Create hidden in \"breaking\"

In the early childhood education advocates \"no fault\" principle, that child is not at fault, you should not indulge in criticism. While the view was expressed that children\'s creativity tend to display errors and damage.

Tao xingzhi\'s is famous for educators. When he was young, a gold watch mother bought home to play with broken. Mother saw children engage in destruction, severely beat Tao XING-Zhi\'s meal, and told his teacher about it. Tao xingzhi\'s teachers hearing it humorously said: \"I\'m afraid a China Edison was shot by you. \"Tao XING-Zhi\'s mother are not understood, the teacher said to her:\" the children of this behavior is an expression of creativity, you shouldn\'t be playing children, to liberate children\'s hands, he will have hands-on opportunities. \"Later, the teacher found a remedy to the mother, for mothers and children to work together to send gold watch shop to watch, let your child stand watch maker side, take a look at the internal structure of gold watch in person, how the watch maker good gold watch repair. This matter Mr Tao XING-Zhi\'s life.

Many would like to make a pair of his glasses. On this day, father to help him prepare a lot of material, mum is on the table as he placed a sunglasses for his reference. Fold every step, painting and decorating, more complete very well. Just cut out on a number of problems, uneven edges are smooth glasses he cut it, Dad laughed at his work, a lot looked very unhappy.

Mother wanted to help him in the past, cocked his head slightly more thought for a moment, then glasses picked, very into glasses cut into the edge of a jagged, let him have formal work beyond recognition.

Soon, very pleased with oneself more to come on MOM said, \"MOM, you look, I had a sun glasses. \"Mother carefully watching, his glasses that is like the Sun, decorative color of red, jagged light, the whole work unique, some surprise mother unawares. Mother patted his head said: \"lots of really smart, you made a pair of the best, the best of small glasses. ”

The next day, mother and a lot of his \"glasses\" brought to the kindergarten. Teacher says, children are making glasses in the activities of the reference model, was the first to break more modes, bold imagination, children produce different glasses.

To this end, key praised many of teacher evaluation in the game, and his work on the panels placed in a class of jobs. The next day, third day, many children begin to pay attention to this unique work, and produce more styles of glasses, butterflies, clouds, Rainbows of sth Production activities had increased. From there later, more fascinated with the art activities, improved his ability significantly.

We know that creativity is vital for children\'s growth, but people often worry about find children\'s creativity and, in fact, children\'s creativity often appears on the unexpected, especially in their fun games activities. Children\'s imagination than adult novel, random, and can break. When we make their outcomes timely and positive evaluation, to mobilize their creativity will be the maximum, positive thinking, bold imagination, creating unimaginable things for adults.

Making more like glasses, glasses of our forward thinking came to see him doing it can\'t watch, however, boldly broke the more general model making glasses, to produce a piece of us adults is difficult to imagine the unique works of \"sunglasses\".

So, we say that on a number of issues, in the minds of parents less rules, do not always say \"you do look like what? \"\" What have you done? \"\" Do you see your teacher is how to do? \"\" I see you are blind! \"Like to laugh at. Come to think of a child \"errors\" and \"wrong\" where to go? Also, many unexpected creations often occur in \"error\".

In the children\'s world, perfection is the goal of their efforts, but mothers need to tell the children: perfect does not completely equal to the start and end points coincide, nor equal to all the \"right\". If you pay enough attention to expand thinking even looks very perfect place, or \"open a new path\", discover and create amazing beauty.

Painted sunflowers cousin jingjing more seriously. When your pen, accidentally head in the beginning of the painted disc, destroyed the picture perfect.

\"Oh, how can this be done? \"Jingjing holding their own paintings, talking to himself to reading about.
Looked at her mother felt she was drawing you want to flip. Thinking skills, she was the paper in the past. \"Ching, why don\'t you then draw, is not very good? ”
Jingjing told his mother in a low voice: \"MOM, I want to draw a,\" looks very unhappy.
Mother took her hand painted looked, \"don\'t worry, we\'ll see if I can come up with a good idea? ”
\"Is there a way to wipe also wipe out. ”
\"Is it? In those days did not wipe, continue to draw all right? ”
\"Do it okay? \"Ching looked her mother.

Mother on the disc surface by hand gestures, head of homeopathy will be her stretched out along, become a horizontal line on the side, smiled and said to her, \"do not? ”

“…… Hey, really great, head is invisible \", jingjing\'s eyes bright, a pair of little surprise. She took her mother hands the drawing quickly remedy that \"failure\".

