Admission also have \"internship\"

Shanghai many parents keen to advance into the baby in the spring in kindergarten. Many parents hope that can make babies in front of the formal admission, to a kindergarten in the adaptation of a short transitional period, to resolve at the beginning of the year of \"admission not adapted\". By then, the baby do not cry for the early admission does not adapt any longer, not immediately adapt to the communal life and have a negative impact.

\"Admission does not fit\" is not a small problem

\"September school each year, there will be a baby appear \' admission not indications \'. When the initial admission, due to the unfamiliar surroundings, will often have a sense of fear and helplessness, thus cry all day long, disturbing home or reserved and a series of negative emotions. \"East China Normal University kindergarten director Wang Shunmei said:\" children this is the case, on the one hand not conducive to the healthy development of the child itself, allows children to kindergartens to resist mental, on the other hand, parents of the children looked also are more distressed, even go Park idea makes some of the normal operation of the kindergartens may also be affected, so as to increase the teacher\'s work more difficult. ”

Director Wang analysis: \"children are often also vulnerable to environmental impacts. There is a crying child in the classroom, crying with the other children will follow. Generally speaking, a class has more than 20 more about children and 3 teachers if early admission had many children in the class not suited, and thoughtful teachers will not be able to take care of every child. ”

Special stage with special arrangement

In the implementation of the spring for admission into kindergarten, many kindergartens organized teacher home visits, babies and parents advance admission do half-day induction programme for parent-child activities. \"Home visits are most important for the early childhood education a step further. Baby first see the teacher in his home, teachers like their friends feel the same, more prone to intimacy, easily familiar, to communicate with the teacher. Zhihou, parents can also take the baby to the kindergarten are familiar with the environment, visit the kindergarten classroom, bedroom and activity rooms, and other venues, a two-hour stay in kindergarten. In this three or four days \' play \', kindergartens can also schedule and home after the baby in the garden after lunch, take this baby familiar location of kindergarten personal utensils such as cups, dishes, adapt to the law of collective life within the kindergarten and read kindergarten in all types of marks. \"Introduction of bilingual digital kindergarten Director in Shanghai Kai Qin Jia Yun.

In addition to the adaptation of home visits and parent-child activities, or like intelligent games, outdoor activities and baby interaction interspersed in the induction phase of the programmes as a whole. Many Director also recommends that, in kindergarten at the beginning of the baby can stay in the Park every day for a long time, and let the babies in the kindergarten NAPs, training he slept alone in a new environment of boldness, wait for the gradual adaptation, you may cause to spend all day kindergarten. In the process of gradual, naturally crying phenomena do not occur again.

Good effect of partial admission in advance

Partial admission in advance, the baby adapt to the new environment effectively. Some parents begin to worry about their children, but many kindergartens or day shooting with digital photos, videos, play school for parents to see; or through the monitoring system of kindergartens, parents can observe children\'s every move. After some time, emotional normal children, parents have more peace of mind.

\"Last summer, start batch early admission to kids in kindergarten, proved not only baby likes, and parents at ease. According to statistics, over small class and supporting classes for a total of more than 100 babies, began in July on six or seven children as a group, batch entry, every teacher is responsible for two or three children. Adaptation period of one week; each after one week, arranged for another group of children into the Park, at the same time that has adapted to children take the lead, \"small\" allow more children to adapt early entry. A set of new methods on a trial basis, cry has significantly reduced in previous years, the children are easier to quiet. This year, we will continue as planned. \"King Director says.

Prepare for the baby for admission into for Omni-directional

Help children quickly and smoothly adapt to life in the kindergarten, not just mothers wish, kindergarten teachers are also tried. Now, let\'s take a look at the reception every year freshmen admission, has a wealth of experience of kindergarten teacher how to do, how they can help babies overcome due to the changing circumstances brought about by disturbing?

Preparing for baby\'s admission need to be a full range of

Respondents: Zhang Xiaoxia age: 32 years old title: young advanced

Title: Director

When the child is about to enter kindergarten, means that he will take the first step in life, this critical and important, he had from the family to society, this was a turning point for every baby, this transition is often painful. For kindergarten teachers, and parents work together to help your baby get through such a very important turning point.

I think that psychologically prepared, is essential for babies, baby has not yet entered kindergarten, parents can learn kindergarten through various channels live, be aware of. Babies often to visit the kindergarten, familiar with people, things, and of concerned kindergarten nursery some trends, such as participating in some parent-child activities of the Organization of kindergartens, the baby began to kindergartens there is a closeness, and admission of yearning. Fully prepared before admission.

