0~3sui baby in a free and independent in the process of developing his own unique personality, by his will, his consciousness, his behaviour, his feelings and expression. But in this a free and independent of process in the, was genetic quality, and life environment and parents conscious or unconscious of effect, some character of deviation also will in children of who appears, parents if ignoring children these deviation, in future of development process in the these deviation may on will became children character of main features; if parents conscious to correction these deviation, so children of growth will more health, more smooth sth sth
Character deviation 1 delicate flow of sensitive character
Jiao Jiao, names such as person, bashful glanced shyly hid behind his mother, and firmly pull the edge of the two ends of the lower hem of a gown of her mother, discussion and a half a small head looked at the first meeting of strangers. Mother of efforts to free her stretch, wanted to greet her active and stranger, but now she is very nervous, people hiding behind the mother as a whole. Helpless mother had explained \"this child is this-like, particularly timid\", and turned again forced onto their front to Jiao Jiao, \"Ah, what fear! \"But is in such a process, Jiao Jiao whispered aggrieved crying------
\"Don\'t be afraid, get a nerve points\" is the sincere hope of mother Jiao Jiao, may this not Jiao Jiao\'s own hope yet! However, in many occasions, Jiao Jiao, nature will often express the kind of nervous, retreat, this is her a personality tendency, typical feature is demonstrated by:
1. Sensitive to external environment showed abnormal, outside a little change made her nervous and disturbed.
2. Less than of interpersonal, likes quiet familiar with some of his own game on your own.
3. Slow retreat; mood calm.
4. Dependency is high, reluctant to express their requirements.
Love to remind
Face of Jiao Jiao\'s timid and sensitive, mother of a hot temper temper often unable to control himself, but mother\'s impatience make Jiao Jiao became more the more timid, and not really helping Jiao Jiao growth.
Overcome personality deviation is a slow process, in this process, the mother may also need to make new adjustment from the following aspects:
1. Jiao Jiao in contact and in the process of adapting to the new environment, need early mother company, Jiao Jiao getting familiar with on the basis of, MOM consciously let Jiao jiao to express themselves. For example Jiao jiao to enter kindergarten, MOM can advance with Jiao jiao to kindergarten in the play several times; after entering kindergarten, playing a mother can accompany Jiao Jiao in the class will then leave, Jiao jiao to new environment have become more familiar with the process.
2. Set the \"zone of proximal development\" tasks to challenge, inspire Jiao Jiao inherent ability. The so-called zone of proximal development, refers to Jiao Jiao currently does not meet but their efforts can achieve a level of development. For example Jiao jiao is not willing to greet strangers, mothers can lead to Jiao Jiao in his mother and when strangers, can hold mother\'s hand and go to the front. As timid and overcautious embolden baby
Personalities tend to 2 bold evident adventures character
Strong suddenly see has placed in shelf in the a glass products, has on toys is tired of he, immediately to mother to \"I to playing, I to that Tiger, I to sth sth\", mother immediately to strong open has TV in the cartoon tablets, wanted to transfer strong of attention, but in this short of process in the, she found strong has climbing to has sofa of back Shang, strong is oblique oblique huanghuang to wanted to station up sth sth Consequences of the terrorist, the mother had to own glass Tiger gave strong, but for a while, mother is heard strong force sth glass tiger into a wall of sound
Strong always when the mother\'s nerves strained, while he may switch to touch water dispenser; for a while he could climb the sill sth Although strong forehead scar has been dropped out of the big, butt has repeatedly been father lessons, but he was constantly in trouble, some very dangerous things to do sth
Strong is a adventure-type character, typical characteristics of this character is:
1. Always in an emotional state of excitement, habitually hands to touch things, playing around to play with your feet.
2. In accordance with their own ideas to action, never considering the consequences, also remember the lesson to be before.
3. Like attacks, infringement, psychology are relatively strong.
Love reminder:
This adventurous character of strong bias, forcing MOM and dad carrot, Papa to slap \"cruel\" to win many times lessons, mother has continued to \"Goody\" inducements, but still could not make strong change. That do?
1. Create peace of quiet family atmosphere, reduce or eliminate some of the source of the stimulation of violence so strong in an atmosphere of peace in a quiet meditation some reading or hand-made type activities, so as to decrease the likelihood of his adventure.
2. Set rules on essential activities, and strongly follow this rule to strong requirements and constraints. For example on some of the display class of items, can only watch not to make a toy, which under the rules, between the mother and strong without any consultation or conditions of Exchange. Requirements no matter how strong, how risk-taking, mother will not allow him to take this article. So that the strong conscious risk-taking does not necessarily own are met, learn to give up.
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