Liang Qi-Chao\'s how to be a father

Liang Qichao was one of \"the nation through education\" people from \"on people \'s\" and \"Xin min\" desire, education as the Chinese back to medicine. He was one of a handful of professors in modern China, he worked in the school of contemporary Affairs, Tsinghua University, Nankai University and Southeast University. Liang Qi-Chao\'s belief of what was asked, he said: \"I believe is of interest. \"His life was also asked what do toes, he replied:\" take fun toes. \"Liang says that he always enjoyed, and XING, drip, he believed in the word, pessimistic, weariness, does not exist. He has confessed. Things they do, most of them are failed, or strictly speaking there is not a failure, however always fails. Side to continue to do, he can not only get pleasure from success. More fun from failure, therefore always live youziyouwei.

Liang Qichao\'s first wife Lady Li Huixian, Director of the Board of Rites in the Qing dynasty Li Duansang sister, 4 years older than the Liang Qi-chao, having 3 children grown up: SI-Shun, and Sicheng, thinking. His second wife Wang Guiquan, slaves from Li Huixian, married 1903 to concubine, having 6 children grown up: SI wing, thinking loyalty, cedar, thinking of the exemplary, Si-ning and thinking. His 9 children, everyone is great, all success.

Liang Qi-Chao\'s love for children full of deep and strong parent. He 9 a children has has 7 a has to abroad reading or work, especially in in his later years, he has 5 a children school overseas, he very Miss they, often to they wrote, said they is \"large baby thinking Shun\" \"small baby village village\" \"that two does not very baby of good obediently\" \"across a large group children were\" \"Group greatly little of children were\". From these in the call, we can feel how much he loves, loves his children.

Liang Qi-Chao\'s missing children is famous abroad, during this period of time. Two generations to bitter and whisper letters was this fun, sad and happy, they miss each other, encouraging the. Father the child did not have any didactic and accusations, only persuasive, full of true love in each letter, this love to become a force, into the lives of children, future growth is beneficial to them.

A 1922 drink, eldest daughter of Liang Qi-Chao\'s missed far overseas, took a piece of paper to write \"I think I think Shun\" \"think parallel to the back to see me\". To foster children, he was able to control his emotions and encourage them up. In 1925, in a letter that: \"baby, thinking, and baby Zhuang Zhuang: after you left, I was lonely. …… Think Shun leave me many times, so how not, Zhuang Zhuang it next to me every day for several months, once a long journey, I was a bit sad really. But for the sake of your achievements, cannot fail to be patient for several years. \"Write to think,\" what was so homesick, the wonder. But the days are extremely fast, you\'re three-brother has returned, after 3 years you will become a scholar back, help Daddy, what fun it is! ”

Liang Qi-Chao\'s often write their own banners of mounting into small hand scroll to children. He wrote in a letter to enzhuang: \"little baby Zhuang Zhuang: I think you have it, so I mounted into the proud for this exquisite small beautiful hand scroll addressed to you. Your sister, and her precocious won\'t Rob you of, you have to watch out for your two mischievous brothers, they will refuse to obey [comply] yet, if du part the \' shearing Wu Song half River \' means bad, small place, you get well. \"1927 Liang nephrotic hematuria often, more missing in SI-Shun. He wrote in his letter: \"I don\'t think you can, each to have a terrible disease when they want to feel like next to Shun in, I cast a spoiled child to her, many pain reduction. \"Letter, passing the friendship between the two generations. In addition to family to be heard. They also talked about national issues, discussing philosophy. So, the Liang Qi-Chao\'s treating children is full of strong feelings and very sensible. As a modern education members, Liang under the children\'s education did a great deal of effort. Tao of fertility has made useful explorations.

Liang Qichao was not only the children\'s father, or the children\'s friend. He pays attention to guiding the children\'s interest in knowledge, and respect for their identity and voluntary. In daily life, he was very subtle grasp of each characteristic, note their aptitude, each has a thoughtful consideration of the future and arrangements for their children, and seek the views of children repeatedly, until they are satisfied.

