Many people find, fine speaking voice, shy of the feminization of boys on the rise. In fact, the feminization of males are essentially gender sense of dislocation.
There are many reasons for this phenomenon. At present too many primary and secondary school teachers is also one of the causes of the feminization of boys, too prominent female atmosphere, of course, have a negative impact on the formation of healthy personality of students.
Family education failure was the cause of another major reason for the gender sense of dislocation. Now most of them are only children, so the boy as a girl and girls in the House when the boy is not difficult to see. The result behaves like a girl when some boys grow up, often laughed at by others, to go through tough resistance, to back the \"normal\".
Division of gender roles is to sex as a standard for a social role, it determines a person\'s behaviour. As people demand that male behavior reflects the spirit of masculine, female behavior out of feminine beauty. Although gender is determined by genetic, but gender roles are from the results of the children affected by adult, education in the period. Lack of sex education to their children, are detrimental to the healthy growth of children. Results are easily lead to dislocation of children gender roles, for the kids would be distortions and damage of the heart.
Sex education, including a certain amount of sex education, but sex education is by no means all sex education. Prevalence of desire today, we pay special attention to protecting children from pornography of the prevalence of violence against and give them a not against childhood and adolescents, to provide them with a healthy growth environment, do not make them early. At the same time, parents and the school of thinking should be effective sex education, proper sex education to their children and give them to the correct boot.
How the kids explain gender?
Many people say that children should be told the truth in the West, while others said it should be note but in moderation.
One day, Leo suddenly ran over to ask me \"why I was a boy? ”
I flicker for a moment, thought for a while: \"because mother angry with you when you are the man. ”
\"Why? \"He asked.
I will not pretend not to know: \"because you have a small Luo Li (German: chicken chicken). ”
His music and, Yes, he knew. \"Josephine is not without small Luo Li? So she is a girl? \"He said.
\"Yes, Yes. \"I said.
Josephine is a small Leo likes another girl, she is one year older than Leo, Leo that she was extremely nice. Josephine when it came to our House, Leo had to go with her to the toilet, purpose is to look at her ever small Luo Li.
\"Why don\'t you have the \' Luo Li \'? \"Leo asked Josephine.
\"I am woman. \"Josephine is calmly said.
\"Your \' Luo Li, \' where is that? ”
\"My mother said \' Luo Li \' are long belly, boys are out there. ”
\"It so that it was out of sight? How do you pee? ……”
Back then I won\'t know how to solve this problem. However, Leo had been doubtful. It is said that United States had two brother and sister aged five or six, curiosity, take a look at each other\'s different from what they have, the results were neighbors will see to the Court. To this end, the United States public debate. I think that really has nothing to do. Stefan more convinced that something is wrong with! As Leo grew his problems, and are increasingly difficult to cope with the problem, or the oriental concept to me is very strong woman of awkward questions. …… Hot spots: on the children of 10 puzzle
How to answer the problem of children, Germany\'s parents have a different view, but the majority is to call a spade a spade. Leo on parents, kindergarten teacher Claudia told a small class of children playing children games--boys zidanneisi with a blanket of convex stomach, saying that he is pregnant, to have children. Claudia says no, man is not of paunch. Danneisi said his mother was pregnant, and big belly. Claudia said that only a woman can have children, mother is a woman, they are able. Result danneisi very sad all day, because he could not have children in the future.
Christine Dina\'s mother said that her daughter had asked the children what, is kissed his mouth had a child, Michelle because she and the children had a kiss. Her mother said that she explained was the need to grow up, special men and women love to have children, when it comes to the stop.
Children Katharina Becker of experts believe that children should not be any question of a withdrawal to answer as frankly as possible, concealing is the result of ignorance and curiosity. If you tell kids the truth, which, though they start curiosity, but as the child grows, they will continue to correct themselves.
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So when Leo friends of distant is six years old, and a primary school on-time, he already know how the child. One day after he visited aunt Susie in production, his mother said, he did the prior to aunt Susie baby take a look at the birth canal, so he can see the little Baby, and greet little Baby and can\'t say, let him come out. I listened, laughing. Think innocent children imagine it is feeling.
Here, you cannot be added to any obscene meaning children in the least. Also, from children, you can feel in the world of pure
Clean side. Like Leo joined with an imperative tone said one day: MOM, why don\'t you have a small Baby now, paunch now would you? Another time, I heard tell Leo Stefan so parents special love, there will be a small Baby. Then small Baby in the mother\'s belly, long, grew up came out.This curiosity and awareness of the process of birth, gender, experts from China called \"early sexual education\". I have seen an early childhood education journal, telling a child distinguish between boys and girls from the hair to determine the length, see lion is said to be female. I find interesting reading. However, often the real difference between men and women, parents avoided.
I remember my own understanding is almost as of late, with a Chinese common expressions are \"late\". How internal structure of a woman, I have been in a State of fuzzy. Mother has also been no secret to give me guidance about. I brought this experience and a childhood friend said. She said she has never been to the woman menstruation to have children, unwittingly had come all the way. What is \"learning\".
Education in China in the past, do not say anything else, only from the 60 \'s child is really poor. I can understand when mothers and understand nothing of the teacher, they cannot, dare, even if some are shy to tell the truth. My girls are coming to menstrual things are learned from a primary school student, she boldly told me about the truth at that time, I have a good think for a while when girls grief, and fear the day of arrival. But in Germany, boy child children on different long ago by the family of the opposite sex, and class of early education and awareness, so simply is not shy and I experienced out of ignorance. In some place with lakes and the sea, I saw teachers lead students to go for an outing, teenage boys and girls are naked swim without any alert, they play with, laugh with, lively and lovely.
