Changes he might as well change your mind

Psychological problems of children keep mothers are the most confusing behavior problems in psychological problems directly.

The saying goes well: \"1 year old is Angel, 2 3 dogs are too. \"As our children grew, his mind became more complex, more personal consciousness in behavior, this time, you will find, in the face of him you seem bewildering, childcare has become irritability sth

So Jiang and I really want to crash

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Nearly two hours of sleep time every day, my son to bed forever thinking somehow, yells thirsty, can bed 10 times just drink and then to bed. Then is also a link \"toss of creativity\", and \"specified\" I can\'t walk away. Accompanied him two hours of sleep every night, for me it is suffering, does not know how his energy is so good, does not seem to need a rest.

He Jiang, Jiang also. Usually ask him why, he was partial and you do. Cool has a fever, he wore shoes, doesn\'t listen, walked barefoot on the marble sth And he also filled with numerous \"no\".

Most irritating is that children do not eat soft and hard, good words are not heard, deceive or cheat not, afraid, break and he screams as a weapon. So Jiang I really was going to crash!

Answer: Wang Wenge (Shanghai primary and middle school experimental study on the Research Assistant)

Not to mention the age of 3, 4, children of all ages are energetic are we expect, have the energy to be trial and error learning.

Causes the child more reason for not willing to go to bed before going to bed, I guess a few below, did you see on the corresponding:

1, parents work during the day, go out in the morning and return in the evening every day. In this case: the child tried to play with parents, he believes that parents are the best at home; sleep that signalled a break up, reluctant to sleep; parents no effort (not the child have the energy), at the bottom of one\'s soul is not willing to take the child, wish he whipped quiet like a doll.

2, one of the parents, or all with children at home. Children slept during the day or night; educational content arbitrary, there is no fixed rule, especially before going to bed; parents slept late.

3, at home or not has nothing to do with my parents. No separate bed sleeping unilateral denial of child without active intervention children; always want others to manage child at this time and I was reading a book, television or sleeping.

Regardless of that situation, necessary changes in both the parent-child.

First child, day of physical activity to rich, fatigue will go to bed early. If the schedule is not fixed, should be adjusted accordingly. Adults before bedtime, children must not be allowed to rest, so as to avoid energy when going to bed, bed sleeping is very effective. Not doing exciting activities before going to bed.

Followed by adults. Highlight their education function and their children to educate the most assured, always thinking how to educate children, conceived content, rather than the leadership of the institutions, as none of the children do, you know that picky; adjusting psychology, like their children, giving positive support; rest rule you want to synchronize and children; education activities should be fixed before going to bed, to read, stories as well.

Naughty and not related to sleep

Children were at a stage in the development process, bad things are normal. This normal is to build on the child\'s personality and our parenting style, so people let you change, you can not change. If you always in the negative, and bound him, well, do not like this, have no effect also maintains what, can\'t let whole family\'s long live in the pain.

At this time, the need for \"common activity\" find more positive activities, such as learning songs, roller skating, puzzles, and so on, so that children would be dependent on you, because you can always learn more quickly than he, but don\'t expect him to hand it to you. Can also find their fixed partner, until he after the visibility, he ignored, not harassing you, by that time, sad is you, will be looking forward to the child give you energy.