People often praise the great mother, not simply because the mother on the growth of their children well, while the infant period, particularly before the age of 5, mother to child feeding, training and personal effects, often on children\'s mental development, personality development and mental Outlook of the formation and development, play an extremely important role. Many great men in concluding his success experience, always traced back to early culture and influence of mother, is this truth. A large number of experimental studies have shown that mother love is the mental development of the basic points, if the lack of love before age 5, the development of intelligence will be subject to different constraints. Therefore, the factors influencing the intelligence as a lack of motherly love.
Animal test confirmed, mouse, and cat, and goat, and sheep, animal, in just out Shi on immediately will young Tsai and mother separate, makes mother cannot lick ask and care its young Tsai, had several hours then will young Tsai took back, mother on will refused and children intimacy; but if young Tsai was born Hou let mother lick ask, and contact 5-10 minutes, separate a time then took back, mother is performance out is intimacy of feelings. To leave after the birth mother\'s Cubs, behavioural changes when they grow up; and grew up in his mother\'s Cubs this is rarely the case. New-born lambs, if no mother within an hour of licking, also no touch, calm, the little sheep will soon be dead. Animals are so, so it is with people. Dependence on the mother\'s is very obvious in infants. When a baby crying, if mothers hold and caress, even if the baby has not milk, often immediately stopped crying, demonstrated quiet and meet, this is the role of the mother.
Boy of 1-2, although you can play one, however, if the mother is not around, they will immediately feel uneasy, interest will rapidly reduce the playing, showing a look of fear. Can any spoiled child in front of the child in the mother, but in front of others without that kind of casual and natural, also, when a mother\'s arms the baby gently stroked the baby\'s body with their hands, baby will immediately reveal emotions of joy, micro-closed eyes, respiratory natural or smile, watching the mother\'s face. From the look of these, you can see that motherly love for babies is a beautiful, natural, filmed, enjoy, this beauty is in itself conducive to intellectual development.
3-4 aged of child care, has society has walk and own hands-on work, but, in mother side Shi they will performance was more lively, more assured some, if once left mother, he on will while view once own of mother is also in in situ, if in in situ is not dynamic, children on will still assured to play; as suddenly found mother is not original of local has, will has may immediately crying or shouted up, performance out panic and does not sense. And the emotions of fear and panic, is detrimental to the mental development of unhealthy psychological factors.
These phenomena, illustrates the dependency of children to their mother, and child in the mother free of ideological emotion and scruples of behavior. Children from such acts, access to the immense happiness and enjoyment, an important role in the early intellectual development. On child care, early material supply of nutrients, important, however, spirit nutrition is essential, if only the substance of nutrition supply, and lack of good psychological emotions, good understanding of things around, feeling and free motor stimulation, is not, is not conducive to the development of intelligence.
At present, young couples working ratio increases, superior to domestic economic conditions, many others bringing up children shortly after birth. From the working angle, so conducive to work, of course, but if from childcare, development of intelligence, is not desirable. Because this can cause children lack of love, child\'s level of development of intelligence cannot be expected. Want to know the health and education is the responsibility of the father, mother, others can replace you to care for their children\'s lives, but no substitute for love, this is where the great mother. Therefore, for the intellectual development of children, that you work busy, economic conditions and then superior, should also not be completely handed over to nannies shortly after the birth of a child or other person under the care and training. If the mother and child separation, a child from childhood experience feelings of motherly love was not, it will not affect the behavior of child intelligence development and cultivation of character.
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