Some say: \"when you have children, you have a problem. \"This sentence does not refer to the children so that we become parents or children will certainly pose problems, but means that as the child grows, parents will face various forms of children\'s issues. As far as daily routine of daily life, from the child bed, dressed in the morning, wash your face and brush your teeth, eating breakfast, go to school, to school this afternoon, watching television, eating dinner, bathing, going to bed, often parents run around in circles. If a bad homework, no sense, lying, theft, acts of treason, but will also enable parents caused a lot of.
Some parents still use reward, punishment to their children, admonish, bribery, threats and other disciplines, but don\'t know these methods emphasize equality today are being invalidated. Although some parents also understand the way to the past is no longer valid, but does not know what is the best, don\'t even know what\'s wrong with children, not discipline up pine suddenly tight, self-contradictory and inconsistent is the disciplined attitude of parents and children at a loss, even couples eg: spiteful.
Among the plight of parents in child issues, is understandable. Because this generation of parents under the environment of growing in traditional authority, as the previous generation of education learning and inherited by the discipline of the model, but the face of growing up in the next generation of modern democracy, lack of educational concepts and methods, but also no one teaches us how to parent or school, naturally at the turn of the old and new values are dazed and anxiety. In today\'s society, it has professional knowledge and ability required, only the parents are the exception, appears to have been expected to born to play this role. However is not the case, as pointed out by many studies at home and abroad, parent role is a very important role in adult development, but is also one of the most difficult to deal with the role.
Some parents like to listen to speeches, and you want to get ideas and practices of the education of children, especially on the spot, or privately to speech experts a question, want to get some specific and feasible answer immediately. However, a short period of time, for most people, just opened a new ideas and methods from the \"unity\" of the situation there is still a large distance, the result is heard method is not used out of, is, with no effect. This is not to say that the lecture is not used, but every family has a different status, even if the problem appears to be common, there are individual differences in real treatment.
Therefore, parents in addition to that they are outside the front-line educators, also need to learn a set of concepts and methods of effective education of their children. This book combined with the current prevalence of parenting education in the West \"parent effectiveness training\" concept, write content appropriate for Chinese social culture and lifestyle, and experimental research into parent training group, get great results over the years. For example, in 1989, Taiwan, Singapore, and Malaysia and other areas, parents benefit from this course has tens of thousands of people, and that meaningful education work is still ongoing. In mainland China, since 2004 also launched a series of parent training groups, proved by the warm response and effective. Because this set of concepts and methods of education of their children, not only provide parents with a great deal of interest and motivation, and more comfortable in practical application.
General description of the book How to be effective parents, chapters also detail on purpose how to understand the child\'s behavior, how to deal with parents \' emotional responses, listen actively, and to encourage discipline and practical way. Thus, whether parents, teachers, home educators, community workers, or parent group leaders, as long as parents or interested in becoming efficient is committed to developing responsible children who can take this book as a reference on the upbringing. Parents need not rote, simply reference and flexibility will be able to achieve gradual and orderly progress \"unity\" effect. On this occasion of the book is about my dissertation printed, solemnly recommend and King praying for sharing it.
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