Fly fly Mama said: most children like to bathe, my son, too. In the bath when I will play some games with him, or teach him some things the way. For example, baby bath time, I will wash says: \"wash the neck. \"\" Wash back. \"\" Wash ass, wash legs. \"Let the children correctly perceived in all parts of the body, I think to do is teach children knowledge and exchanges between parents bring happiness. But this time the bath, he pointed to the penis asked me: \"what is this? \"How do I answer it???
We have learned: boy at the age of 1 may have erectile, girls also have the phenomenon of lubrication of the vagina, 3~4sui children to pregnancy, childbirth, breast, and other interested know that gender differences, and there are some activities, such as touching the sexual organs, speak to change, concerns and questions. Parents should be frank answer children\'s questions, said \"this is the penis\", \"this is the vulva\" and so on, must not be reprimanded, and accuse them of, dirty, dirty feeling caused to the child sex organs.??
If the 1 year old children, bath likes to play with their genitals, parents of intuition may be: \"bad playing the organ, should be promptly stopped. \"May also be worried: little interest have occurred on older, grow up and where will it all end in the future. In fact, this is completely redundant to the sensitive and worrying. From the perspective of children\'s mental development, 1 to 1 and a half children handle organ, does not mean that on the occurrence of sexual interest, they also do not know what is sexual desire. Child body naked have a particular interest in the bath, only their bodies to attract their attention. In a world where children, exploring new things is what they are trying to understand and experience the most direct way of all things, first of all, experience itself is natural and normal.??
In the psychological phenomenon, \"notes\" have a special status, it is not a separate mental processes, do not belong to individual characteristics, but an important aspect of mental activity, is also a prerequisite of access to knowledge. \"Takes note\" is the object of consciousness on a certain set, to ensure that access to particularly clear response. Therefore, the child\'s curiosity is the individual\'s normal performance.??
When the child is playing with their own ears, Mama will smile on dad said: \"you see, he played his own ears had a more serious, more fun. \"When a child pulled his feet, easily put toes into his mouth when mother also said with a laugh:\" you see, his Deputy, more interesting. \"But when the children touched while playing their sex organs, parents will not have the above reaction of interest, many parents may also be pulling faces, pulling the scolded child hand said:\" no! \"This fuss over the opposite attitude of parents, will lead to greater interest of the child. Different reaction of parents on child behavior, reflects their prejudices on sexual and sexual organs, or you will not to children playing with their ears, toes and playing with sex organs to take the opposite attitude. Because of the traditional view is that is \"dirty\" and \"shame\" thing. Don\'t look down on this kind of thing, parents of this bias will be left in children in young minds the impression that: \"the ears and toes are good, you can play. Sex organ is not good, can not play, play is the bad boy. \"Parents scolded and punished may prevent children from an early age develop sexual organs of sense of shame and guilt, resulting in oppression of, on child development of the consciousness of extremely unfavorable. Information indicates that many sexual problems of adults, are in childhood masturbation or other sexual activity is being scolded by parents of history, resulting in a frigid sexual dysfunction, impotence, premature ejaculation, etc.??
Therefore, the correct attitude towards family sex education should be: let it be for sex education.??
Regardless of the parents themselves on what attitude to take, should not prevent a child\'s curiosity, and should take its course for education. For child care, whether touch ears and playing with the toes and genitals, motivation is a, is itself an exploration. If parents to make children aware of their name for the various parts of the body: this is the ears, this is the toe, it is the navel, which is penis sth Can make the child feel every part of the body is OK, is itself an essential part of the. Handle one\'s own sex organs for the kids, can play with toys, storytelling and other transfers of children attention, also warned the children, because the hands dirty, with bacteria, like not sucking fingers, rubbing eyes, can\'t handle sex organs. This will enable the child to the parts of your body, including the sex organs have a healthy and correct understanding, which is laying the Foundation for children for the future confidence.
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