Health of women and men in marriage is a partnership of equality and mutual benefit and emotional communication in the interaction of the steady state. Both gain emotional satisfaction, while preserving freedom of self-personality. But due to the influence of traditional culture to many women are active by default in a marriage relationship subordinate status. This relationship has a direct impact women play their potential, and storing up problems for marriage. Women take big risks for this relationship, once the marriage fission, women become victims of course.
Mistake: as the bastion of marriage for love and ignored love business. \"You must love me forever, I give my lifetime of happiness to you. \"Most women wear the wedding dress for her man. Marriage started to hold attitude is not responsible for their own happiness, this dependency is idle. Man nods, it seemed to be reassured and do whatever they want. The unconditional dedication before marriage are treated as paid investment, now has the power to request, enjoy, and give up to investment. One day A maiden with many wooers often chooses the worst, and serious overdrafts, man with your happiness from you to. You finally understood, marriage is not a bastion of love, love is not a once and for all investment, you just marriage this land the farmer, suffering from operation harvest.
Myth two: all regard marriage as life blindly self-sacrifice. \"For you I give up their jobs, abandon their loved ones, friends, give up can give up everything. \"The women always thought to give up all of to seizing the men, this is the desperate gambler mentality. They often give up some shouldn\'t give up something, denied that they believe that there is something of value, go with her husband, to please husbands, subject to his request more than one\'s own feelings and needs. This unnecessary sacrifice, resulting in women\'s self-loss. This so-called successful men behind the women often were commendable. I personally do not think the woman folly is that selfish man. Concept of the self in the ideal combination of marriage should be clear, should not make unnecessary sacrifices. Aren\'t hand couples a more beautiful sight?!
Myth three: as good wives and mothers as its mission, ignoring their own building. \"I do cattle and horses are not for the sake of the family. \"Today you still cling to the idea of the 21st century, you would be out. Your complaints have no sympathy, liberated from the family chores, unkempt appearance had to work hard, go into their own building, good woman has had a new set of definitions. Men are no longer satisfied with only cook with children nurse-wife, also no longer need empty vase-woman in the head, the pursuit is a like-minded partner-wife, soul resonance.
Men and women in marriage is like a race, you don\'t want to go to man dust-proof, what are you waiting for?
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