A few days, Tintin had 9 months, watching the Tintin day look, MOM and dad not to mention more beautiful, no matter how busy I am tired, they just see the cute baby, you forget all your troubles. Parents and share the joy and happiness to the growth of Tintin.
But in recent days, was mother headache by Tintin. What things? The original Tintin see no stranger. Whenever you see came home guest, would love to see at a glance and began crying, how to coax how funny regardless, only had to take him to another room. Take the baby to play outside, many neighbors are fond of teasing him, baby cries when she is also seen people curl one\'s lip, so much so that others dare not move him. In the evening, my mother was unable to leave, have to be a mum soothe to sleep. Mother cannot help but wonder, what\'s wrong with the baby, baby why be shy with strangers so badly it?
Analysis:
Baby just born, not shy concept, because the baby\'s sight and intelligence are not able to distinguish which is the parent, which is aunt, at this time, no matter who is holding him, he will not fear, as long as it was in the side, he is very quiet. As the baby growing up day by day, rapid development of baby\'s intelligence, vision, to about 6 months, he has been able to identify acquaintances and strangers. To meet every day parents are the first of his two babies easily established good relationships with my parents, to parental attachment and trust. Unfamiliar faces, babies not trusted. When the stranger when close to the baby, baby sense of insecurity, will be seeking parental protection. Bring baby to strange places, babies also have a feeling of insecurity. The situation is completely normal, shows that the baby\'s psychology is normal and healthy.
If the baby be shy with strangers very ill, and for periods of several months, parents attention will, because it would impede the baby know things, narrowing the range of baby\'s cognitive and, therefore, for shy baby issue, parents can teach children to learn step by step and stranger contact, so baby don\'t be shy with strangers.
Countermeasures:
Complex of unlocking the baby be shy with strangers, not one or two days of intensive, often family spent some time and effort to develop. In the usual care, parents will note some small points:
1. Awareness gradually stranger
To the stranger in the House, not to rush to hold babies to strangers, introduced to the guests or guests holding the baby, or you\'ll cause children to psychological pressure and insecurity, he appears nervous and afraid of crying. Then you can leave the child in her arms, talking to adults, observation of the child for some time and are familiar with, after gradually dissipated his fear, would be pleased and guest interaction. If a child came crying and holding him immediately from farther away, after a while and then let the children closer to the guest.
2. Accompany the baby
Into a strange environment, baby would you grab more tightly, then you don\'t leave the baby, and should accompany the baby, and baby with new environments, and some of the interesting things in the new environment means for babies to see, let baby touching a touch, making baby unfamiliar environment become more familiar with. After the baby is familiar with, will be able to let go of the hands and feet to play.
3. Reservoir cats
When the baby is 3 months, you can play with babies in the game. For the baby: not in things that do not exist. Then, you can use silk scarf covering the baby\'s face, then moves from baby face scarves, baby says: \"the cat. \"Or use scarves hide your face, and then move, baby usually eye glued to, to see. Which makes baby a preliminary understanding, something not seen to exist, but temporarily invisible. When baby is eight or nine months, you can hide it farther away, such as hiding behind the door, into the other room, enable the baby to adapt a short time difference with you. And gradually build up trust and other care of people. So that baby does not cling to a person not only.
4. Take the baby to outdoor
As long as the weather is good, every day should let the baby to outdoor activities, one can understand many things, and secondly to contact many different faces. These faces, start baby fear, but a long, will grow without fear.
5. Baby activities
Parents can spontaneously or to the institutions, to participate in some activities for infants, increase your baby\'s sense of participation, expanding the social range of baby and even baby, baby are familiar with the various faces, learn to get along well with strangers in a strange environment, babies are no longer afraid.
Note:
Take baby out, don\'t leave your baby too far, our purpose is to let your baby know see the stranger without fear, rather than a baby can leave the parental care of any play. If the baby has a loss of experience, will make parents anxious, also baby young mind leaving life-long psychological shadows cannot be forgotten.
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