More and more cases show that a lack of communication is a husband and wife divorced one of the reasons.
People long to accept Orthodox and advanced education, becoming doctors, lawyers, engineers and others; likewise, if you intend to get married, you should hold correct attitudes, learn to be a good husband or wife, the other half as a life partner.
All statistics show that high divorce rate is becoming a trend. So, people started to
Optical input on premarital counselling.
Qiu Shanyi acting as art teacher (29 years) and Euro-Asian husband Dennis (Dennis Desouza,29 years old), in 2000 to participate in the Singapore community of pre-marriage counselling courses.
Premarital counselling, the sooner the better
Qiu Shanyi says: \"feel a little strange at first, the priest will speak to us in person by the husband and wife may face problems, arguing for example how to face and solve, and a character analysis for us, but also what we say enjoy and hate each other.
\"In fact, to say you hate the other half in public places, it is not easy, I feel some counselling of unmarried couples, also had reservations, did not tell the truth. After a pair of two classes on, you have no courage to come again! ”
She said, intends to marry the men and women should act before it is too late to accept premarital counselling, to have more time and space to in-depth understanding of each other, don\'t wait to courses on marriage.
After that, they to a University in Melbourne, Australia, once again participate in pre-marriage counselling course organised by the Church, in November last year after graduation where he married.
They were high school classmates, she said: \"we love more than 10 years to get married, but not to know each other\'s personality, we accept premarital counselling, on the 10 class. Priest want us to email it to him, again, where we say most hated and most like each other, from which we understand each other\'s strengths and weaknesses. ”
Premarital counselling in both places, Australia is the biggest difference is \"one to one\" counselling, the priest only to couple counselling, there is no other people present, this can open up to talk about, there is not much psychological pressure. After participating in counselling, some previously dare not face problems, now has been able to keep face.
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