What kind of person, to qualify for \"modern father certificate\"? \"Role-identification\" is the first step.
Don\'t be surprised at the restaurant, holding children feed the father rather than the mother, to the husband rather than the wife of the supermarket to buy food, because whether in the traditional role played, difficult and the beauty of modern parents.
Past kindergarten \"family contact book\" often only the mother\'s handwriting, seems to father the family economy, educational responsibility shall be borne by the mother. In fact, based on the experience of early childhood education experts confirmed that father is often more suitable for communication with the children than mothers.
Because the father\'s \"childlike innocence\" not to lose a child, he can be easier to play with the children into a into \"the same\" person, but you want to share with the father, the child family relationships, the mother is the indispensable impetus.
Father time, energy, contribution to the work, most of them no time to enjoy the warmth of the family, a family without to encourage women to establish a career man, is often difficult to enhance the status of the mother in front of children, husbands.
Practical parenting prescription
In today\'s society, shuangxin families more and more, with the women go out to work, male weight in an increasing number of family work, especially after his wife pregnant produces, many fathers are active bear family and child rearing responsibilities.
In fact, in children growth of process in the, father of love and close, on children personality of training and the intelligent of fired, are has is important of effect component, known father of, must cannot underestimate own in parenting Shang by played of role, however problem is, although many modern father wants, is does not know the how started, we recommendations modern father may wish to first by close children began, following, we provides some close children of specific method or steps.
One, and first wife to communicate each other how to tie
1 understanding wife needs your help are those that work? On the ability and your own time, and what can help busy, full communication, do good again, and you can save time and effort with each other.
2 communication on the concept of parenting, and reach a consensus, in order to avoid practices inconsistent with each other.
3 understand the characteristics of children, make a career for their children, step by step, careful management, your love is easy to implement.
Second, the use of space, accompanying children.
Most of the children, I hope, most like is \"father accompanied him\" whether playing games, playing chess, watching TV, eating, sleeping, playing with toys, reading sth As long as the father in children accompanied him around, will make the children happy. So if you have a little space, may wish to accompany their children:
1 pick SOAP, have a wash.
2 in a lattice of Bang skipping jumped on the ground.
3 lost the ball, picking up balls.
4 accompanied children run run, walk, take a look at the clouds in the wild, go home tired bath.
5 to pick up fallen leaves, collecting, rubbing, accompany children watch it like what?
Listed above are preschool children like to do things, there are many items you can design yourself, just here for example. Accompany children best when down gestures, back child, children themselves as friends, to accompany him to play, with his thinking, solving his problems, you\'ll find unexpected pleasures.
Third, take a bath for the child (if he is five years of age).
It\'s not the bathing process, but to grasp the easy feeling after washing, continuing this feeling went on to chat, talk. You may wish to accompany him:
1 take the initiative to talk about what happened when you were young.
2 led him to express their feeling, such as happiness, anguish.
3 something had occurred, but you do not understand, for example: why has been crying yesterday, why fight with children sth Said after cold reason that it would be more easily.
Four, and his friends talk, play,
A birthday party, walked into his circle of life, than the far more important observation.
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