Baby mother not father to do?
Dang children appears like wrapped around with mother, not father of case Shi, must don\'t anxious with blamed he, has may is do father of usual negligence on children of concern and care, and performance out of a protest reaction; to improve parent-child between of parent-child relationship, best every day spent some time accompany children together playing, and with he chat, and told story to children listen to sth sth, understanding children psychological idea, also let children understanding father of love.
Many fathers complained: \"children just like pestering my mother not father, he is my child? \"I always say:\" he was your child, but you are certainly not a warm father. ”
Causes of alienation and father
If you have such a problem, let us do a little testing, should be not difficult to figure out why. Don\'t find a reason when answering the question, yes or no? With or without? Only select one answer ....
1. do you go home every day in front of the kids didn\'t sleep?
2. you will help your child change diapers, foam milk, please?
3. have attentively accompanied children playing time 1 hour a day?
4. you say good night story, for he did accompany him for a walk or play ball?
5. do you often speak to him and holding him?
6. the children crying, you have the patience to coax him?
If more than a few simple questions, your answer is \' no \', then the child not to father is normal. Said of reality and presence of father for children, there is no difference, because in his world, you\'re just a familiar face, perhaps as father you feel uneven, is busy working every day to see who?
Baby from was born to entered youth period Qian, may is parents only can to time accompany he, and established close parent-child relationship of when, if missed, dang children slowly grew up, has has own of world, parents wanted to accompany he may even opportunities are no has, but in children most need of this stage, father is often for cause, and for make money, with off has all of spirit and time, no time accompany children is a facts, is also into has killed parent-child relationship of culprit, dang father found own in children of heart, seems to does not was attention, and and children does not parents of status appears, wants to cover often need spent is long of a time, and tried to to boot, this on father, and on children are will will is a terrible of suffering.
Interaction time is the key
Children a few ago already have parades, often appears in front of him, always hold out, those who accompany him, if not the mother, will become the object of his dependence. But at this stage if the father time enough, children stuck mother not father, emerged naturally very easily.
Actually, 3 or 4 aged Shi baby has knows expression own of preferences emotional, and does not lie, full vocational of mother on where where care has plus, regardless of where where do what will accompany in he side, relative of, father although will took with family travel, but personality does not lively of father, and help qqll job Zhijian of interactive is does not more, in where where of world in and no habits father accompany Ah! Only when the car where the where the only feel the existence of the father because MOM can\'t drive, help qqll job you just learn to talk, even called the taxi driver \"Dad\", perhaps in his cognitive, driving is Daddy here!
Personality affect parent-child relationship
In addition to father is too busy, Dad\'s personality sometimes leads to children do not want to or can\'t close, particularly naturally shy baby more vulnerable, with a few small problems to test, if the unpopular father?
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