Often bullied child psychological variation

Parents children tend to act on impulse, without careful, but it will cause serious and irreparable consequences, child psychology and mental deviations. Children\'s psychological doctors believe often bullied children, following some bad attitude and mental deviations occur.

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Some parents, once found children do something wrong, \"fight\", children in order to avoid \"suffering from skin\", began to lie, discovered by their parents, are likely to play a more severe, then the next time the child is even more afraid to tell the truth. So vicious.

Second, a sign of weakness
If the parents of children often get scolded, a long time, children parents would produce fear and alienation from the heart, whether hearts like to, dare defy their parents \' command, only obediently comply. Children who grow up in a kind of environment, tend to be absolutely obedient, depression, learning in the future will be very passive.

Third, the lonely
Often beaten children would feel pride hurt, doubt his abilities, think \"inferior\" and unwilling to communicate with people. Solitude and silence.

Four, stubborn
Parents still playing child, will make their antagonism and antagonistic psychology, deliberately disruptive for some children will rebel, mean parents angry. Some children more playing less admit, more stubborn obstinacy, even running away from home to fight with their parents.

Five, gross
Strong children to imitate, get parents at home, outside his other children, especially his children. In fact, parents of children is a bad example.

Six, quirk
After some parents children, but also hard to have a child \"admit\" to test the effect of education. This can only cause children thought of \"exclusive\" tendency. He was reluctant, but had to duplicity to \"admit\", over time, the quirks the child psychology.

Seven, anxiety
Some parents expect too much for the kids, more than actual capacity of the child, would increase the child\'s psychological burden. Parents education method of simple and crude, make children anxious all day long, in fear, the result is often far from parents more.

Baby loves playing with genital is why

Mentioned in letters from the parents of some children of their own touch from time to time the vulva or penis erectile dysfunction, and habit of rubbing or back and forth, once adults found that suppression of this matter, the child will be flushed and embarrassed, much effort, as parents, effective little, still occur, and for this reason the parents are concerned.

For parents of this mood is completely understandable, because in their minds often seen as a bad thing, so when they found the child just so small so \"bad\", natural feel worried, in fact, this is just manifestations of masturbation in children.

Masturbation refers to own fiddle with external genitalia to get pleasure behaviour. Masturbation time can occur in infants, is quite common in children. Baby from a few months began to explore his own body, keeps small hands touch to touch, including genital mutilation. Bring pleasure of touching genitals is often stronger than other parts, so they will give special attention.

Initial thrill of experience may be unintentional, the strength is often weaker, but over and over will be strengthened. This is a normal phenomenon, like the children to touch noses, ferret as ferret ears, there\'s nothing surprising. This is one of the children explore their thirst for knowledge and the outside world.

Infant and childhood masturbation for children\'s growth and future of a normal sexual response is important, has a positive effect. Key is to properly handle and deal with, to avoid children to indulge in that interest. Parents should pay attention to let children develop character, cheerful, generous, gregarious, interact with other children, reduce the chance of lonely solitude; let the children build a wide range of interests, enrich their lives and learning content, can have better desalination and the role of attention once when this scene is also suitable for composure, pretend to not know, ideas spread and transfer your child\'s attention.

Afterwards you can easy ways to chat with the children, exchange of experience and views, teaches the need for clear and easy to understand the physiological knowledge. Never simple angrily reprimanded, scolded, doing this would provoke strong converse effect, and indelible negative impression of the child and have a psychological aversion, grow up and are often caused by inhibition of sexual response and performance ability.

Inferiority in children features and causes

Inferiority complex has an important role in human psychological development. Psychologists believe that everyone has inherent physiological or psychological deficiencies, inferiority exist in people\'s subconscious. Many of the psychopathic and inferiority of impropriety about the emergence of the phenomenon.

So-called inferiority is means a a people serious lack confidence, and serious lack confidence of children, they often think own in some aspects or each aspects are than others, common own of weaknesses and others of strengths compared, specific reflected in failing does not believe own of ability; Office acts to love before and after thinking Hou wanted to, total fear to things Office wrong was people sneered at, and lack perseverance; encountered difficulties hang back. Therefore, if a child is clouded by inferiority, its capacity will be subject to serious physical and mental development and communication, and intelligence are not given to normal play.

Inferiority complex not innate, said from subjective, inferiority is due to improper self-evaluation, gradually formed the day after tomorrow; objectively speaking, inferiority complex because some of the personal due to defects or having suffered repeated defeats. If a child childhood clever, clever and often being praised and loved, grow up and he easily form a confident personality. But for some reason, those children living in rebuke and despised in the environment all day long, they may form a psychological inferiority when they grow up.

In short, if children rarely experience the joy of success, or never received the appreciation of others, his self-confidence will be suppressed, inferiority is growing; repeated frustration and even suspected their existence of a child, it is easy to despair about his future.

Children \"heart disease\" 90% complain parents

After Xiao Li fail in an entrance examination of college entrance examination of the age of 18 always suspected of suffering from infectious diseases, to the counseling center, Qingdao, check, is suffering from a severe obsessive-compulsive disorder, and predisposing was the father of the doctor\'s assertion that brutal form of education. Reporter today learned from psychological counseling center in Qingdao, monthly reception at the Centre of the baiyuming students who suffer from mental illness, 90% is caused by improper education of parents, father of which gross and mother nagging as major pathogenic sources.

