Washing machine, toilet and even the neighbor\'s pet dog, these commonplace things in your eyes for a 1 year old baby,, perhaps like those running in the Jurassic Park of the monsters. Around the world, is a blend of surprises also brings fear of Momin.
If there is a \"beast\" wandering in your bedroom, you somehow surprising? Of course, something that has a strange noise is actually your home vacuum cleaner. But for a 1 year old baby, and it may be the one to jump up to catch him at any time, his monster. At least 14 months of Michelle should be thinking. Michelle\'s mother felt helpless and funny: \"every time when I use the vacuum cleaner home carpet cleaning, Michelle would have to shout themselves hoarse, stamped, the horror is so I don\'t know how to persuade him to! ”
Animals, Thunder, and even the appearance of the most gentle stranger, is possible to have a 1 year old baby frightened, even crying. However parents were also do not have to therefore and excessive worry, at this time of children on full is fresh, and surprising \"Monster\" of world produced fear (sometimes also with with novelty) of psychological, is is General of, this is children cognitive development of a health flag: This means with small baby from can from memory in Gets information, and under these information for judgment, to forecast future of trends--such as predict had to he roaring had of dog may again to he bark called, to produced corresponding of psychological activities. \"(To perceived terrorist) means that the child has begun to have a perception on the things he is not familiar with. When exposed to different or strange things in the past when 1 year old baby heart will feel vulnerable and insecure. \"Deputy Director of the infant development training centre at the University of Minnesota, said Dr Ami·susiman-Stearman.
Children because of terror and anxiety level depends in part on his natural temperament and disposition. However, regardless of whether your baby is a brave young explorers, also is a shy little place, the best thing parents can do, is to face up to the child\'s concerns, and to provide him with sufficient guarantees, make him feel safe. Here are some frequently encountered condition in the hope that they solve approach can help your busy.
One fear: mother\'s gone
\"MOM! Mother! \"Miao miao finally was found mother\'s gone! Although family works in the mother about to leave when dispersing his attention like a dog, make him play, sensitive Miao miao was found mother\'s departure. Called the \"mother\" for a 1 year old child has is the work of skilled and Miao miao sad cry, his mouth had been shouting: \"mother sth\"
About 1 year old baby the most horrible thing, than the mother from the side left.
How to solve: Fortunately, this when a child is 15-18 months will reach the extreme of \"separation anxiety\" will not last forever. Prior to that, you to let your children learn to adapt your temporarily left and bid farewell to peace with you. When leaving, may wish to kiss him, told him where to go, what you will come back, don\'t think probably omit the children don\'t understand the \"ceremony\". United States day Peishi Development Assistant Professor of Psychology at Arizona State University, Catherine · Dr Lai Maili suggests that: \"when parted with the children, let the child take his favorite toy, and guarantee that you will miss him. Or promised him, and when you come back with him a building-block approach
Terror II: great sound
Rumble sth Another sound mine! Dull several days of heavy rain Huahua underground up. Fruit before a lightning start to get a little terrified, he pointed out the window, tried desperately to everyone \"told\" that he did not know what happened or what will happen. Thunder crash, the fruit into the mother\'s arms-bashing, and curiosity is not reduced, secretly looking crash after heavy rain.
Life is filled with assorted 1 year old baby unheard, thrilling a huge sound. These tiny tot don\'t understand these awful strange sound come from.
How to solve: then you have to tell the baby noises will not hurt him. At the same time, simple to explain to him that \"strange\" sources. If kids hate or terrorist is a family of appliances, such as vacuum cleaner by the sound of, then you may wish to show your child how to open and close these things, let him feel that you can control this a strange noise \"Monster\". Normally, you can also use noise to play some games with the children, such as baby hit with pan or tank to simulate Thunder, while telling him this sound occurs when it began to rain.
The third terrorist: the terrible stranger
Cong is a naughty little boy, he went out in the father, he became a shy, shy \"little girl\". Uncle wanted to hug him, he was shrinking, aunt wanted to kiss him, he tried desperately to the reservoir behind father, big brother rushed him to do a face, cry off with Cong!
A man kept beard, a promotional \"clown\" and a friend who wears a strange hat, are likely to bring the baby into the psychology of terror.
How to solve: do not hesitate to let the children hold and hug a stranger or stranger, if a child is unwilling to do so. Right thing to do is let the children sit in your arms, and gradually get him to be familiar with and adapt to an unfamiliar face. At the same time, encourage your friends before turning its attention to the baby, infants and adults talk for a while before day, to adapt to the time of the child. This \"stranger anxiety\" generally in children 1 year and a half to two years old have eased or disappeared.
Horror four: \"inhalation\" of sewers
While peas and other baby is like playing with water, but he also hated to bathe, because he saw the bath water hole spinning \"sucked out\" all of the water, he would call the open water to mother hold dual, because he always thought he would be sucked away.
As the maternal and child items of the provisional Director of the University of California, San Francisco
Kadiya·yuehansidun said: \"such children often don\'t know what is dangerous, and what is not. ”How to solve this \"fear the sewers\" also appears on the baby dislike for flush toilet (also accordingly became tired of sitting on the toilet). Parents can suspend the usual bath, scrub and wash and replace it with a sponge. Last approximately one to two weeks. In the case of parental authority, to let children climb into the water tub or bathtub-free play, is also a good way to reduce children to fear the sewers. When you start again let the child take a bath in the bathtub, before drainage after the bath, first baby out. Of course, baby bath, at the same time added some game project will transfer his attention, and he began to relax in the bathtub feeling.
The terrorist v: small animals are called VIP
Look at the aunt\'s dog, sweet\'s curiosity to death! But suddenly shouted at her small dog \"barking\" and two, sweet wept in terror. Aunt made also had a small dog called. Sweet home later heard a dog barking outside, fear not.
Cats, dogs and birds always curious children. But they that unexpected behavior may also cause the child was frightened.
How to solve: first of all, parents need to understand that for some vigilance of health of the animals is a good thing, not to say children at once timid. However, if a child is afraid of animals, then for animals know, the better, the more we will let him reduce fear. For example, you can come with child watch of the animal world, read and explained to him, so he gradually understand what happened to the animal. On weekdays, with kids closer to some gentle animals, encouraged him to touch them, feed them food to see if they play (but remember to pay attention to safety). Parents do not need to be hasty, as the child grew up, he will gradually eliminate fears for small animals.
Come and see, if your baby is afraid of these things?
* \"When my son saw fans turn up for the first time, backwards hid in terror to my arms. We felt he was too funny! \"(Tintin mother)
* \"Bell is afraid a shampoo! She is afraid of water wash head nozzle spray head. Each time you want to take a bath, she said, \' can you not a shampoo? \' Until now. \"(Bell\'s mother)
* \"Once I picked a willow, took it to amuse children. Unexpectedly, baby actually touched willow, shrinking back hand, seems to be very afraid of the way, I understand, tried on several occasions he has. ”
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