Mentioned in letters from the parents of some children of their own touch from time to time the vulva or penis erectile dysfunction, and habit of rubbing or back and forth, once adults found that suppression of this matter, the child will be flushed and embarrassed, much effort, as parents, effective little, still occur, and for this reason the parents are concerned.
For parents of this mood is completely understandable, because in their minds often seen as a bad thing, so when they found the child just so small so \"bad\", natural feel worried, in fact, this is just manifestations of masturbation in children.
Masturbation refers to own fiddle with external genitalia to get pleasure behaviour. Masturbation time can occur in infants, is quite common in children. Baby from a few months began to explore his own body, keeps small hands touch to touch, including genital mutilation. Bring pleasure of touching genitals is often stronger than other parts, so they will give special attention.
Initial thrill of experience may be unintentional, the strength is often weaker, but over and over will be strengthened. This is a normal phenomenon, like the children to touch noses, ferret as ferret ears, there\'s nothing surprising. This is one of the children explore their thirst for knowledge and the outside world.
Infant and childhood masturbation for children\'s growth and future of a normal sexual response is important, has a positive effect. Key is to properly handle and deal with, to avoid children to indulge in that interest. Parents should pay attention to let children develop character, cheerful, generous, gregarious, interact with other children, reduce the chance of lonely solitude; let the children build a wide range of interests, enrich their lives and learning content, can have better desalination and the role of attention once when this scene is also suitable for composure, pretend to not know, ideas spread and transfer your child\'s attention.
Afterwards you can easy ways to chat with the children, exchange of experience and views, teaches the need for clear and easy to understand the physiological knowledge. Never simple angrily reprimanded, scolded, doing this would provoke strong converse effect, and indelible negative impression of the child and have a psychological aversion, grow up and are often caused by inhibition of sexual response and performance ability.
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