Not to say to the children of inferiority

Sometimes, parents a simple appreciation, gave encouragement to children is immeasurable. If a 3 year old child, to dress herself up, and mothers should say: \"Ah! very clever of you, have learned to dress himself, not mother help, really great!\"
This sentence was not so simple, but grew up in the minds of children will feel in his mother \'s, there is a sense of satisfaction, thus establishing the self-confidence, more willing to try to take care of themselves later in life.
Sometimes, our appreciation of children should be more generous, it may be exaggerated. For example, children successfully taking a building blocks model, you might as well say: \"Oh 1 child aged 5, he will ride out of so beautiful, ingenious model, is a small genius!\" Your child may cause you this small appreciation of genius, grow up and if it really was a great genius!
Facing some of the more playful, like trick or treat children, most parents brought them no way. Only to blame, says naughty children, not like, even scolding method. However, children still not improved.
If you convert a way with words of appreciation says: \"Ah! your energy is abundant, many agile, if you do something to help, we can quickly do!\"
Then, you let your child help to do some of his ability and and show themselves to things, he will be complete. Therefore, positive incentives to carefully explore advantages of child is your child the best way to self-confidence. Child\'s heart is simple and straightforward. Mother says that he is useless and worthless, he really think that it is tasteless, and is even more disappointing after. If the mother appreciated him, he will be very happy, and will require their own, to do better in the future.
The arrows can also hurt, such as \"you stupid!\" \" What would you? \" Will children have a sense of frustration, a sense of inferiority, insecurity, unconsciously case, lose the ability to improvise, more able to resolve the problems faced by.
Children often say: \"I cannot finish these exercises\", \"I can\'t spell well this puzzle\", that \"I can\'t\", \"I can\'t\" behind may really need help from others is the purpose of, or laziness, possibly a lack of confidence. Fear of failure, the courage to face challenges. Therefore, don\'t accept the excuse. Told him: do you believe in his abilities, not to \"I can\'t\" to pass the buck