A survey shows that 3-6 children aged more has participated in various training courses. Saying \"do not let your children lose at the starting line\" many parents around the child\'s \"early childhood\" 忙活a, in addition to the conventional outside into the Park, many parents send their children in his spare time into a variety of training courses. So, the children began to learn to read in 1, 3 start learning a foreign language, some place in the most extreme example was a 3 and a half of the girls have literacy 4,000, of becoming a kindergarten \"distinguished teacher\". Recently, most parents are always equate education and learning. In their view, academic performance is good or bad is the effect of teaching performance. So many kindergartens also have launched such as \"before the primary school to let the children know the 2000 words\" of the so-called \"special education\". Problems ahead of literacy, math, foreign language really can create \"child prodigy\"? Those in the \"early childhood\" busy parents on the road, do you find balance in education and happiness? Perhaps you feel your children have lost a lot?
\"Mama call a spade a spade\"
\"Early childhood\" do best time is infinitely close to zero?
Yi Yi MA: I began to drink in pregnancy to read \"early childhood\" book, I am surprised that, in almost all parenting books, particularly stressed the importance of early education, particularly within 3 years of education that the list of data is be shocked at the sight of. Outstanding Japan children\'s educators mucunjiu a study: If a child born in training under ideal conditions of education, children can develop their own intellectual 100%, but, if done from the age of 5 education, even ideal education, children can develop their own intellectual 80%; until the age of 10, you can only develop 60%. United States famous educationist benjieming·lubumu noted: the intelligence of a person before the age of 17, about half is done before the age of 4, between the 30% finish on 4-8, only 20% in the remaining 9 years to complete. Famous educationist of Ibuka is more sensational: education of children when the best time is infinitely close to zero.
Since at the bottom of one\'s soul to accept the \"early childhood\" theory, a variety of \"early education\" programme never left the bed. Children 4 years old now, two half day schedule interest classes for children at the weekend, on Saturday morning classes, learning to talk the two classes of thinking on Sunday afternoons to learn English next year, also prepared to learn the piano, painting, swimming, pulley, etc, planned a lot, I was so tired, that baby is also very hard. I do, what is it worthwhile?
Ice-Ice mother: my child was 5 years old this year, dancing Saturday morning children\'s Palace, and also interested in participating in the kindergarten classes a day. But see other baby seems to be the weekend of at least two or three things, look around the children in literacy, reading and oral English, I feel we still have too few children learn to be, so going to let her go to learn the piano. But think about it, such a small child weekend foam in places such as children\'s Palace is so hard! Own the money spent is the value?
Ailun MOM: we started the whole family out from Friday night, first Friday night on went straight to people\'s square English course; a little better on Saturday, close to home this afternoon dance; Sunday morning at home waiting for the teacher to teach the piano, again in the afternoon to go to the PuXi interest classes, tiring than work a week, do not know what time is it? Do not know whether to their children? Not, not knowing in the end is not responsible for the kids?
\"Expert language solutions\"
Early training beyond age inappropriate
\"Early childhood\" created a \"child prodigy\" legend, young parents in droves. \"Early education\" institutions, \"early childhood\" colourful, so parents could be overwhelmed.
Scientific \"early childhood\" does make excellent children, u first. In real life we really see a \"whiz\" and \"little genius\" success stories.
Just because some parents wish too strong, so they have a \"advanced education, the better,\" said, into the family of early education on \"evolution\" became \"super early capacity of training\".
Any beyond the training and education of children age has become many families are not fully aware of the misunderstanding of education.
Parents in the child\'s intelligence and behavior when the activity is not yet fully mature, hastily to the so-called \"intelligence\", requiring the children to do some \"difficult\" action training: at the age of 2, 3, began to teach children literacy, arithmetic; to the age of 4, 5, language, mathematics in primary school textbooks had been defined in the child\'s face.
Children reciting poetry before 3 years literacy are \"in vain\"
Children brain in 3 aged yiqian of memory just machinery memory, parents often to own of children so small on articulate, and will back poetry, and will number number and pride, actually children then does not understanding a Word, and a digital representative of real meaning, just a short-term of machinery memory, if does not regularly repeat, on will soon forgotten, and this practices does not can enhanced memory, that is children remember of things does not than peers more. After school, these so-called advantages are lost, they will come with peers on the same starting line, white learned all previously recorded.
Profit-oriented approach buried growth risks
Survey also shows that children have undergone special \"early childhood\" in the future will be no love, no longer know how to accommodate others. This is because parents and teachers in early education for children, instilling knowledge will intentionally or unintentionally, when adults have some concept of competition imposed on the child. For example, is a class in the class, parents often tell children to more performance, more closer with their teachers, figure out how to make the teachers like yourself, not to be better than other children. Over time, the concept of mutual competition and rivalry in the minds of children root, cause love weaken, narrow-hearted. In fact, 0~3sui children in addition to early intellectual development, development of non-intelligence quality is also a
Important element, not a child of parents of skills instead of \"early education\" cultivation, some profit-oriented approach of only storing up problems for the future growth of the child.\"\" Mother \"story\"
Have interest in culture, not with undue haste
Kids: Tian Ying man, born in 1994, is one of the class in junior middle school students.
Hobbies: likes to play football, photography, painting, learn English, particularly fond of reading and writing, elementary school this year, published the splendid book of childhood, literary master Jun Qing, Tibi Sha, Zhao Lihong, and other well-known authors as he wishes. Composition lines full of kid stuff and sincere emotions revealed child-specific emotions and rich imagination. Also in the book collection of his paintings, photography.
Mother: from small we did not deliberately to cultivate children\'s interests, is basically unchecked. But he loves reading habit seems to be innate, bring him books to the bookstore, he particularly likes writing of books, no adults teach, he was on his page. For him, writing is not a dull pain, but full of happiness. Painting is, we don\'t get him from an early age what training courses such as lessons, but he just likes his scrawl on graffiti, found that children like the we slowly leads him to receive more formal training.
Children now routine exchange with foreigners is no problem. We are learning a foreign language from primary grades 2 began, schools at the same time, we also brought him to the spot opened English classes for children, the children study very hard. So I felt, on the child\'s \"early childhood\" cannot be rushed, but to let the children interested and then slowly training to create opportunities for him. If you just blindly to them, are all parents will, child was young, did not appreciate, there will be resistance, often counterproductive. Everything has to take its course.
\"Experts remind\"
Seek early and fast, and straight is \"early childhood\" errors
Error: hope for \"child prodigy\" according to the study of education, exceptional and the proportion of children with low intelligence are very small, 90% children were above normal children. Some educational institutions making a similar \"teaching gifted\" slogan, most attractive to parents, but the result can only pull up seedlings to help them grow.
Myth two: one-sided emphasis on intellectual development and some people mistakenly believe that is the development of early education, neglect of children\'s comprehensive quality education. \"Early education\" includes the meaning of perception, action, language, cognitive training also include habits, self-care ability, character, moral training. You cannot have too many things to take care of at the same time.
Myth three: \"early childhood\" as early as possible blind lead young children often learn to be forgotten quickly, enable children to learn is tired.
Myth four: tanduo trying some parents equate long education early education, believing that the more the better, regardless of the children interests. Kids energy limited, weighed down, often get half.
Myth five: keen to note, the pursuit of grading to research most of the par family education and learning. Parents believe that the effectiveness of learning is the result of education. Thus, children take part in any training course, the purpose is \"score\".
No comments:
Post a Comment