Parenting time, love take time

Although the theory of education, child-rearing methods of so much more, but which have a common point, that is, as soon as possible, to be timely. Often heard many parents complained that no time with the baby because of busy work. There are also many children and parents contact tool is a piece of note paper: \"money on the table go buy something to eat\", \"Dad, I want to make lunch fees\", \"game don\'t play too long\", \"I can go to school tomorrow students play? \"Sort of parent-child interaction, and how can they expect mutual trust, respect, not to mention warm feeling, in fact, if you ask parents why so busy, so hard, ten people would say yes to children. Since it is for the children were reluctant to give children time to accompany him to share the happy.

Actually our children really need time is not long, many parents have an exclamation mark on the child a high grade of primary school, junior secondary school do not have parents, in the minds of his students more weight than the parents. Coupled with the high school, specialist on some children may live on campus, and family time with even less, serving universities, it is not to mention, one is true and a child had a day time coexistence is one day less. Wait for you \"free\", it is when children leave the nest, then complained that the child doesn\'t know any better, cannot taste of parents \' intention, have been too late, zaozhijinri why act in this way at that time! Money earned, career success, but has let the best time to create a family, the cost would be too great. Some things that can be sustained, but some things are slow, and time to never return, child childhood only one, all the cultivation of healthy personality, values, robust body-building exercise at this time. As parents, we should cherish, and child close parent-child relationship, lifetime access to infinite.

Teach children safety knowledge

Parents usually do the housework, is attention to bit by bit, taught him the water, fire and electrical safety knowledge. Let the children to understand the security, though not children, but be sure to let him know the correct procedure, in case of emergency, children can be issued the same warning.

1, turn off the taps, spent electric shut off plug, no gas to gross position when switched off, on, off gas adults should be asked to do.

2, before the use of electrical appliances, you must wipe your hands. Leakage occurs, immediately dial out plugs, or pure margin goods to stick to plug loose, avoid electric shock to hand touch.

3, when you smell a gas smell should be immediately closed gas switch, ventilation and open the doors and Windows, never switch any electrical appliances at this point, so as not to cause a fire.

4, bath bathe in the water not too full to prevent drowning.

5, training children learn the various emergency telephone numbers, including the police 110, fire 119, as well as the parent office telephone, friends even note the assistance could be provided in the vicinity of the phone for a rainy day.

6, usually through stories, play games, even with the TV news, teach children emergency contingency measures.

Baby slip, fall prevention tips

Baby swaddling clothes by detachment began, around the hands and feet keep exploring, family was his first contact with the environment, did you ready to secure home space for kids? Don\'t let him take the impact-collision \"wrong first step\".
　　
Falls are one of the highest child accident rates, however most of the families in decoration, design house, is \"adult\" requirements, so when when the baby comes home environments that may not be able to provide enough security, child care there is no ability to protect themselves, so adults have obligations for him to create a secure environment, make babies learning more worry-free. Please follow our footsteps, review, improve the layout of your home, kids \"go off without a hitch\".

Kitchen

Kitchen on the ground often caused by water stains and grease the ground slippery, when mother is busy cooking, cooking, babies can be slipped into the kitchen, at risk of falling, injury, so advance planning a safe route, it is very important.

Security zone
1 kitchen door for better safety measures, so as to avoid baby when parents-guide.
2 always cleans the water stains, grease, keep the kitchen drying.
3 pans, bowls, gourd, and return immediately after use to avoid walking obstacle.
4 near the wash pool, retro-fitting of nonferrous taping, inform baby inaccessible.
5, keeping the table install protective devices (arc angle-protective cotton mats), so that the baby was injured when he fell.
6 in the baby\'s sole adhesive mats.

Bedroom

Bed and bed end slipped easily lead to the elderly and child care, collision, parents have to accompany the child to assist he familiar with the use of the room, if the baby has its own room, between the mother and father may wish to encourage children themselves scoop, led him to design safe space for themselves.

Security zone
1 let the baby alone in bed, so he woke up due to panic and fall under the bed.
2 often rooms of furniture for children to see, so he is familiar with the environment.
3 bed, bed placed stepping with the slip mat, cushion, or laying carpet cloth, plastic assembled the whole room, slip assembled carpet, can effectively prevent slipping.
4 sheets skirts not too long to avoid children tripped.
5 toys and clothing to tidy, so as to avoid baby tripped.
6 bed edge, furniture corner install protective devices (arc angle-protective cotton mats), so that the baby was injured when he fell.

