Child psychological stress

While modern children get overwhelming love, has increasingly lost its free to play free; in addition to massive toy, but lost a chance to hug, game and talk with their parents.

Many people believe that preschool children with school work; no worries about food and clothes, were taken care of in every possible way, how will they pressure?

However, modern of children in are overwhelming of love of while, is increasingly lost has free to playing of free; in are large toys of while, is lost has and parents embrace, and game and talk of opportunities; in kindergarten, teachers and children, and children and children Zhijian sometimes will some problem occurs, as was criticism, cannot and children friendly get along and so on, these are is makes children produced pressure sense of causes.

When children feel pressure, due to the limited language skills, are often unable to speak clearly, so they are sometimes unable to get timely help for adults. And the lack of their own knowledge and experience in life, poor ability to handle problems and therefore cannot own discharge pressure. Therefore, when the pressure is too large or too long in duration, the children will have sleep disorders such as depression, anorexia, physical or psychological problems such as, which will seriously harm the child\'s physical and mental health.

As a parent, if careful observation of children\'s words and deeds can be aware of pressure and pressure on children and to what extent.

Dang children faced pressure Shi, behavior aspects often performance for love said lies, and love beating, deliberately damage things; emotional Shang often performance for love cry makes, and does not reasoning, often was fear and entanglement with adults, sleep does not stability, night surprised (from sleep in the suddenly wake even sat up), nightmare and sleepwalking,; body reaction is often continued (forced) blinked eyes, and bite nails, and dug nostrils, facial or limbs muscle TIC and so on; spirit reaction is performance for attention cannot concentrated, love forget thing, love dreaming, talk vague beyond was forgotten in and so on.

When a child appears some of these reactions is found, parents should contact and exchange with the children, help children natural discharge pressure. For example, can give a child pen and paper, let him free to paint; giving children a story begins with the roots of his story; let the children made the content of the game and play, and play with children when the child is waking from a dream, comforting him, what did he talk about the dream. And when a child is described, do not randomly interrupting, or recommendations or conclusions. These activities, you can make the parents a better understanding of the child\'s feelings, understand why making children feel pressure, helping children to relieve pressure.

If parents ease children still cannot be effectively lifted the pressure, you should seek the help of experts or a psychiatrist, abnormal reaction of the child as far as possible be corrected as soon as possible, eliminating its negative impact on children physical and mental development.