of exchanges has.

Parent-child relationship and peer relationships are two separate systems, but the two are interrelated, mutual influence. Parent-child relationship, especially mother-infant relationship in part predetermined child\'s peer relationships in the future, affect children later easy gregarious. Has a history of security, eager for babies grow will in this sense to their social relationships, make him easy to recognize peers or others; but has no security, eager to record will take this kind of insecurity of children grow up to in their social relations, peers or others makes him easy to exclusion.

Daddy can\'t be \"shuaishouzhanggui\"

Under normal circumstances, mother is of child-rearing \"backbone\", but that doesn\'t mean that dad is not important in the growth of infants and young children.

We found Ding Dong Daddy \"fade out\" family education, the objective tendency to reinforce his daughter does not love. Study found that the participation of fathers in family education to the children\'s character development and social development is of great significance. While in real life, on the one hand, father busy work, and child together time less; on the other hand, father children tend to believe that education is a woman\'s home, the kids themselves children again until.

But get on with dad, children\'s activities tend to large muscle movement, mood is more open, Termagant, thinking more challenging, the children experience the colorful styles and mother of another world. Therefore, Daddy don\'t idle your education energy, multiple contacts with the children, also encourage children to interact with other children.

How to get baby ready to Exchange?

For correction of children\'s peer with difficulty, psychologists have designed many effective intervention programmes, these programmes with a little work around, you can use in the home.

1, see the related content in film

Children like to watch cartoons, most of the animation has a companion photo story, parents right along with the baby, baby gain social skills.

2, nagging socialization of the children\'s song for baby

This provides a nursery rhymes, parents can give their children into the story, and often read to study with him, also will promote children\'s social development.

They are good friends

Small goat, to plant trees, met a small rabbit;
Small rabbits, flowers, met small frogs;
Small frog, jump in the River, called a white goose;
Small white goose, tour, tour, to an old water buffalo;
Line up, together, they are good friends.

3, encourages babies \"get together to chat\"

Generally, 0-3 the baby is good at playing their own, lack of social skills, but this is not a reason for them at home. Do not put him in the crowd, how he learned to communicate with people? Parents need to encourage the baby usually play with the neighborhood of the same age children, and is active in community organizations in a variety of family activities, baby used to \"get together to chat\".