United States child psychologist after years of research, attention to the children happy personality, conducive to the healthy development of children. So, how should children happy character? The following aspects can provide a reference for you:
First, close ties with the children. In the process of cultivating happiness character, friendship plays an important role. So parents need to encourage children to play together with peers, let them learn a pleasant harmonious interpersonal.
Second, provide children with opportunities for decision-making and power. Happy personality cultivation and guidance and control the behavior of children is closely linked. Parents should try to provide opportunities for children, the child was brought up to know how to use their own decision-making power.
Third, teach children to adjust State of mind. Children should be made to understand, some happiness in one\'s life, the secret is to have strong psychological adaptable status, which they quickly cheer up from the disappointment. When a child is subject to some kind of setback, to let him know that the future is always bright and teach children to pay attention to adjusting psychological state, makes him happy mood.
IV, possessive restrict children\'s substance. Because giving children too much can make it have a \"source of gain is to be happy\" such an illusion, so they should be combined with case education, life of happy not only with material wealth have equal.
V, foster children a wide range of interest. Usual attention to children\'s interests. Selection for children offers a variety of interests, and give the children the necessary boot, kids hobby widely, naturally easy to have a happy personality.
VI, maintain a happy and harmonious family life. Family harmony, happy children character one of the main factors. There is information indicating that, grew up in a happy family of children, adults can live happy than unhappy home grown up children to a lot more.
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