Danping Shen had disappeared some time in the public view. Not long ago, \"the husband and teach women\" Danping Shen returned to domestic showbiz. \"Woman to sing with\", her foreign husband Simon vouet in Beijing started my own company. Their love--15-year old eldest daughter Dandan and 4 year old daughter amily, followed their parents came to Beijing, a study in high school, a kindergarten nursery. As a mother of two daughters, and often to \"good woman\" image appears on the screen of the Yang Shan Danping and her new husband, on the education of their children, really has its own set of methods.
Don\'t push the children to the elderly
Though Shan Danping and her daughter were now \"become one\" with his friends, had almost no Dandan took to the field to older daughter. As with all mothers in the world, child\'s birth, early Danping Shen felt the happiness of being a mother. The difference is, this joy was always urging her to a Studio shoot of telephone, Telegraph, \"interrupted\". Was Shan Danping busiest crossing points in his career, often overseas, film, and Simon vouet was in Beijing, of his study in China as a Germany youth, school is also very nervous. Dandan the beautiful Western dolls once let Danping Shen and his wife \"a headache\". Later, Danping Shen was cruel, want to put the child to her grandmother grandfather (as far as Jiangsu) there. Unexpectedly, Simon vouet is used for the many Chinese families \"traditional practices\" does not understand, he believed that children should be father and mother, is not responsible for the children to the elderly are the most things easier and parents also have a gap over time. Finally, Shan Danping unable to dissuade Simon vouet, Dandan was also to stay in the side. Encounter Danping Shen \"front\" when the film was tight, Simon vouet, in \"rear\" provoked \"a child her mother\" burden. For some time, Simon vouet this \"foreigner\", experience with children is not \"foreigners\". Until now, read the first three days of Dandan, never had a day in the school boarding. Don\'t push the children to the elderly, it is Shan Danping from foreign husbands feel to the parenting responsibilities.
Attention to children\'s survival
Danping Shen has all along considered that China children\'s practical ability to survive is very poor, while parents in caring for their children, but also cultivate their ability to survive and live independently as soon as possible. Danping Shen said, her eldest daughter Dandan from 5 to 10 years old, grew up in the base are kiss and embrace. And now face the little daughter amily, Shan Danping more conditioning experience--a story, play games, and daughter take a bath together. Danping Shen think of mother and child physical contact is very important, because in order to give their children close to the sense and sense of security. At the same time, she also never give up any opportunity to education for children living and independent living. Such as amily has paragraph time effects in the of power plug hole to has interest, left see right see does not fun, also direct with small finger to in stamp, amily this a \"deviant\" moves was Danping Shen saw Hou, she scare out has a cold sweat, but she no scream, but gently hum with nursery rhymes near daughter, slowly to children hold to next to, daughter also with nothing if Princess direct laugh, and Danping Shen to let children understand \"electric Tiger\" of badly, old means with plug on Shanshan said: \"hand stretch in will was it bite of, bite has, baby on no hand has, no hand, baby on cannot painting has. \"Nana on dad\'s computer is also\" research \", but her\" research \"is on the computer to knock. Danping Shen then will amily \"channel\": \"amily, dad used it to make money, you broke, Daddy will not be able to earn money. \"Amily asked:\" what is money? \"Danping Shen said:\" money can buy bread and chocolate, no money, Dad can\'t give the baby to buy bread and chocolate. \"As a matter of one \'s\" stomach \", amily soon put a computer a horse.
The nearest school, not into aristocratic schools
As things are, and we all believed that stars like Danping Shen family, their children will certainly noble school, Simon vouet and the Germans in particular, children in high grade school too much. Danping Shen also had this in mind, but Simon vouet was considered, selection of children to school is not in her school \"your not aristocracy\", but in the nearer near; children their own hard work not hard work. In fact, in considering the older daughter Dandan on school issues, Shan Danping and Simon vouet was really a lot of trouble. First daughter into German nationality, mother tongue is German, but most of her time in China, into the Chinese community, had to speak Chinese. They decided in the end, Dandan was and the Chinese children, the how to learn how to learn. Fortunately, before Dandan elementary school, every year there are three or four months stay in Germany, coupled with dialogue and father, or are there certain German Foundation; in English, and no problems in school, father at home, ear drowning, dyeing, so now Dandan is Chinese, German and English all deal with. Dandan on the learning of but is about to go to high school there is a \"painful\". They live near the Winter Palace, Dandan was in a school not far from home. Said to be \"not far\", is still to go some way. In order to keep as a normal child, Shan Danping never use shuttle for married couples, then see high school Dandan homework more and more out of it, more and earlier, for security reasons, Danping Shen and his wife, and another family sharing the same residential areas of a car, shuttle back and forth.
Teach children to make one useful life
Take care of the daughter does not mean blindly doting. Danping Shen said daughter naughty and spoiled, even took her \"sister\" in bed \"crazy\" is no problem. But if we really made a mistake, she is not kind and Simon vouet. The couple is \"punishment\" of children differently. Simon vouet\'s approach is, as long as the daughter found doing wrong
What is immediately called her to the side, asking why she is doing, and then speak out my views, pointed out that his daughter where is wrong, the most important thing is to let his daughter understand why being criticized. But Danping Shen is very \"Chinese\"--put children into the room, her own reflection. \"However, child no more than 10 years old, it is best not to do so. As this will cause a child psychology of fear. \"Shan Danping said,\" my odds with daughter and then, before going to bed at night, be sure to reconciliation. Because we cannot let the child with nightmares go to bed. \"Children make mistakes, Shan Danping and Simon vouet most intolerable is the child of dishonesty. In this connection, the couple comments \"breathtaking\"--child lessons almost can make up in the future, and dishonest, but about their big questions in life. Even child adult understanding of the brain, but if distorted, harmful ruining things. Eldest daughter Dandan Danping Shen was the first time terrible: the, DANDAN said she had to a classmate in school bullying, and the student is a good friend of Dandan, Shan Danping see Dandan hair scattered, they believe. Later, ask about, the original is Dandan and other students to play together, the students a little unhappy, ran to question her, said two more people more stiff, you come to blows up. To this end, the Shan Danping sternly criticized Dandan: \"talking things to the facts, how can lie about? You do this, not only deceived me, also insult a friend, more important is reducing your personality. ”。 Shan Danping to see that Chinese parents generally think of children before the age of 30, and she and Simon vouet had a wish: teach children to the people, children can useful life.
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