During the gathering with friends, have enough wine and food began after some talk at the University of the people and things. Chat chatting conversation turned to the used to be one of them played a trick on classmate s body, it s what is said to make people afraid to compliment. His most obvious characteristic is to take advantage of, at that time surnamed Liu s on the class of students take it lying down, because Liu students often \"teach to teach\" S,S never dared to resist, on the contrary, some relatively \"be honest\" students, are the object of s bully. Sometimes, when we fool of s too far, none of the girls have not seen in the past, think about what s can only be \"mourning their misfortune, anger its indisputable. \"The students said, s\" treatment \"derived from the s own way of doing things. S from a background of the family, but his father die at an early age, mother of a man who put him up. Some students in the class, was probably this family environment caused the s character defects.
Possible, happened during the s childhood imperceptible things of ordinary people. Absence of a father, his little friends to bully him, dared not show his courage to fight, only to find some small children \"vent\"; also likely mother of education more tend to obedient children, not naughty, from suppressing his masculine spirit of sth
However, modern love prevails in family\'s blind spot. Even if the couple feeling very good family, also has a joke-style competition for children feeling. Especially mothers, generally more like children than their husbands attachment and wound, more like children from early knowledge of the world\'s languages spoken on the mother\'s emotional bias. Children surrounded by his mother\'s neck, with people most fresh milk at the beginning of the sound, mother is put down to cater to all in the hands of him. Often hear young mothers face proudly complained: my son I small viscosity, with his father down a wide berth. Child\'s Oedipus complex mother conscious after boot, or even exacerbate widespread in big cities of \"small family mentality tilt toward motherhood group\" trend. This potential crisis for children\'s education.
Children\'s estranged father of \"residual card\" will be revealed in the growth of children. This effect on the character of the children, is often horrifying. A feelings of fiber sensing woman writer, writing articles, mostly romantic class, her sentimental and remote good upwind shed tears, also transmitted to the shadow with the son. Son at the age of 6, dare not walk at night, turned the light off dare not to sleep, like building blocks and \"cat fish\" girls often played, such as toys, like like a girl \' s recognition of mother\'s friend, a woman whose position is roughly equivalent to a foster mother and godmother without religious or legal complications, like wearing embroidered clothes, for clothes clean, he doesn\'t like the \"wild boy\" game: climbing trees, sand, play mud sth Women writers found her son never in trouble, never playing \"well behaved like a girl\". A few years later, women writers finally grieved, she said: \"he is like a look lovely and naughty little boys do? his physical development, and his temperament is not proportionate. \"Women writers finally realized, themselves meant to be from her husband pulled his son, son to single one Thanksgiving close to himself, had imported children\'s development of the child. Winter vacation, she went active creation leave the field, to leave her son her husband, gave them a parent-child play \"men and horses thrown off their feet\"!
Significance and role of father love kids
Said so much, I do not know whether fathers were really aware of the significance and effect of children on their own. Parent love \' influence far beyond the intelligence, but also the physical, emotional, personality, and so on. Extensive research data shows that less contact with the father of the child, weight, height, growth rate should lag behind some of the areas of action, strong and widespread anxiety, low self-esteem, self-control weak affective disorders, performance anxiety, hyperactivity, dependency, what experts call \"missing parent syndrome\".
In General, babies in front of mother very quiet, and the father is very exciting. Research indicates that, in most of culture and social class in the, father often with different of way to hold baby, and mother usually each are with same of posture; father of Action General comparison rugged, like by body contact of way and baby together play, and mother is is soft peace, tendencies Yu with toys makes baby playing; father to baby more of free to expedition, does not too protection, mother is tendencies Yu doting and too protection, on baby of each action are is tension. In the United States in June 1998 parents magazine, his father is considered to be the baby\'s life has the following effects:
Is different from 1, father and mother;
2 more love, father and baby play;
3, father to the baby\'s role in promoting greater;
4, father of using language more complex;
5, father to the baby\'s constraints more;
6, father make the baby more social, he went into preparing the real world;
7, describes the role of men in real life and behavior;
8, father supports his wife;
9, helping babies to develop their potential.
From these descriptions, we can see, the father in baby\'s personality formation and behavior do play a very important role in shaping.
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