As soon as possible in order to make the baby adapt to life in the kindergarten, parents need to understand the educational goals of kindergartens would be appropriate to the ability of children living, help your baby learn to do some simple self-service so that baby will not have too much after admission concerns, life and rest time to make some adjustments, faster can help your baby adapt to life in the kindergarten. Baby after admission, may be faced with many have never experienced the problems and difficulties, teach children to teachers or peers for help, boot the peer to establish the initial contact is very necessary.

Desire to inspire children

Respondents: Rong Zhen age: 32 years old title: juvenile level

Title: teaching and long

Admission of children, with a few of those special outward, most are not very willing and people, based on my experience, I think in the new admission of the first month, priority should be to stimulate children\'s wishes.

In the eyes of our teacher, every child is the most excellent, parents must give their children to instill this kind of thinking, make children feel \"I was the best! \"Has has self-confidence, active and people exchanges absolute not pieces difficult, also, because kindergarten in the teacher and children of Exchange are is with Putonghua, so recommendations parents in usually also more with Putonghua to and children talk, supporting small class of children also may also will exists swallows does not Qing of situation, this in 2-4 aged children in the is very normal of, parents also without had copies of corrected to weakened they talk of enthusiasm, believe we each new admission of children will smooth of adaptation kindergarten life of.

Encourage the ability of children to enhance

Respondents: Shen Limin age: 38 years old title: young advanced

Title: teaching and long

Baby enters kindergarten life, presenting in front of the main issues, it should be said to be the challenges of life, this is also the parents most worried about things, for example: eating, washing, dressing, sleeping, and so on, when the baby at home before, is grandfather, grandmother and other family members to take care of. Now, a class teacher must manage more than 20 kids, where life will certainly take care of the poor, baby face the unfamiliar environment and teacher, have many not adapt.

To solve the problems faced by children living parents the cooperation is also very important. Teacher kindergarten requirements of communal life, as well as the children tell parents every performance, hope that parents can also so asking a child in the home, learn their things done. Only the joint cooperation of home, children\'s progress is significantly effective.

The first day to the kindergarten

Bathing in a kindergarten! Because no supporting classes this semester, he was on a little class. Freshmen in the class 10, heard a total of more than 40 people.

This is a major event in the MU life, my baby, he will leave his father, to independence, to society. Do you want to enter kindergarten, we conducted a fierce struggle, finally decided to send him to. With the admission time is getting closer, I worried that tension, I cannot be expected he would be kind of a shock and change, and he is some kind of response: sick? Personality change? Behavior change? Of these, we have no control over. Total to engage the community in children, will leave his father, I wish the best to create sterile greenhouse for him, but how?

We busy his clothing names, buying bedding, he is carefree, with father all chortled with jokes. This winter he was too happy, father on holiday every day to accompany him. \"Honeymoon\" period, which ended at once, but he didn\'t know. Although we often told him, going to kindergarten, to keep many children and teachers together, he did not fully understand, not to heart.

Kindergarten affiliated kindergarten of Dad schools, far away from home, from the father work location is less than 10 minutes. \"Pick up\" this glorious task handed over to father. But today I made a fake, and with my father to send him. Wet, cold air to remove the water, like damp all over the world, people feel good.

At 8 o\'clock on time to the kindergarten, found little class bedrooms and classrooms. Teachers are busy layout table and Chair bed is, bang bang. I don\'t know which one is the teacher, which is the parent. Everything is chaos no Ogata, angry with the enthusiasm I thought kindergartens are very different. MU is not willing to stay in the room, pulled me in kindergarten next to the recreational facilities, touch here, there and see.

We made good bathing in a bed, something made up. To 8:30, to the classroom to see, at last they are somehow, teachers are warmly greeted MU. When they heard that new students, a teacher of Zhang Mu intimacy, Mu dodged. I pulled him out and told him that this is a teacher, like MU. Teachers holding a bottle of snacks, smiling in front of bathing in a shake shake. MU of eyes stare. Chang said with beaming: \"want to eat? Want to eat well with me, and drink urine has to tell me. \"Don\'t know Mu listening did not, he just stared at the teacher\'s hand and quietly said:\" turn it on, open here. \"Teacher Chang opened, Mu around her, eat very hard, light or stage fright with people, also showed another girl eat snacks. Teachers say very good, admission will be in a position on the first day. Of course, this is because we were there, he has a sense of security. We give our teachers give a few words, see bathing in a stable condition, walked quietly. Father walked in behind, out of the classroom door heard Mu said: \"mother? \"And then again nothing happens.