The most typical example of this is to think select school, and professional manner. SI village in Canada College is a major event, on which University? When he want to SI Zi and Zhuang Zi in Canada University, wrote in a letter in February 1926 purposes: \"Zhuang gu, summer holidays less advanced best of Queen\'s University. The whole family into the United States, is a bit annoying, so Zhuang Zhuang in United States universities other than one to two years, is the best. \"In a letter dated June 5, 1926 he also encouraged:\" SI Zhuang study how can University solid was very good, which cannot and does not have to worry, day zheli. I wrote a pair of regular script in small characters, mounted to her photogenic Prize, beautiful, but it is hard to take, probably had to keep until he comes back. \"Enzhuang did not live up to his father\'s wish, your entry into Canada of famous McGill University. SI-Zi and Zhuang College for two years the selected professional, taking into account the modern biology of Liang Qichao in China is still empty at the time, very promising. So on August 29, 1927, wrote to her, hope she learned of this profession: \"you still Puukko students this year, next year to select specific, you now intend to select no? I think you brothers and sisters, this is not a science, it is our regret. Don\'t know your temperament almost it is not? I want you to biological materials, as

This is the progress of modern science, sociology, and philosophy of the Foundation, very interesting without the hard work, the woman is desirable, after the country\'s biological test can collect at any time, likely to have a new invention. Cut to today, this door of the Chinese woman no one (very few men, you do a \' first \' wrong? There is still the same, as this subject has close relations with all the humanities, you Daddy back can do a big help to my many books in the future, also have to ask you to do consultant! Will you? Yourself if you think it is also near, then select it, choose one or two and it is closely related to contact subject of subsidiary. If your school has the Professor, staying in school or in the United States selected one of the best schools turn away, sister brothers will investigate for you properly, of course, you think your mind. ”

Out of respect for the views of the father, think biology is selected. However, as Professor of biology at McGill University course speaks well. Due to difficult to think of Zhuang\'s interest in biology, she told thinking into such distress. After Liang was informed, hastened on August 5, 1927, wrote: \"Zhuang Zhuang: hear what you say you don\'t like the second Science Biology, so, why not earlier told me. All that learning is best because of their close, often twice, you left me for a long time, your feelings development lately I do not know. I recommended subject may not suit you, you should nuclear themselves understand the Lord, when sister brother. No mud Daddy, sth I was afraid because I disrupted your scholarly research is really the way, so hurry to post the letter. \"Later, SI Zhuang followed my father\'s words instead of studying library science, into the United States Colombia Institute of literature library, eventually became a library expert.

Liang Qi-Chao also teach children methods of learning and scholarship, asking them to not only pay attention to the specialized, note also broad. On August 29, 1927, he said in a letter to think: \"think is too specialized to learn, I want you to take a year or two separate point after graduation time learn more knowledge. Especially in literature or the Humanities Department of a little more work, I am afraid of you because it is too specialized for this, and ended up near-monotone life, easily tired too monotonous life, tired of the pain, and even the degeneration of root causes. \"Liang also wrote in a letter to thinking:\": in addition to specialized subjects, and also to select a one or two on their entertainment of learning, such as music, literature, art, and so on. According to you three say that you recently read literature books many, very good, very good. You might have some of the music genius, able to work, ask him to flourish and grow the best. Letter from sister said you work hard too, from time to time some disease. You okay, I\'m not very worried, but learning the original need not seek advance too, like can look like, too much too quickly, will not benefit. I just teach you the second brother, saying that it \' You Han yin, of the self \' that two sentences, you\'ve got to remember useful enough. \"To the thinking of Liang Qichao said in the letter:\" where the learning always \' big fire through \' and \' slow fire stew \' two kinds of work, circulation interaction with. At the time of slow burning stew to order through digestion, harmonious and there, etc. Think you\'ve been through 3 years, this year being the stew of Kung Fu with fire. Not only your body good, that is, for your study meter, is not so cannot benefit. You see Daddy it\'s the bitter truth.

When children are having difficulty in school and when questions occur, continually helping construction interpretation of Liang Qichao, guide them to overcome the difficulties and move on. Liang Sicheng was once suspected United States rigid antique teaching methods. Design method and was not worried about becoming limner. February 16, 1927, Liang wrote taught him to \"don\'t ask the harvest, but asked hard\", said in the letter that \"you feel that their genius can pair your ideal, I also felt that a few years doing dull effort, fear becomes limner, you think, that is, your learning progress will occur during this period features, I heard like heaven. Mencius said, \' can and people by the rules, you cannot leave the people specially. \' Total rules where the schools are teaching and learning aspects of things, if specially to leave school to find. Rules merely seek a tool specially, but cannot but take this as a teaching, take this as a scholar, is specially Foundation after people learned ripe rules, is increasing its specially ear (not specially, according to the rules can be no greater than). …… Zhu Qiefan a great writer of great artists, often help to many environmental and incidental learning. Chinese ancestors repeatedly said to \' read thousands of books, traveling thousands of miles \'. …… After you return in the future, often look for opportunities to change their environment, expand their horizons and mind to or genius will burst forth at that time, the time is not within this year. \"Liang Qichao is well learned, stressing the cultivation of practical abilities of the children. He encouraged Sicheng couples to \"journey\", traveled to Europe, visit its architectural style and human practices, Sicheng couples of the European career development has laid a strong foundation, Liang Sicheng, Lin Hui-sound at the beginning of the founding of became Professor of Tsinghua University level, in the design of People\'s Republic of China and the people\'s heroes, history of Chinese architecture and other aspects of the national emblem has played a particularly important role.