Bathroom

Bath and wash your face in front tends to be a lot of water, are the most prone to slipping places parents absolutely cannot leave the baby alone go to the toilet or bathing.

Security zone
1 after using the bathroom, immediately wipe clean.
2 the installation of exhaust fan, you can quickly move gas pump in the bathroom.
3 SOAP, shampoos as far as possible in the children failed to place, so as not to overflow when babies play, causing the ground slippery.
4 baby like to play with water, to prepare a small pot, small for his chair, let him sit on a Chair, playing safely.
Install handrails to 5 next to the bath/shower, toilet, let the baby at the time of rose, can hold, avoids falls.
6 using solid wood bathroom flooring slip mats or assembled plastic mats.

Living room

Sofa, coffee table, four weeks before the television the most prone to sliding fell, therefore, you should try to select a soft, non-tip of the furniture. If possible, please leave a game he dedicated area for baby, gave him a safe range of activities.

Security zone
1 keep the living room tidy, don\'t let the toy, buy their books, articles in case children stumbled.
2 not to wax the floors to avoid baby slip, best laying safety mats (PVC material), so that even if the baby is accidentally falls or injuries.
3-ply flooring materials to avoid the use of stone, you can choose flexible plastic floor tiles.
4 when laying carpet, following the best retro-fitting of skidproof mat to prevent carpet slide, resulting in child care falls.
5 the high table, high chair receives the baby that he will not go to the place, when it cannot avoid, and do not leave him alone on the climb to the high table, high chair.
6 edges, pointed formulated install protective devices (circular corner protection cotton mats), so that the baby was injured when he fell.

Sill, balcony, staircase

Child care on a window sill or balcony like the scenery, games, if your House is on the first floor above, it is necessary to prevent the baby slipped and fell, and stair design if it is not safe, child care would easily tumbled injuries, should pay special attention.

Security zone
1 install window to window bars, window normally should be well tied to avoid baby crawled out.
2 do not let your baby up and down stairs alone, indoor install fencing to top, bottom of the stairs of the best.
3 stair lighting should be adequate to avoid baby tumble due to poor sight.
4 balcony railing interval not too big, so as not to baby through the fall.
5 for the rainwater into wet terrace, laying wood sliding on the ground floor, plastic floor tiles, ribbed plate, or stone floor mats.
6 on the steps of the stairs stick slip, the staircase is laying slip pedal mats.

France kids from elementary school money

France children\'s \"family finance course\" early at the age of children 3-4 in fact, that just has \"several\" concept, just different amounts of money, see money and purchase between \"organic\" began. At the time of Christmas or birthday, children from the adults for the first time there may only receive pocket money of € 1-5. France parents think that children have their own early \"secretly stashaway\" help children economic a certain degree of independence.

For the modest sum of \"money\", most parents do not advocate child to save it, but encourage them to reasonably be consumed. After consumption, can communicate with children, such as whether to pay, satisfaction, and then helped them analyze the consumer are reasonable, necessary, and what you can get any experience, lessons learnt from it, and so on.

Please give the baby a safe space

Your baby will gradually climb, will go up, with the expansion of the scope of his activities \' unsafe factors have increased. In order to reduce risk factors, parents should carefully examine the placement of articles in. Should stand in your baby\'s vision to observe the environment, give baby a secure living space. The following items please note:

Small items, easy eating: medicine, card issuers, pins, buttons, coins, nails, etc;

Second, the easy attacks article: knives, scissors, bamboo sticks, toothpicks, awl, vases etc;

Third, easily lead to Burns article: fire, heating, iron, vacuum flask, cigarette butts, hot pot, etc;

Four, of electric shock caused by items: electrical appliances, plugs, wires, etc;

Five, easily falls caused by factors: high bed, window sill, balcony;

Six, such as plastic bags were vulnerable to children on the head, may also cause asphyxia.

Of course, if MOM and dad to take additional security measures, then our baby will be safer. Therefore in our daily lives, we should pay attention to matters:

Drugs purchased must have on the safety of baby bottles packaged and put it in the kit lock in, not to reach out and touch the baby.

Medicine and chemical drugs are saved in a clear labelling of the bottle, you don\'t get in the toxic substances are packaged in bottles.