Go to the kindergarten door I worry about, and run back to peek at the door of the classroom. MU is seen with his back to me, also in eating snacks round the teacher. The teacher said, \"Okay, pretty good. \"I had to go away. Until out of the kindergarten, I have been upset, anxious, unwilling to leave. Father was angry and said knew shouldn\'t let you send. He was a son of students for admission into the first day, Grandma has been kindergarten waiting at the door one day, which is not to, what things do not do. I just like the old ladies alike!

I think to bathing in a home at 12 o\'clock noon, entrance on the first day, could not stay too long, for fear he has psychological shadows. Father agreed. On her way home after more than one Office, happened to see one of my classmates are busy. He also sent his son for admission into the, but his son has medium back on, is not new. Father hard pull I went in, saying that it is letting people picking picking me up. Enlighten is a success of my students, to man\'s rational he advised me: you are not willing, for he is good, I\'m afraid he will eat more in the future. I hard heart, went to work.

Father 11 o\'clock back to kindergarten, call me later reported: he heard Mu off and continued to cry for a moment, not loudly. The teacher said, Mu wouldn\'t let people close to him, not to help him pull off pants urine, not to play with people. He only recognized teacher-a person, if the teacher he wiped the tears, he can also accept, touch touching other people may not. Noon meal do not eat, feed would shoot out of your mouth. Had to give him a biscuit to eat. After listening to my heart in pain. He has always been a very strong self-protection awareness of people, in addition to the family, does not like to be held, does not like to be affectionate. MOM and dad suddenly gone, let him stay alone in a strange environment, and how he is not afraid? Anxiety, insecurity, he only kept cry cry. But the teacher said, just admission of children in this way, he has been fairly good. So dad did not pick him up.

The 3 o\'clock in the afternoon, my father went to kindergarten. This time, bathing in a sleep. Teachers say bathing in a noon refused to sleep, head has been kept, or not to allow the teacher to help him. The teacher had to tell his story, said Wolf had to eat nor sleep children. MU said: \"there\'s no wolf, Wolf at the Zoo! \"He said to his father, the teacher said there was no father, teacher like you too. He said his dad at work, teachers go to! His expression was surprised by teacher. The 2 o\'clock, he finally fell asleep. Eat a bowl of powder after.

4:30 P.M., father to the kindergarten for the third time. Teacher out of mu, Mu said: \"my father. \"Tears will flow down. But no cry, and soon diverted attention, do not cry.

I got home at 6 o\'clock. My baby, crying because, he has turned hoarse voice. Eye irritation, there are not wiping tears on his face.

Let baby fall in love with kindergarten

Separation anxiety and haunted

Kids kindergarten crying happens more common, mainly children of separation anxiety occurs, it is a mood disorder in children. General child rarely happen, occur in kindergartens, the kindergarten, unwilling to leave his father time on crying is unwilling to even up to 2-3 months. Children referred to a kindergarten for crying, fear, sometimes lounge dress from the beginning, in the morning, or even directly asked parents: not kindergarten today are good. This is primarily because when children at the age of 1-2 has been adapted to the family environment, have strong dependence on the mother, once from families into kindergartens, saw many familiar faces in the strange environment immediately frustrated and upset, and anxiety, panic, fear not to see mother.

In General, in the ability of children independent of life difference or relationship between the caregiver and intimacy, separation anxiety of the performance of the more serious.

Comes from parents

In the kindergarten, there will always be some children in a class of separation anxiety occurs. Why other children, kindergarten, their child will this anxiety? Reason is going back to the parents here, this family environment, rearing and have a certain relationship.

Used to have a mother with daughter June came to see a psychiatrist. June is reluctant to kindergarten, after detailed inquiries, the original June relationship between father and mother of discord, they quarrel, June is always hiding in the House not out of June more than kindergarten, afraid to separate from the mother, worried mother not her. In this insecure children who grow up in families, generally more timid, shy and prone to separation anxiety.

In addition, too loved children by parents are also prone to this problem. At home, parents helping children handle all the things, someone to help with dressing, feeding, what children themselves have to worry about. But nothing in kindergarten, are prone to lost and uncomfortable feeling.