Family environmental impact is a multi-level, multiple side, including the physical environment, languages, environmental, psychological and interpersonal environment. Physical environment refers to the physical arrangement of the family. Locale refers to the person in the family and the language of human civilization, democracy and equality, discussed the understanding. Interpersonal environment refers to the cherishing, do its responsibility, character, mental environment refers to attitudes and emotional exchange between parents and children, have a direct impact on the mental health of children of a family environment. Therefore, setting up a good family environment is the physical and psychological development of children, formation of the importance of good mental quality assurance.
Is a prerequisite for good psychological quality formation of family virtues, harmony, harmony among family members. Although views sometimes occur, but are United on the principle issues. Under the atmosphere of cooperation, understanding and, not only that children learn to human solidarity, love, and, understanding, will, the child\'s thinking ability by the harmonious development, and get a sense, consciousness of formation open to education. Instead, between members of the family as both man and part selfish, bickering, children of such families is often inadequate, even deformities, their apathy, paranoia, not cooperation. So strongly advocated family virtues, correctly handle the mutual relationship between family members, form a good specification. Get along to harmony to build harmonious atmosphere of the family, parents speak-do not oppress people by force, an emotional person to convince people, to teach people, fully reflects the family is a harbour of life, this will help children of good psychological quality formation.
Good parenting attitude of parents is the key to good psychological quality, parents are the child model for learning, parents \' rearing attitudes and methods of education are directly affect children\'s behavior and psychology, children\'s good behavior is the result of parental education. Arbitrary feudal and old rules of family education stressed the absolute obedience to her parents \' will, therefore slight punishment should not listen to. In this type of parents under the excessively harsh parenting attitudes, children\'s own lack of autonomy, lack of self-confidence and independence, or on the other hand will form a violent, insolent, lying, strong antagonistic psychology and often playing tricks on others, looking for revenge in the psychological compensation and balance. Parenting attitude of excessive Jiao Pang, responsive, parents want to provide children with not only without the help and protection. Parents too to monopolize, children develop greatly dependent, it will form a selfish, willful, wanton and easy temper, a good boast to his character. Freewheeling rearing attitudes, children because of lack of access to care were deprived of paternal and maternal love and have a sense of loneliness, gradually formed wealth to the attack, cold, there are often emotional disturbance, erratic, easily angered, mentality of indifference to things around.
Parents good parenting attitude manifested in a democracy, the usual attitude towards the education of children. Mutual care, care in the family, easy understanding, encouraging and inducing parents to give their children, shortcomings and errors is appropriate for their children to criticism, children\'s awareness-raising, correct the shortcomings. This gradually develop the child self-esteem, self-reliance, warm and friendly to others. Able to accept criticism, subjected to pressure, has independent capability.
Effect changes in family structure are good psychological quality an important cause of serious obstacles. In recent years with the rapid development of socio-economic, cultural, dramatic changes in people\'s values, family structure along with the change. Some stability was shaken in family structures, family disintegration and reconstruction, single parent families emerge. Brunt of child psychological harm, rupture of children inside the family\'s sense of security and sense of fate suddenly disappear, child survival of family park was destroyed overnight, allowing children easy formation of abnormal psychology and character quirks, and very easy on the road to crime, which seriously affected the development of psychological health of children.
Therefore, we must strive to improve parents \' quality, enhancing the responsibility of parents, understand the importance of psychological health of children, and efforts to overcome the obstacles of family structure changes, growth and the creation of a good family environment for their children.
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