Children have no desire to do?

Aggressive, is hard to move forward, determined to make a difference in a mental quality. Child\'s desire, which is a positive motive. Some children lack the motivation, the reason, there are the following:

1, MOM and Dad of contusions. Child was aggressive, but parents desire of his dismissive, even words often reveal the irony, sarcasm was intended. Children\'s initiative is to combat, and some simply abandoned the effort.

Effect of 2, family environment. In some families, MOM and dad lacked ambition, no progress, life mediocre mediocre, neglect of children\'s emotional and intellectual needs. The children did not have clear behavioral guidance and requirements, rarely talking with children, games, stories and suppress children\'s self-motivated.

3, the children\'s own problems. Children younger, fun, cannot make their own evaluation, not self-regulation, self-monitoring, therefore, their education, self motivation.

So, how to better motivate children\'s self-motivated then?

1, monotonous, dull family environment, limiting children some of the formation and development of good quality, parents must support their children attend the kindergarten group activities, educational child care collective, children catch up with the advanced in collective activities, encouraging children\'s self-motivated.

2, MOM and dad with their own career and entrepreneurial spirit to influence children, subtle for children have a positive effect. Obtained whatever the majority is an imitation of the child, parents \' words and deeds affect children. Therefore, parents and other adults must, starting from their own family with their own kids actively aggressive words and actions, so that more effective than simple didactic.

3, upon reasonable request to their children. The saying goes: \"love, pine is harmful, no matter not teaching bad. \"Only in the life of a child in the family, both MOM and dad tenderness and warm, and feel the sincere heart parents set strict demands on themselves, education of parents to have a huge incentive.