Drugs or chemicals are stored in places as far as possible from food.

Don\'t spray cans, baby easier to suppress its nozzles and cause eye injuries.

Did do all household appliances of wire to keep the baby reach for touch.

All wires should be intact, are not bruised and lacerated from flogging or other damage.

Socket with safety plug cover.

Heating and piping to cover with a towel, or separated by furniture. To educate the baby so that she knew since childhood heating package is hot, you cannot touch.

Upstairs all Windows to install Rails, don\'t put any baby can climb in the vicinity of objects.

Needle and PIN, matches, lighters, cutting knife and scissors, don\'t let the baby reached for it, you want to lock them in the drawer.

Baby clothes should be fire.

Any furniture should be strong and heavy, made it impossible for the baby down it.

Financial management skills: family finance three books

Financial accounting of its books available income, expenses, balance \"three-bar\", can be received on a method when the form of a running account, the amount of support ordered-by-record, month-end settlement, annual summary. At the same time, according to the family income (such as salary income, operating revenue, borrowed), expenditures (such as door seven things, purchase clothing and other expenses) project detail ledgers and records according to the figures, month-end summary, conclusion of the year. Family accounts can bring many benefits, by account, fully reflect the families within a certain period (usually annual) income, expenditure and the balance, as a result of excessive consumption of car purchase and loan of the purchase, are fully reflected, at a glance. By accounting, classifications reflect the economic balance in the family. Because of family accounts can make family staff on their own economic resumption, and balance of an idea, therefore, can play a role in encouraging people to family income. It also enables officers in the spirit of the family after the first collection, the principle of living within our means, systematic and reasonable arrangements for expenditure savings. By accounting, but also provide reference materials for preparing the annual family financial revenue and expenditure plans, family-friendly financial management.

Invoice archive this major collection purchase invoices, certificates, warranty cards, and brochures. When the quality accident brought losses to consumers, purchase invoices is undoubtedly consumer redress, to safeguard their legitimate rights and interests of important documents, so be sure to keep. During the warranty period, warranty card is a product warranty certificate, in the event of failure, manual is a good help to maintenance personnel.

Instinct archives relevant information in a timely manner of financial assets recorded in register, when you deposit bills, such as lost or stolen, according to family financial files check report in a timely manner, so as to reduce or avoid economic losses, one aspect of this family actually hidden financing.

What can say 3 large

3 years, 7 years old, this is the past scholars \' enjoyment of the old saying in China. Of course, and as in traditional Chinese medicine, this is a Chinese empirical thought, never received demonstration of Western scientists. Recently, London psychiatric learn Institute publishing a copies report, since 1980 up, scientists were on 1000 name 3 aged child care for has up to 25 years of observation, last came has conclusions, 3 aged children of words and deeds can indicates its adult Hou of character, children of character features in young of when has basic stereotypes, although in yihou of growth process in the some change, but this changes seems to does not too obvious, a a people in child care period formation of personality, will effect to he future of learning, and cause, and marriage, and family and so on.

It is clear that this research will also continue to prove that the \"7 years old\" science. Because after all, human talent there is a late bloomer, but can guess from this study, 3-7 how important family education for their children\'s life.

When it comes to education, United Kingdom author Oscar Wilde in the mantra of education, said: education is a very good thing, but it is best to always remember this: any thing worthy of understanding, are not professors. This can be understood as: impart knowledge is useless, the key is to make children themselves to realize things, found the truth. Can also be understood as any valuable thing most not from education and authority, talent and childhood habits but in the form of personality. The last two years, adult world advocate children\'s classics in Chinese education, sports and so on, are with studies to strengthen the moral education of the next generation, and so on, but it seems it against the order, Confucian classics says: to attain knowledge, Qi self-cultivation sth The starting point is that \"study the phenomena of nature\", there is a study the phenomena of nature, to know, just talk about self-cultivation of moral education. So-called study the phenomena of nature, is to see things, and insight into things. As far as things, this is the person\'s spontaneous behavior, at this stage, don\'t need adults to teach children anything, need is inspired and give them a chance, a person can be born dumb, but as long as society watch, would be enough to avoid stupid.