This morning, reporters encountered in the counseling center, Qingdao, who came to visit Xiao Li. Xiao Li college entrance examination into fear of cats fear dogs fail in an entrance examination after this year, always suspected infectious diseases suspected didn\'t about tight doors and Windows, and the condition is getting worse, and finally had to accompanied by their parents to see a psychiatrist. According to Xiao Li introduction, father often developed for her target, if not to is a play called, resulting in learning their usual good, every big test result in plummeting. After failed in the college entrance examination this year, Xiao Li, the above symptoms occur. Doctor, Xiao Li suffered from severe obsessive-compulsive disorder, in addition to associated with failed in the college entrance examination, father long-term crude form of education, is an important incentive for her suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Similarly, small Tao a boy reading the second day of this year also in mother accompanied by Counseling Center to see a doctor. It is understood that small Tao special nagging mother, because the bear mother\'s nagging from morning till night, starting from this summer, little Tao addicted to Internet cafes all day long, not willing to go home, for more than a month of school also regularly play truant, and love and people fight. All but the mother had to take him to consult a psychiatrist. Doctors, small waves of suffering from an anxiety disorder, and pathogenesis of mother\'s nagging is the son of reason.

Li Yuhuan of clinical psychological counseling center in Qingdao branch officer told reporters that their parents like Xiao Li He Xiaotao students psychological problems arising from the improper education now more and more. Monthly reception at the Centre of suffering from a mental disease 90% of psychological disorders in students of \"curse\" are parents. Among them, father gross and maternal nagging and pathogenesis of nearly 60%. Director Lee also said that in addition to father gross and mother nagging, overly doting parents children, parents and children long separation, and so will also have an adverse effect on children\'s psychological, causes child self-enclosed, psychological vulnerabilities.

Pregnant woman too nervous of fetal blood pressure high

Australia Melbourne University scientists in female sheep who conducted a study showed that, early in the pregnancy, even in just 2 days of stress can cause fetal arterial blood pressure and fetal kidney dysfunction. Scientists believe that the sheep who this discovery may be similar to the situation when a person experiencing stress, the effects on the fetus of pregnant women are also the same, and after affects people\'s lives. Professor of meierlin·wentuer at one of the researchers pointed out: \"the decisive or critical phase in the period than is generally assumed that came early, so pregnant women important not only to avoid medication and certain foods, and to try every way to avoid stress. ”
　
Conceived by Professor Wintour on mother sheep in the experiment, and for a short time to assess the impact of stress on the offspring. Or bring the mother sheep subcutaneous injection of saline solution in 2 days or injection on nervous effects of hormones, the whole study period on maternal and fetal status for close observation of sheep, in sheep within 7 years of birth and then continue observation. Study results show that the arterial high blood pressure of small sheep, their mothers were subjected to tension. Small sheep of hypertension observed for the first month after birth, and arterial pressure are higher in their life. Researchers on mother sheep pregnancies evaluated several stages of pregnancy, results show that the mother sheep offspring by their mother in pregnancy and pregnancy-induced 5 months in the first months most subjected to tension, which is equivalent to pregnant women in the 7th week of pregnancy-induced pregnancy most subjected to stress to the fetus.
　
Miaodelage·duodike one of the researchers pointed out, enough to cause stress forces for different people vary, for example, some people queued for a long time would be enough to cause stress, and some people only at the time of injury will be nervous. Dr Dodik stressed that genetically easy to stress here is a key factor.

Antenatal depression like \"find\" working women

Many people are aware of \"postpartum depression\", but \"prenatal depression\" and its severity, but little is known.

Expert: harmfulness of antenatal depression is much larger than postpartum depression, serious and even may hurt their own behavior, such as self-mutilation, suicide, involving the life of the fetus. And to remind women from pregnancy onwards, should be on the psychological regulation in a timely manner, do a role change.

Hormonal changes cause depression

Reporter from the China Women\'s Federation in subsidiary well of Fuk women\'s psychological hotline understand that, in recent years, the prenatal mental problems, psychological problems of women is on the rise, only the total number of women had accounted for all advisory hotline counseling 15%, rate of rise of 9%, far more than the annual rate of rise of the 2-3% of postpartum depression, with white women.

Chen Daning international peace hospital for women experts told reporters that antenatal depression is emerging in recent years, a new mental illness during pregnancy. Women from pregnancy onwards, due to the hormonal changes in the body, particularly in the early 3 months of pregnancy, vomiting and other physical discomfort occurs, while psychology is also prone to fluctuations, low mood more easily. Because of the growth period women are susceptible population of mental illness, if women did not receive proper care of the poor regulation of power, psychological pressure, from the \"girl roles\" converted to \"mother role\", you may be clinically shown mania, depression, schizophrenia, there is even a disturbance of consciousness and hallucinations, resulting in unpredictable accidents occurred.

Psychological causes of fall is sick

Well Fu, head of women\'s psychological hotline artishi analysis, women after pregnancy is often the most concerned about postpartum lose everything before pregnancy, her husband and \"fell out\" more working women also are worried about their build will deform.

More and more higher-income women after pregnancy in dismissing the work at once, previously full status, clear life purposes at once has gone, people have become very empty, pregnant women do not do things East guess your thoughts, guess long psychological problems also came out; in addition, urban women had eaten since childhood, children would bring pain for them all day in great trepidation.

Mother needs more care

Woman expert Chen Daning told reporters that the husband before pregnancy, post-natal must pay close attention to his wife\'s mental change and do everything possible to care for her, care her, reduce adverse stimuli, to keep a pleasant mood and mood stability, health, man, the woman should not have too much pressure.

Prenatal maternal first to understand the common sense of confinement and the post-natal health, mitigate the pregnant women on delivery of \"pain\" have a sense of fear and tension.

Timely regulating emotions, relax, is important for pregnant women, appropriate outdoor activities, such as short-distance travel, pregnant women\'s gymnastics, swimming and so, to participate in social activities to maintain adequate nutrition during pregnancy, as with adequate nutrition and sufficient rest to avoid the occurrence of mental illness.