\"Seven year itch\" is a borrowed Word, that is to say many things in the seventh year on some problem is not to the person\'s will, marriage was no exception, of course. Married a long time, loss of novelty. From a marriage full of romantic love to real, be closely associated in the flat on, too familiar with each other, on the concept of love to hide shortcomings or both different at this point has been fully exposed. So, feeling \"tired\" or tired of the marriage into the \"bottleneck\", if you do not select a valid method by which a \"bottleneck\", marriage will end.
More recently, psychologists make avoidance and out of marriage, \"seven year itch\" some of the policy:
Prevention of marriage before marriage a survey expert, problems in the marriage, was hasty on the combination of very large proportion. If you are in love when the more sober-minded friends around, listen to their views and to get the marriage expert guidance will make marriage increase rational components. Clarify their own thoughts and ideas, with rational eyes towards the future of marriage.
Offer ideas don\'t find fault with each other, not always reinventing the other side. And should always ask ourselves: what I can bring to each other---worry-free life? Enriching spiritual nourishment? Sense of security, a sense of happiness? Spontaneously to the other side to do something in everyday life, even the smallest of things, a hug, a smile, a kiss, and are each other\'s experience to the warmth.
Leave in the shackles of the shackles of the space many marriages and anti-die, so many people had to leave space to each other. Should give yourself space up and circle of friends outside the marriage, not to use marriage as their only spiritual.
Adjust the expected high expectation and reality contrasts, causing pressure on both sides. Spouse is not necessarily the best in you get to know the specific of the most outstanding, but it may be most suitable for you, this is sufficient.
Select divorce divorce is not as terrible as imagined. If the two sides were found to be the wrong marriage, divorce may be the most sensible option. After the divorce is still unable to reflect on their own, still is not clear what he really needs, it truly terrifying.
Marriage is not simply \"seven year itch\", in fact, many marriages, marriage reaches a certain stage will experience problems. Only with their own wisdom to create a loving atmosphere, from the \"seven year itch\", the marriage through to the end.
No comments:
Post a Comment