Said stupid, in human of stupid history under a book in, author baobo·fensite summary has history Shang human of stupid line, these stupid line most are and lack observation about, such as: New York a drug organization to carried out drug education, to children free issued has pencil, pencil Shang printing has: wise men not dip drug, pencil with has a cut Hou, on became has \"wise men to dip drug\", then with on became has \"to dip drug\"; a original of false banknotes dealers in Kansas arrested, because he in a restaurant using has two Zhang denomination for 16 dollars of false banknotes sth sth

Einstein once said, only two things are infinite--the universe and human stupidity, and I\'m also not sure on the former.

It is conceivable that knowledge and diplomas and cannot cover up the human folly, Cervantes says: one stupid sentence can use Spain language saying, or you can speak out with Latin. If today is this sentence: a silly phrase Chengdu words can be used, or you can say it in English, as far as I heard, Chengdu dialect rarely tell a stupid thing.

Three essentials in finance and investment plans: robust, combinations, value-added

I work in the financial sector, there are certain advantages on family finance. Sound, mix, value added, is my financial criteria, but also my financial management plan for this year\'s guiding ideology.
Sound, mix, value added, three are interdependent. General wage earner income limited only prudent, to reduce and reduce risks, to achieve the purposes of value added. Finance to value added, you must implement portfolio strategy, seeking maximum benefits as possible.

Portfolio finance person to respond. At present, China\'s stock market downturn, too risky; collection needs the appropriate knowledge and skills; investment real estate without capital strength. Therefore, I proceed from their own realities, financial means for this year\'s savings 40%, bond 30%, open-end Fund 10%, private lending 20%, portfolio investment, their ratio is under financial management guidelines established by the calculation.

At present, although the savings interest rate is the lowest level since the founding of, but it has features such as security, mobility, productivity, wage earner is the best choice. Savings in the operation, given the current characteristics of different period of minimal difference in interest rates for savings on a regular basis, for the flexible use of funds, leaving part of the cost of living survival, remaining in regular savings, three months, six months, one year duration combination known as the \"combination of length, and balance\".

Bonds, especially those treasuries, due to waive interest tax, their relatively high income, but according to the recent issue of Treasury bonds, to withdraw their interest income lower than the savings, therefore, must be within a certain period will not release funds to buy government bonds, so as to get a higher income. Of course, if you are interested, you can open an account to the stock market, in a sense, fried Treasury it is quite safe.

Open investments of the Fund was launched in recent years of new varieties, but due to the investment market is in the doldrums, she acquired enough, bad fate, at present most of the Fund fell below face value. As the Economic Outlook looks promising open funds should be \"new Vista\", therefore, is currently the Fund periods of low prices, is also a good time to buy Fund.

Private lending, is one of the most attractive investments. It gains a high, but there are certain risks, the key is strictly examine the financial strength and creditworthiness of the borrower. I based on long-term credit work experience, select the debt to asset ratio is low, the economic benefits of good prospects, customers for its products as the borrowed object, and implemented in private lending \"small, decentralized, short\" strategy, speed up capital turnover, found signs of risk, time to recover, will fund the initiative in their own hands. Of course, private lending constraints must be in accordance with the relevant legislation, to sign the Protocol, legalization, has the best conditions the guarantee mortgage formalities, on the premise of ensuring financial security in order to improve the finance income.

Financial management is a science, sound mix, value added, is my accumulated decades of financial management experience, perhaps this is a very conservative way of managing money, but I still love her, because in the past couple of days, she gave me a spacious room and comfortable life. Dear friends, welcome to my financial plan all of your comments and suggestions.

How to develop family books

Establish a reasonable and effective family books, not only can help you clear income and expenditures, can also help you find a better income and reduce expenditure, good way to maintain a sound cycle of family financial.

Family book with concise, easy to remember, easy to be good, can be based on personal style and level of fine for family economic spending plan to prepare for a different form, accounting. Following are two different types of accounting, for information purposes only.

1, every day more general accounting, accounts to month according to the daily record\'s classifications together. According to personal habits coarse or fine columns table of income and expenditure, expenditure may be giving the food, clothing, newspapers, entertainment, savings, and other. Items of income other than wages, bonuses and wage income can be.

2, more detailed specifications to account, can be entered in the budget and final accounts a total on the table, easy to control daily expenses by project accounting, month-end fills in the Statistics summary, January household budgets and final accounts are very clear. Divided into revenue and expenditure table, fixed costs and a fixed expenditure table.

