Cheer for the child\'s progress

Encourage and praise, although look very similar, but there is a difference. Praise more is the outcome for children, benefits, although it can also enhance your child\'s self-confidence, but excessive praise is easy to make children difficult to correctly understand ourselves, or care about others \' opinions, unbearable failed. Encouraged is different, it is certainly a child process of the results achieved, including the child\'s ability and effort, on the basis of the recognition of child achievement guide children to a higher goal.

After the end of a football match, a teenage boy cheerfully said to his father: \"Daddy, did you see me in a touchdown the ball? \"His father is coldly says:\" How will three-fourths you throw a ball? You should practice catch and block. ”

Hears the words of the father, the father walking said the children fall behind to go. As pledge a pot of cold water, children caught up in enthusiasm suddenly evaporated.

The father of motivation is blameless, but his reactions not only belittle the child\'s strengths and talents, and damage a child\'s heart, if this persists, it is difficult to obtain children will feel the father there to encourage and help, would be Innocent eyes closed so that eventually you from outside of his thought and career.

Well-known child psychologist Helok has made an experiment. His children were divided into four groups: control class class, with appreciation, class rebuked class and neglect, asking them to do 3 days of continuous addition calculation. The first day, the average score in much the same in each group, and then, over time, appreciation class score progress, achievements of the Group of the other classes gradually fell behind.

Helok think the reason for this difference, is that praising children think of the class: parents placed high hopes on us, therefore, to desire more high.

Because of this, some progress in learning and in life to their children, parents should be sure. \"You do it well! \"If fear of child smug, complacent, can also be coupled with the sentence:\" this time you have done well, you should continue to work hard, then you can always have a perfect score. ”

After some parents when a child was a trifle, but reluctant to praise and praise, think these were children in the matter, should be done, but they tend to ignore the point, that\'s a lot of things in the world are all or part of, but had a lot of people do well or not doing, let alone a baby?

The correct attitude is: find and certainly children every bit of progress!