\"When you ask parents to meet crying when your grandparents are generally what attitude? \"\" Grandpa and Grandma will meet my requirements. \"A questionnaire survey, 50% pupils \' choice of the answers. Currently Zhengzhou in the education of primary school pupils, \"intergenerational education\" there have been problems. Yesterday morning, Zhongyuan district fourth funiu road primary school invited experts on a class, the students attending more than more than 40
\"Students\" are hair grey, was wrinkled old man.
Homework in the children, the teachers take Grandpa to frighten, basically don\'t work
In Zhongyuan district funiu road four small, over more than 100 students were followed by grandparents living, and also found in the education of teachers in the usual \"intergenerational education\" far from parents directly effective.
In recently this copies on isolation generation education of questionnaire investigation in the, school 50% of students parents said \"own and parents in education children aspects exists differences\"; Dang children because unreasonable requirements was does not to meet and cry makes of when, 50% of Grandpa Grandma will immediately meet children of requirements, another half is \"patience told reason\", and \"playing called scolded\", and and \"ignored\". In addition, parents asking a child to \"do their own affairs themselves\", and most of the grandparents is considered \"the boy is too young, grew up and then do it yourself until\" and \"adults should help\".
In addition to issues brought out by questionnaire, funiu road also found four teachers teaching in the usual generational problems in education. Taught languages teacher Wang said of the school, students in the class did not finish the job, when teachers inform students \' grandparents should supervise children when writing industry, this student is still not finished the job the next day. \"Next time, I will tell the parents of students, resulting in the student\'s job is not only the next day to finish, also written so neatly. \"Wang said, sometimes the ancestors of\" generational education \"a more moderate way, broke kids is tough, develop the students some of the bad habits.
\"Intergenerational education\" easily create 3 big problems
According to the City Board of education career teaching and research section of Hu Limin introduce, a considerable proportion of children and grandparents lived together, inevitably \"intergenerational education\" effect. And grandparents to grandchildren \"doting\" often than parents more directly, more, but \"this doting has become an injury\".
Mr Hu said, 0~7sui is the key to child personal traits and personality formation period, if the \"generational education\" doting flood, will have a negative impact on children\'s development. According to a wide range of data displayed, \"intergenerational education\" in the \"generational\" most likely will have an effect of three children.
\"From the perspective of personality formation, this intergenerational education make the children form a self-centered and selfish, willful personality. \"Hu Limin teacher explained, especially loves children of the elderly, child makes a mistake is not corrected in a timely manner, often unreasonable desire children. Excessive protection for the elderly, not only killing the child\'s independent ability and self-confidence, also so that the child becomes extremely selfish.
If you have children and elderly people are living longer, also easy to make a natural curiosity, adventure, and creative spirit gone. \"Because the elderly vulnerable to the restraints of traditional thought, education and upbringing is lagging behind the concept. They considered obedient children is a good boy. \"For children occurred because of curiosity\" trouble \"and\" destroy \"the exploration of creative behavior, for fear of injuries to children are often strongly discouraged for the elderly.
Judging from the daily behavior, and grandparents often live together, children tend to become \"vision narrow, lack of vitality.\" Experts said, because most old people like quiet, does not love I do outdoor activities, children and grandparents long, imitation is the words and deeds of the elderly, easily lost and innocent nature.
\"Intergenerational education\" is not devoid of ancestors parents weaknesses is a key
It is understood that \"generational education\" is the most common reasons parents busy at work, there is no time to take care of the children, and grandparents care, educating children.
However, some people think that \"generational education\" is not good. She had the son of high school, she said the baby also grandparents home life since childhood, because proper education methods, children than their peers of the knowledge and experience is much more rich. According to the Zhengzhou Education Association teacher Wang introduced, grandparents caring for parents, also has practical experience of upbringing and education of children, to children at different ages prone issue, what can I do, knows much more than children of parents.
\"Intergenerational education is concerned, how critical weaknesses, play the grandparents and parents on the education of children of different functions. \"Hu Limin teacher recommendations, on the play\" child \"and\" parents \"dual roles of parents, taking a little time and children exchange, communicate with old, never abandoning her duties. \"For example tells the children stories after supper, takes children out on the weekend activities. \"Mr Hu said that, while often and the old chat, talk about the new experience of science education of children. In addition, spoil the child for the elderly, such as the wrong approach, discuss it to patience and the elderly.
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