Families should keep records of the accounts, the best account the same day on the day in mind, do riqingyuejie. Such an approach can make household expenditure at a glance, every family from which you can explore some of the laws so that timely improvements in the budget and actual cost of the following month, the family economy do an orderly.

Catch the Monkey King

\"Daddy, come to Daddy, come on. ”

I is the study of reading, his son called I, busy run out asked: \"son of Dad doing? ”

Son pointed at the television said, \"Daddy, the Monkey King stole, the Monkey King stole. ”

It turns out that in the TV animation havoc in heaven, the son, is seeing the Monkey King in the Peach Garden stealing peaches.

Son of discovering I was surprised. In General, children do not have this kind of moral judgment, today the son was able to find the Monkey King \"the bad work style\" really makes me happy. I sat down beside his son, with him to see the story below, not only because I know the Monkey King stealing peaches, also robbed the \"elixir of life\" stole \"wine\", I and the son \"moral judgement\" to the end.

Sure enough, soon the Monkey King had arrived at Lao Zi shipments at, see FAIRCHILD is refining elixir of life, the Monkey King brash robbed many \"elixir of life\" to eat.

I shouted: \"AHA, the Monkey King also robbed the people something, he did right? ”

Son said: \"no, no, necrosis of the Monkey King, also robbed the people of things. ”

I and my son is critical with the Monkey King\'s bad acts, but found the Monkey King and went to THE JADE POOL, remove root soft hair on the body out of drowsy-head and all the fans of FAIRCHILD, have started stealing wine.

Son began to call this time: \"Dad, you see the Monkey King began stealing wine, is not really a good boy. ”

\"Yes, Monkey King stole people things, really not a good child, son, do you want to be the Monkey King? \"I ask my son.

Son said firmly: \"only I\'d done the Monkey King, he is a thief. ”

\"Good boy, you say too by the way, someone stolen things children, we will not learn it. ”

\"I want to put the Monkey King caught the Public Security Bureau. \"Said his son took his toy car, called siren voices with your mouth, to catch the Monkey King\" at large \".

Watching son catch the Monkey King\'s move, I couldn\'t help but lost in thought. Some of the stories \"moral standards\" may pass to the child\'s right is contrary to our usual ideas, if the child was found, and consciously made the right moral judgment, as this right of parents to encourage their children to judge, in the judgment in the process of upgrading the children\'s moral standards.

Not to say to the children of inferiority

Sometimes, parents a simple appreciation, gave encouragement to children is immeasurable. If a 3 year old child, to dress herself up, and mothers should say: \"Ah! very clever of you, have learned to dress himself, not mother help, really great!\"
This sentence was not so simple, but grew up in the minds of children will feel in his mother \'s, there is a sense of satisfaction, thus establishing the self-confidence, more willing to try to take care of themselves later in life.
Sometimes, our appreciation of children should be more generous, it may be exaggerated. For example, children successfully taking a building blocks model, you might as well say: \"Oh 1 child aged 5, he will ride out of so beautiful, ingenious model, is a small genius!\" Your child may cause you this small appreciation of genius, grow up and if it really was a great genius!
Facing some of the more playful, like trick or treat children, most parents brought them no way. Only to blame, says naughty children, not like, even scolding method. However, children still not improved.
If you convert a way with words of appreciation says: \"Ah! your energy is abundant, many agile, if you do something to help, we can quickly do!\"
Then, you let your child help to do some of his ability and and show themselves to things, he will be complete. Therefore, positive incentives to carefully explore advantages of child is your child the best way to self-confidence. Child\'s heart is simple and straightforward. Mother says that he is useless and worthless, he really think that it is tasteless, and is even more disappointing after. If the mother appreciated him, he will be very happy, and will require their own, to do better in the future.
The arrows can also hurt, such as \"you stupid!\" \" What would you? \" Will children have a sense of frustration, a sense of inferiority, insecurity, unconsciously case, lose the ability to improvise, more able to resolve the problems faced by.
Children often say: \"I cannot finish these exercises\", \"I can\'t spell well this puzzle\", that \"I can\'t\", \"I can\'t\" behind may really need help from others is the purpose of, or laziness, possibly a lack of confidence. Fear of failure, the courage to face challenges. Therefore, don\'t accept the excuse. Told him: do you believe in his abilities, not to \"I can\'t\" to pass the buck