How to face the wrong baby

Special disobedient son in my family, often in trouble. Me and he said that the reason he didn\'t listen and requires me to call him to be obedient, I really took him no way, education can do is play and called to him?

Mother-the problem

Renfeishengxian, which are not. I think baby make some mistake is a normal thing, there is no need to label them. When they grow up, see sense, naturally good.

--Sugar sugar Mama

Babies make a mistake, neither sit nor able to raise a big Rumpus. Both education methods were wrong, the former are conniving at baby\'s fault, which causes the baby\'s soul of the trauma. Therefore, whenever the daughter had made a mistake, I will reason with her, tell her what went wrong and what to do.

--Vigorous mother

Wrong baby, different parents will take a different approach: adopt a casual attitude, sit, not correct; some fuss, reprimanded, punished, or even render phase. Both of these methods of education are very biased. The former asylum, let the baby have not been taught in a timely manner and repeated mistakes, even over time will go astray; the latter put up a pageantry of the baby\'s heart hurt, even babies healthy personality development are also affected. Soviet educator of suchomlinski\'s once said: \"reprimanded called malignant stimulus is really a tragic situation, completely so that the children\'s heart becomes rude. \"Penalties can only reduce the incidence of baby bad behavior, but not for baby to develop good behavior and habits.

Wise parents will try to take the baby in recognition, incentives such as a positive form of education, now advocated by the appreciation education. The so-called appreciation education was fully affirmed the baby, baby\'s self-esteem and self-confidence through psychological suggestion constantly, making it not only the spirit of courage to forge ahead, there is constant progress of power. Educator study shows appreciation education will make some moderate all aspects of the original show baby becomes different. For babies to respect, to understand, let the baby opens up our hearts, voluntary access to education, this is the most effective form of education, is also the original meaning of education and very high realms.