Say one year old baby is one of the most headache, since they learned to walk, to dialogue with you, they get no organization and no discipline. Not a bit child yesterday, today and throw your own Spoon into the toilet, even if you are unable to predict what will happen tomorrow to give someone a headache. You should note that at this time: it teach him to learn the rules.
Morning morning 20 months, been a naughty boy. He took brush to portray his art on the walls in the living room in the House when he heard my mother angry shouting \"stop! \", It is is not understood, so the reply to mother after a brilliant smile, and went on his creation. Mother upset, on the one hand does not know how to explain to the children while he painted very beautiful, but the painting wrong. The other hand, even explained to him, he will not understand you should also try to let an old baby learn \"please\" and \"thank you\" and \"fight with the children\" and encouraged him \"and share it with others\" \"know humility\"; will find babies understand these rules it is too difficult. Even after the failed time and time again you will not be consciously chose to give up, always use \"grew up he will understand that these\" consolation. Oh, don\'t think so, you know \"rules\" on the basic course is very important to the baby. And the age is one of the time had come to lay the Foundation for this course. Look at our suggestions may help you solve the problem.
Not that children don\'t understand the rules, is he was too much of their limitations.
1, baby\'s understanding and language skills are relatively weak. United States Professor Rothbaum children, researchers believe that, for the one year old baby, and he compared to the rapid development of cognitive abilities, his understanding of things like have been stagnant. Therefore, wanted to let him use the poor comprehension to understand all the rules (even if it is very simple to understand) is very difficult. And when the child does not have the ability to predict others ideas. No wonder the morning morning blind eye to mother\'s attitude.
Cannot speak, express, can understand some of the language, which is the baby of the rules of disorder. Experts explained that the babies in a year and a half ago, although can say some of the most basic language, can understand simple conversations. But this language alone cannot make him other people normal exchanges.
2, baby also has no sense of time and space. Want this age baby understands the concept of time is a recognized hard. Maybe you tell him \"stop\", he can understand. But if you say \"wait a minute\", it would be difficult for him. You have to let him know that \"one will\" what exactly is a concept. Babies are able to understand the concept of time is: do you have any time to meet his wishes. In other words, he wanted a toy, you can meet him in time, he may follow the rules you have sat there playing; once you fail to press his claim to do, he would burst into tears.
3, child psychology in haunted. Sometimes babies like to undermine the rules, just joking with you and see you surprised or even angry face. For example, baby just learned to activate the TV switches when he would be interested in this matter is, have been repeatedly opening and closing of television. If you face serious at this time asked him to stop, may be counter-productive. Because he has obtained from your attitude a new game: as soon as I touch TV, father appears fun expression on his face, will also speak to me (even if you are a \"no\", I also like).
Baby learning
Notwithstanding the above unfavourable factors, that age babies can learn some of the most basic rules. Research shows that 12 month babies can treat people, through the observation of father and mother of things to attitudes, learn what is right, what\'s wrong, what is good and what is bad. Time to one year, babies can recognize other people\'s feelings change. Then you can teach him bite is wrong, people who have been bitten to be very painful, very miserable. Can even let him first-hand experience.
Before you teach children to learn the rules, first confirm that the children understand the content you say the rules. Just like you taught him to sing, and to explain it to him before the lyrics meant. So that he can recall that profound. This process is long, you need to double for patience and understanding, waiting for him \"I understand the\" signal.
Teach young children to understand the rules does it make sense? Interactions are positive. Just like you teach baby talk, he may not immediately learned, he accumulated a little bit of knowledge. Therefore, you should begin Church from the age of a baby screamin, learn to avoid risk, learn how to get along with others, these are the epitome of baby social skills. But you have to do a protracted war preparations.
Effective methods to teach baby learn the rules
1, next to do not only say that, in order to demonstrate to the baby. Simple often do not let children understand the meaning of a Word, so it is best to combined with your facial expressions and tone, make your classroom more lovely and more acceptable. For example, when your child says \"do not move the power supply socket\" tone not too tough, slightly with serious can, plus point slightly angry face, baby from you on the sound and look to see that he is doing is wrong. Conversely, if you are too nervous, is too sharp, also related a series of criticisms, the baby will return it to you the same reaction, strongly and you to do. You learn the rules of the classroom, it becomes a battlefield.
2, stick to victory. Don\'t assume that just tell the children a \"this is wrong,\" he will be remembered. If the errors you pointed out that child, and to ignore other times, the child will feel puzzled: I do what is right or wrong? And in order to resolve the doubts that he would keep trying to do it again. So give kids repeat \"rule course\" so that he can old skool.
3, to be a good example. Babies often learn from your actions
Learning what to do and what not to do. This means that your behavior must be good behavior. For example, use \"please\" and not be subject to fits of passion, to learn to wait. You can also take the initiative to the baby show your good behavior. For example, \"look, MOM for dad to read newspapers, we like to share.\"4, face the reality. Experts remind us that you can\'t expect a one year old baby to know all the rules, when you want to get a good grasp of education scale. For example, the child would instinctively to get things in your mouth, this is a unique way of understanding things. You should avoid like card issuing coins, easily lead to child choking thing appears in the places where he can. Also, the mother best long hair combed up so that kids everywhere to grasp.
5, select the right time. To maintain a one year old baby all day strong effort is unlikely. Once the children are fatigue, hunger, or in a bad mood, it is easy to lose his temper. This time you don\'t hold on him to learn the rules, give him a little \"recess\" time. In addition, for the baby, too many rules will let him disgusted. Appropriate to single out some of the more important to teach him, such as not to bite, power can\'t move, Rob people something is wrong. But this is according to the specific circumstances of the baby, if you think he\'s some kind of behaviour you can\'t stand it, of course, you can put this rule in the first place.
6, don\'t ignore a child\'s creativity. Brought to attention that the child\'s behavior is not entirely unreasonable, is sometimes his creative manifestations. As long as he does not harm to themselves and others, also was to protect the child\'s creativity. When you find he will use the jars in the cupboard when knocking out at their own pace, why not enjoy the fun with him?
Tips:
If the baby ... ..., you should immediately ... ...
Biting others
He walked, and serious and said to him \"doing wrong\".
Ask him to apologize to people who have been bitten.
Rob from the other toys
Other things to attract attention baby and toy back.
When the other kids don\'t want to play with the toys when you show the baby toys, and said to him, \"your turn\".
Some things to eat
Take it from the baby\'s mouth away, firmly tells \"cannot eat that.\"
Explain the function of this thing to babies. For example, \"this pen is used to paint, eat. Mother made a little cat \".
At the hotel scream
Looking for something distributed baby attention, asked him to quiet down.
Explain to him, you just sound suitable for outside use, but you are now in the House, it is necessary to hold it down.
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