Mother patted her little head says: \"so nice, use your head, sunflowers are flowering. ”

Jingjing\'s actions on behalf of many children\'s ideas in their minds, \"perfect\" is always correct. Once the deviation, is their first reflected

Abandoned again. Faced with this situation, mothers cannot simply giving positive or negative evaluation, and should address issues, inspire and guide the way, they look closely in the process of their finding remedial approach, do not give up easily, develop ideas, try from another point of view, learnt flexibly, alternative ways of thinking, to find methods to solve the problem.

For guidance, jingjing learned \"open a new path\" the truth. Later in the painting in the activities of the underwater world, her mother found a small blisters with no painted changes into a mighty little tadpoles. Jingjing\'s progress, her mother had more confidence.

One day, Li Jie\'s pet fish all \"martyrdom\". Family find cause for a long time, many originally was the son of Li Jie poured the milk into a fish tank. Li Jie pique to carry the son will be examined, lot managed to father arms drill in terror.

Lots of father advised opening Li Jie, quietly asked him, \"much, why did you pour the milk into the fish tank? ”

\"Do you not say most nutritious milk, children can drink milk body looks great!

I would like to let the fish also looks good, so I gave them to drink their milk. \"Lots of small voices to tell dad.

Li Jie heard lots of words, immediately realized his mistake, hurriedly pressed too many said: \"blame wrongly turned out to be mother to you. ”

Lots of father laughed and said: \"you look at, how imaginative the son is, in order to allow our family fish looks even better, are more willing to give fish to drink their own milk do sth\"

The next day, dad to understand more of ornamental fish don\'t like to drink milk, bought a few small fish more specifically to do the experiment with. Little fish does not love activities in milk of the water, but had a change of clean water, happy fish began swimming, more personally felt the ornamental fish in the experiment is not loved to drink milk.

A destructive event end growth of children\'s knowledge, lots of father said: \"son while broke several valuable goldfish, but he did learn of new knowledge, rich life experience, which is the wealth of his life in the future, this is rare. Lots of \"breaking\" problems, he learned to think, an increase of wisdom, we should progress for his son happy Ah! \"Father more of these words clearly is very reasonable.

Children of famous educationist of Chen heqin\'s old man said: giving children a \"breaking\" sky, children love \"breaking\", lost just to gauge the value of, was a child resulting from not infinite wealth--thoughts on life, creativity and wisdom.

Some say the child was born creator, because they are born is lively and active, not alleged by various rules, they have the courage to break, not in accordance with the model of adults to think about problems, so they often create unique things to. However, as the children grow older, their creative talent in the day by day to reduce, the main reason is that many children\'s creativity is well-behaved parents unknowingly kill off. For parents looking for, \"obedient\" are the parents of their children do, \"obedient\" are the children should first learn the skills. In this regard, we cannot help but say it is parents in educating children in the process of a major tragedy.

Children love to engage in \"sabotage\" is a manifestation of their things to explore, is the basic embodiment of creative germination. Children are born, they came to this world with a strong sense of curiosity, their surrounding things full of fresh and thirst for knowledge, they want to explore the magic of the world with our own hands. Like Edison, Newton, Zhan tianyou, both won second class fengru, at the time of their childhood is often also called \"breaking\", they \"damaged\" also let parents headaches, teacher angry. However, it is these naughty guy things around with their curiosity, Discovery Centre in the efforts of everyday life. Grow up, they rely on their own from small habit of exploration, thinking of good habits eventually became a renowned inventor, in human history has left a brilliant stroke.

In fact, children engage in destruction is their energetic, this time, they get the best opportunities. If we reasonably apply a child love \"breaking\" nature, timely given, boot, then it is best developed when young children\'s thirst, helping them develop habits of diligent in thinking, laying a solid foundation for future development of the child.

For children to create to, parents need to be established for the children a \"psychological security\" and \"mental freedom\" of space. In children the \"creative\" activities, parents do not because their children\'s behavior, the results are too strange, naive and laughed at, blocking them, on the contrary, it will undermine the enthusiasm of the children s discovery of things, contusion in children\'s interests and preferences. When the children need parents \' help, we want to provide encouragement and guidance in a timely manner, guide their activities in the independent music through their own imagination or creativity.