Ying ying MA is a female, striving for perfection in all things. Since born Ying ying, she constantly consult predecessors childcare experience, also read a lot of parenting books, hope Ying ying training into a smart, cute, polite and healthy baby. However, Ying ying began two years of often angry, once before in toy stores Act shamelessly, lying on the ground crying shout, which makes image hsien\'s mother felt embarrassment and distress, that she began to doubt whether he is a failed mother?
\"Little angel\" anger, new MOM and dad might like Ying ying as confused, frustrated and helpless mother: MOM and dad are out of control, also lost his temper and even emotional impulses cases of corporal punishment of children; some parents will bow to what children want to, causing the child to lose his temper to control adults. In fact, anger only child emotional catharsis, strong emotions cannot be negative, emotions – an outbreak of anger also needs to be the correct understanding and treatment. Recognizing this, parents should guide their children in a way acceptable to the people to express their inner feelings, not to punish or give in to quell the anger.
Expressing anger because of \"age\" varies
How children express anger is different as you grow older. Children tend to cry before age 1 to express anger; about 2 years old children is to rely on the floor crying, throw toys eat or not to express anger; 3 or then a little child will even have a strong attack or of reprisals.
Cause of anger
When baby needs cannot be met, there will be a most original anger, for example, hungry, wet diapers, toys away or mother left, they are as they burst into tears. However, more likely to calm the anger of this period.
1 about child care had begun to explore the world, natural curiosity he saw everything you want to touch, to play, to taste, but not adults always that it can not, forced the children upset.
Children aged 2 to do anything, but because of poor physical and mental development is not mature enough to do, often make their own gas is sky-high.
About 3 years old child language ability is not enough, and against the emergence of mental, when his behavior is constrained or when the demand was rejected, it is easy to hit.
Of course, physical discomfort, inadequate sleep, hunger, thirst, being a fool, was jamming and other factors will also encourage children angry mood.
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