Liang Qi-Chao\'s attention not only on knowledge education to children, also attaches great importance to their moral development, their love life, maintain a frugal, and friends. He hoped Sicheng optimistic more fun, said in a letter dated August 29, 1927: \"a person wanted to take effect to make friends, or reading takes Yi, also a little more to be interview Exchange, or unwinding to introduce opportunities. Not only friends, even in the family portrait you had I such a Daddy, it is hard every happiness in life; if you interested too monotonous, will be exhausted and my word, not lead my lessons, you would have been fun in your life, has also reduced a lot. Very much I was learning and taste, and I can\'t spot the plot here, but my life is unusually rich, to always keep rivers of tireless spirit, also have not not here. My calendar

Several times, fun turned the new aspects, it feels like for a new life, such as the rising sun rise, such as the new Dutch water, I feel it is this life is very cute, very valuable. I don\'t want you to learn my floods hold no return, but at least I think you mining the bright-coloured xiangrong strengths. \"Shun couple you re not everything in life, he thought. \"When the troubled times, to eat, to stand (in fact, more than troubled times so). A person in the physical access, as long as they can sustain life is enough. As for the happy or not, not on the substances can run. Able to find the happy in hardship, is only going to disk. \"He teaches thinking allegiance not to kill ambition. \"If a person will eliminate ambition in a comfortable environment, so afflicted realized sadly will also pass in an environment of ambition. You\'re dad difficult days are too many, comfortable days are over many, which looked really emotional kill yet? ”

Liang Qi-Chao\'s life-changing, but patriotic hearts never change, \"and 40 years, the brain must not be forgotten in a \' State \' word sth\" best role model for children. As a patriotic thinker, Liang also tried to cultivate children\'s patriotic spirit. Japan Shi, he made the children sit around every evening in a small table, while loosely drink the wine, to speak Chinese and foreign history of patriotic heroes are vivid story. After the children grow up into the school, Liang never relax on their education. Children returning to study abroad do, have a detailed consideration. He asked Sicheng in the United States after the end of the course, and then returned to Europe to learn a year. And recommends that after returning to the thought of dongbeidaxue work. He means wing in the United States at the request of studying archaeological period, home practice for one year and then went abroad to continue to learn, to new archaeological methods used in foreign countries to China. He is thought to learn biology and library science, after coming back home and think together forever as his assistant. He thought to loyalty in the United States Army after school reading return to Whampoa Military Academy. He invited Xie Guozhen do tutors, teach SIDA, thinking exemplary, SI-Ning to study Chinese, to serve the motherland in the future.

They are brothers and sisters and mother in distress, lived a poor life during the war. Liang Sicheng because early car accident injuries and spine, later won the vertebral cartilage sclerosis, his wife Lin Huiyin\'s tone is also suffering from a serious lung disease. At that time United States wanted to engage them in a number of University and research institutes and his wife went to work. Such couples heal is also of great benefit to them, but they answered saying: \"our country is a disaster, we can\'t leave her, even if only temporarily. \"Eve of the liberation of Beijing, thought to help the people\'s Liberation Army indicated the city location of the ancient artifacts, so as not to be shelled, making important contributions for the protection of monuments of the capital.

Several other cousins also are on the front of their respective services to serve the motherland. SI wing is archaeologist and long-term work in archaeology on the front. SI exemplary, SI Ning mainly engaged in social and political activities in the country. Peripheral organizations had participated in the Communist Party of the former \"national liberation Vanguard\", and the latter in 1940 to join army, for the party\'s revolutionary cause. Cedar and his wife insisted on staying in the Mainland, long-term work in the financial system. Thinking of the ceremony is the first of China\'s space industry, as well as leaders of missile control system in contemporary China, making important contributions to China\'s space industry. They are like the words of Mr Tao XING-Zhi\'s \"drops of his sweat, eat your own food\", and is the same as is the parent of Liang Qichao\'s has a strong patriotism.

Liang Qichao\'s thought of education for their children to be his education and life\'s most successful experiment of faith, all 9 children learn long, loyal country. Liang Zhichao way of finishing, we advocate quality education today is still a precious spiritual wealth.