Four or five children, most parents will reported that interest in the class, to all aspects of children\'s literacy. Indeed, children in this age began to learn something is good, but ambitious for one\'s children of mind sometimes parents can\'t help but go into another misunderstanding. Settled down to think, you have or are in which mistakes--
One misunderstanding: only results, ignoring process
Qin society of parents of children of which tune; painting parents children are only painted a full picture; abacus parents only focus on whether the child can count faster; dance society of parents of children of a complete dance sth
Results only much, whether it is to give children the teacher brought a lot of pressure. Actually teach kids, learning process is far more important than the result. In the process of learning, can motivate more organ, many feel, cultivating versatile. For example, learning the piano, hand-eye coordination of the ear is very important, patience, perseverance, the ability to overcome the difficulty determines whether he can learn, and sense of achievement after their efforts to overcome the difficulties making him feel pleasure. Throughout these qualities in the learning process in children, parents may not see, but have far-reaching impact on the future of children. Again, in the process of learning, some might just be a section in the learning basic skills, such as dance, a dance step to a good long time, to parents is the child several times what decent is not learning, but in fact, is to allow children to complete basic training jump dance and lay a good foundation as a whole. Without a solid basic skills, learn to a certain extent schooling could not hold out.
Misconceptions II: interest classes like ganshang on the weekend, have a parent-child time
Some parents do not care how much money on weekends for children called the interest classes one by one, English, film and television acting, piano and roller sth Kids busy, parents are busy along. Had a few weeks kindergarten on time with the children, and weekends are all used to interest classes.
Children in this age group is separated from the family, together with their parents, are the basis of their normal psychological development, if neglect of children\'s psychological and family exchange, you will discover that children become disobedient, love lost his temper, and so on. Easier in the future and their children on the psychological barriers, it is difficult to communicate. Furthermore, simply giving children a variety of interest classes, easily fatigue, tired of the children. What he may know a little bit in the future, but which are not essential. Than to select only one or two key learning, learning to learn other projects. Children if special on which projects have the potential, we should spend more time to focus on training.
Misunderstanding of three: to impose their ideals in children
Some parents as a child, bad conditions, none of the conditions for achieving good, and after having a baby, had their hopes in the ideal child. For example, a parent, English is his OK and has been a dream, from childhood, he let the children learn English in English class, and the result slightly bad one criticism.
Children is an independent individual, he has his own ideas. He knows what he likes is not like something, if adults imposed on the children they are interested in, let the child take on their parents \' wishes, that burden is too heavy for children, children learn is a painful process. Therefore, should respect the interests of the child, asked him to pick something of interest, for things of interest, children can learn quickly and well. Their ideals and their parents, or are you trying to get close!
Misunderstanding of the four: think is the real learning in the classroom, neglected in life education
Some parents neglect their abilities, think that only the child in the class, that class, let your child sit right on the small chair listening to the teacher, is the real learning, knowledge of life but turn a blind eye. In fact, together with the children of the time, using water, the Sun will be able to do some small scientific experiment, for example using mirrors and accumulation of the Sun and lit a match; putting iron in the water, and plastic, observe the buoyancy of water; these are learning. Bring children to the nature, let him observe weather changes, streams, its understanding of a variety of animals, plants, it is a how interesting natural course!
Importance to the child\'s education, is undoubtedly the most worthwhile investment, but not always investments ignore the child\'s feelings. Since it is interest classes, you must proceed from the interest, as long as the child is interested, independent learning, happy to enjoy the fun of learning.
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