Ting Liu has a lovely daughter, already 4 years old. Both husband and wife personal work is busier as usual, to send his daughter to the mother\'s care until Saturday and Sunday and then come back. So after some time, Ting Liu to find their daughter seems to have been some \"problems\".
Wayward daughter than before, did not obey. On one occasion, Ting Liu takes daughter out to play. In the supermarket, daughter sees a plush toy \"blue rats\", my daughter stood still does not go, have to want to buy. Ting Liu seeing prices are expensive, and home has got a lot of plush toys. He said to his daughter: \"good daughter, I don\'t buy, home is not a lot?\" result with joy, daughter has stepped, make a tearful scene, also sit on the floor up. Ting Liu was some odd daughter never before in this way, is very obedient, what has come over today?
After a week, Ting Liu go when the mother\'s daughter, daughter was found to hold \"blue rats\" playing. Ting Liu asked what happened to the mother. Mother says: \"buy me, child like buy chant, so I have a granddaughter, pet pet can\'t do it yet?\" at this time, Ting Liu realized that daughter in her mother\'s House had become a \"little Princess\", had become very headstrong and domineering.
There is no doubt that Ting Liu\'s daughter by the negative impact of intergenerational education. People to the elderly often especially loves children, vulnerable to the principle of non-accommodating and doting. Thus leads to the indulgence of circumstances such as nursing shortage and spolied Chile. If, then combined with the improper education, it is easier for the children form a headstrong, stubborn, selfish, eccentric and other bad character.
It is true that generational education there were some shortcomings, but its merit is not negative. Old people well-informed and experienced, they tell of, it is easy to enable children from profound education. Older persons have hard working, thrifty and plain, modest comity fine traditions and work style has a profound impact, such as children. The recommendations of the elderly, grandchildren are also acceptable. Loving more patient in the elderly, very loving children, enjoy, and be good at making friends and children, children of respect, understanding, tolerance. According to the survey indicated that mind over 70% children would like to be disclosed to Grandpa and Grandma. This affinity of easy communication, will no doubt increase education results. In addition, more time and energy of older persons and children together, reduces family stress for children, enabling them to work more safely.
In fact, any education methods have their advantages and disadvantages, intergenerational education course is no exception. Intergenerational education as an objective of family education, has a great impact on the child\'s personality development, as long as we can clearly recognize the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education, while in play to their strengths in education, conscientiously overcome various negative impacts will be able to keep the children\'s family education situation improved, so that our children grow happy and healthy.
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