A little girl from domestic to Li Li a high school in Hamburg. One day, she suddenly ask me to call a number of physiological knowledge. I\'m surprised. Her sayings explained that they had to study Physiology course at once, as returned from the Mainland, she knows nothing about it, and she is afraid to ask Germany students, because then they would make fun of her. I also cannot help her much of busy. I have always wanted to ask her how well this textual research on the subjects.
Stefan told me that when he was young when I was in school, teacher Physiology course, never evade real. Start boy child children have some sorry, everybody knows this is science, and related them, getting serious.
For the consideration of gender, children seem to never cease. Before going to sleep one day, after Leo after hearing my fairy tale, sudden sleep and asked: \"MOM, are you not men about? ”
I flicker for a moment: \"all mothers are women, only women can small Baby. What do you know who you are? ”
\"You. \"He did not hesitate. But I still don\'t know, \"what about why you are female? ”
\"Because when grandma mother mother is a woman. ”
\"Grandma why don\'t men do you build? ”
\"Mother was in Grandma belly woman, Grandma has no way to change. ”
\"So, she can give you a Luo Li, you install, and then you have is a guy. She did not give. Then now you give yourself an a. \"He\'s a Jack said. \"You made a paper, and then stick on the abdominal belly, this is a guy you sth\" said he fell asleep.
Wake up the next morning, he thought of what to say: \"you have to cut it short, but also to draw a mustache. \"He was in the idea of the day thing! In his view, so I was completely male sth
In one or two deys, Stefan gave me a piece of paper, is a friend of mine sent him E-mail above. Me laugh more than, that I mentioned above and similar. This transcription is as follows:
Title: the marriage? 》
Children will tell the truth!!!
Selected group France ten juveniles under the age of survey (friend):
Celibacy and marriage which is better?
Theodore, was eight years old: I don\'t know which one is better, but I will not make love with my wife, I do not want her getting fat.
Anita, the age of nine: best girl single, boy you need someone to clean up sth How to decide who to marry?
Alain, ten years old: must find a and their own are the same person. If you love football, so she has to like and with potato chips and beer and watch football with you.
Kirszen, ten years old: not decide to marry who, God had already selected for you good.
How big the correct age of marriage?
Camille, the age of six: best age is 23 years old, because you know your husband had at least ten years.
Freddie, was six years old: there is nothing better in the age of marriage. Those who want to marry must be really bad.
What do your parents have in common?
Aur, eight years old: they are no longer to have children.
What people do when dating?
Linette, eight: dating is a delight of opportunities, and people should use this opportunity to a better understanding. If you\'ve heard a long time,
Even the boys say interesting things.Martin, age: If the first date of sub-interesting lied that she had a second appointment.
If you missed the first date, then, what will you do?
Craig, nine years old: I will go home and as if I was dead, and then I will be an obituary in the newspaper.
When allowed and people kissing?
Pamela, the age of seven: what if they were rich men.
Henri, was eight years old: If you kissed a woman, you must get married and have children with her, that\'s about it. (The following is the most wonderful questions and answers, my friend)
How to make a successful marriage?
Richard, ten year old husband must be pretty said his wife, even though she looks like a big truck.
Understanding baby gender identity development in 3 steps
From the moment of baby born, baby gender of marks, from names, clothes, toys, to conduct requirements, lifestyle, parents expect their baby from MOM and dad treats them gradually in the attitudes and behavior requires understanding of gender.
First step-before the age of 3 for understanding gender is only external features
3 years ago say their sex of the baby can be very loud, but their understanding of the gender characteristics of external level. At the beginning, baby is curious asked her mother, he is a boy or a girl; as is and the mother, is also the same as father. Gradually, they learn to come from the hairstyles, clothes tell male or female, but they also is unlikely to be able to really understand the different men and women, at the same time they do not understand that sex is constant change.
Second step 4 on gender consciousness started rich
To 4 years old baby gender consciousness began to enrich many. Their gender differences are more curious than at the age of 3. For example, when baby discovered toilet for men and women differently, often curiously asked, \"why do guys have to pee standing, sitting and girls want to pee? \"Similarly, their own genitals or have had a curious, wanted to see their own and others do not, on the basis of experience to the difference in male and female genital mutilation. In some cases, hear someone bring \"chicken chicken\" term would find mysterious and all chortled with laughing. Even baby because it is too curious, games such as play off his trousers. When the baby\'s gender stereotype is also strengthened. They firmly believed that boys playing with a doll is incorrect, the girls can\'t play those war games.
Third step-after the age of 5 really start understanding of gender differences
Baby really start understanding of gender differences, they know that in addition to appearances of the different, also includes a different genital. If you ask them, what boys and girls are different, most commonly heard answer is probably: \"boys are not allowed to wear skirts\", \"girl with long hair\". But if you ask, they will hesitate to tell you: \"the boy has chicken chicken, women did not. \"Due to the understanding of gender, baby gender also on the sensitive, beginning to understand that embarrassed and disqualification. They really understand sex does not vary over time, the external characteristics, desire to change.
In the understanding of gender role, preschool baby will be a lot of toys, clothes, tools, games, career, and even color and a sex linked, and another gender strict quarantine, form impressions very stereotyped gender roles, this phenomenon until the child will only be mitigated.
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